"Even if the whole world abandons you, I will save you." This is the promise made by Wang Jian, a young man in Wuxi, to his seriously ill girlfriend.
In 2019, Wang Jian's girlfriend Liu Huan was critically ill in her hometown, and after Wang Jian learned of this news, he traveled more than 4,000 kilometers to take his girlfriend from the mountains to Changzhou for treatment and raise medical expenses for her.
Although many people advised him not to be stupid, Wang Jian resolutely decided to save his girlfriend.
Wang Jian's move also touched countless people around him.
His girlfriend suffered from tuberculosis infection and returned home for treatment
In August 2018, 27-year-old Wang Jian met Liu Huan, a girl in Guiyang, on the Internet, and the two got along very well and quickly established a relationship.
Not long after, Liu Huan came to Wuxi from Guizhou to work with Wang Jian.
Liu Huan came from a mountain in Guizhou and came from a poor family.
Liu Huan is the eldest in the family, when she was 14 years old, forced to help, she left her hometown to work outside.
When Wang Jian first met Liu Huan, she had never bought clothes for more than 100 yuan, and she was usually reluctant to eat and drink. Whenever she was paid, she left only a small part for daily expenses, and the rest of the money was sent home.
After the two people determined the relationship, under the influence of Liu Huan, Wang Jian, who had originally spent a lot of money, changed a lot.
He decided to save money slowly, and then buy a small house that could shelter him from the wind and rain, and give Liu Huan a home.
What no one expected was that when the two were imagining a better life in the future, bad luck was quietly coming.
After three months together, one day, Liu Huan suddenly told Wang Jian that she felt uncomfortable in her stomach, and felt that she had not eaten much in the past few days, and her stomach had become larger.
When Wang Jianyi heard it, he thought that his girlfriend had eaten something bad, but he did not dare to delay and took his girlfriend to the hospital.
After the examination at the hospital, the doctor told Wang Jian that Liu Huan was suffering from a nodular infection.
Now her stomach is full of water and needs to be hospitalized immediately, otherwise the more it drags on, the more dangerous it is.
Wang Jian quickly went through the hospitalization procedures for his girlfriend, and then took care of her step by step.
Since the two people's savings were not much, Liu Huan's daily medical expenses were also quite large, and Wang Jian soon ran out of money.
But at this time, Wang Jian still did not want to give up, he borrowed money everywhere to collect medical expenses, and owed a debt of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan for this.
After Liu Huan was treated in Changzhou for a period of time, his condition improved slightly.
At this time, Liu Huan received a call from Liu Huan's parents in Guizhou, it turned out that her parents learned that their daughter was sick and hospitalized outside, because the family was not rich, they could not afford the high treatment fee, so they hoped that she could return to her hometown in Guizhou for treatment.
Liu Huan has been an obedient child since she was a child, plus she does not want to continue to drag Wang Jian down.
So he left Changzhou and returned to his hometown.
After Liu Huan received more than a month of traditional Chinese medicine treatment in his hometown, not only was he not cured, but he dragged on more and more seriously.
Liu Huan's family was originally poor, and they all relied on their father to move things to others to earn money to support the family.
In order to treat their daughter's illness, Liu Huan's parents took Liu Huan to a number of local hospitals, spent all the family's money, and borrowed a lot of money.
Later, Liu Huan's condition became more and more serious.
Liu Huan's parents hurriedly took her to the hospital again, only this time, after the doctor examined Liu Huan, he said that her current condition was too serious, even if how to treat it was just a waste of time, and threw money into it in vain.
So he persuaded them to take Liu Huan home and gave Liu Huan a notice of critical illness.
Liu Huan's parents did not want to give up their daughter like this, so they took her to another hospital.
Who knew that the doctors at this hospital had seen Liu Huan's situation and said that they could not be treated here, and said that Liu Huan's time was running out.
In this way, Liu Huan's parents could not see any hope, so they had to stop treatment and take Liu Huan back home.
The girlfriend's life was hanging in the balance, and Wang Jian decided to take her back to Changzhou for treatment
In February 2019, after Liu Huan was rejected by the hospital, she had no strength to stand up again and could only lie helplessly in bed all day.
Liu Huan's parents also wash their faces with tears every day, watching their daughter's life pass day by day, but they can't do anything.
At the beginning, she could still chat with Wang Jian every day, and at this time, Wang Jian was also full of joy waiting for the return of his girlfriend.
Later, Liu Huan felt that she was getting weaker and weaker, and she couldn't bear to let her boyfriend wait for no deadline.
On February 21, 2019, she sent a message to Wang Jian: "Our hospital here has already given me a critical illness notice, no one is willing to accept me, you don't have to wait for me anymore." ”
At more than 10 o'clock in the evening, Wang Jian saw the message sent by his girlfriend, so he called Liu Huan.
Only then did he know the truth about his girlfriend.
It turned out that in order not to let him worry, Liu Huan had been reporting good news and not worrying, saying that when her illness was cured, she would immediately return to Changzhou to see him.
Liu Huan felt that he really couldn't hold on any longer, so he had to tell him the truth.
After Wang Jian learned of this bad news, he quickly made a decision: he would take Liu Huan and let her receive treatment in Changzhou.
Therefore, he said to Liu Huan: "You are waiting for me, I will go to you immediately, and I will definitely save you." ”
At that time, Wang Jian told his friend about this idea.
And the friend felt incredible, he felt that Wang Jian was "making a fool": "Do you know that the treatment of the disease is a bottomless pit, you can't think of how much money will be spent in the follow-up." Otherwise, you will give her ten thousand yuan, which is also considered to be the end of benevolence and righteousness. ”
Another friend also reminded Wang Jian, "Even if you save her, will she be with you in the future?" Are things ahead of us? ”
The persuasion of his friend did not shake Wang Jian in the slightest, and he was determined to treat his girlfriend:
"No matter what happens in the future, but now a life is in front of me, if I don't save her, no one can save her, do I have to watch her wait there to die?" 」
Traveled 4,000 kilometers to pick up his girlfriend for treatment
On February 23, Wang Jian set off from Changzhou early in the morning, and he first flew to Guiyang by plane, and then took a black car and a motorcycle to the foot of Liu Huan's family.
When he climbed to Liu Huan's house, it was already more than 5 p.m.
Although he knew that Liu Huan's family was not well off, when he saw it with his own eyes, Wang Jian was still shocked.
Liu Huan's home is on a mountain, there is not even a neighbor around, the walls are full of traces of wall skin peeling, and the bricks are exposed.
Even the doors and windows were incomplete, and they were whistling and pouring wind into the house.
After entering the room, the moment he saw Liu Huan, Wang Jian could no longer control his tears.
He couldn't believe that the man lying in bed, skinny and gaunt, was actually his girlfriend.
Seeing Liu Huan's appearance, Wang Jian's heart was broken.
When Liu Huan left Changzhou, he was still 120 pounds, and every day was happy.
And now, in just over a month, she has lost only 70 pounds, her hips are full of rotten sores, and she can only lie on this bed and wait for the arrival of death.
Wang Jian also learned from Liu Huan's parents that Liu Huan had not eaten for two days.
The doctor said that she did not have a few days, but after learning that Wang Jian was coming, she still insisted on it for two days.
Wang Jian knelt down in front of Liu Huan's bed and made a promise to her: "I must cure you, even if the whole world gives up on you, I will never give up." Liu Huan had tears in his eyes, smiled and nodded.
Liu Huan's parents met Wang Jian for the first time, and Liu Huan was afraid that they would oppose it and did not tell his family about his love affair.
When they saw that Wang Jian was so affectionate, they were also relieved.
Wang Jian was also worried that Liu Huan would not adapt, and decided to invite Liu Huan's parents to Go to Changzhou together, and Wang Jian paid for food, lodging, and travel expenses.
On February 24, Wang Jian borrowed a wheelchair and planned to push Liu Huan to the road.
But more often, he was worried that Liu Huan would be uncomfortable in a wheelchair and would hold her.
At 6 o'clock in the morning, they had already arrived at Guiyang Airport, but the rush along the way made Liu Huan very weak.
They were supposed to be on a plane at 6:50 but the flight was delayed due to heavy fog that day.
Sitting in the lobby of the airport, Wang Jian was worried, he knew that it was not easy for Liu Huan to survive here, and this might be her last hope.
If there was any further delay, he did not dare to imagine the consequences.
Wang Jian kept saying to Liu Huan in his arms: "Just wait until the plane arrives, no matter what, you must hold on." ”
Although Liu Huan felt very tired, she still tried to stay awake, she was afraid that she would never wake up again after she slept.
It was after 10 o'clock that they were notified of boarding.
On the plane, he always held Liu Huan. In the eyes of outsiders, this is a very loving little couple, even on a plane reluctant to separate.
Only Wang Jian knew how shaking his hand holding Liu Huan was, he did not dare to let others know Liu Huan's current situation, he was afraid that the airline would not let Liu Huan get on the plane, and Liu Huan could not afford to wait any longer.
Wang Jian's friends were already waiting for them at the Nanjing airport, and after getting off the plane, they immediately rushed to the Third People's Hospital of Changzhou City.
After more than 4,000 kilometers of back and forth, Wang Jian has always had a heart hanging.
Wang Jian carried Liu Huan all the way, and when Liu Huan was in his arms, he truly felt Liu Huan's thinness, and he was even afraid that Liu Huan would leave like this. The moment he saw the doctor, he was relieved.
The doctor did his best to treat Liu Huan
Liu Huan's attending physician is Xu Tianmin, a well-known infectious disease doctor, and on February 23, Wang Jian went from many places to find Director Xu's phone number.
That night, Director Xu received a strange call, and the person who made the call was Wang Jian in Guizhou.
Wang Jian first told Liu Huan about the situation, and then, Director Xu heard the young man on the other side slightly choking and pleading: "Please Director Xu, many hospitals will not accept it, please save her." ”
In the end, at Wang Jian's pleading, Xu Tianmin promised to rescue Liu Huan.
On February 24, Director Xu was supposed to rest on this day, and he rushed to the hospital to work overtime.
While waiting, he had been worried that Liu Huan would not be able to hold up the rush of the road, and when he saw Wang Jian holding Liu Huan in the hospital, the stone in his heart also fell to the ground.
The doctors were also touched by Wang Jian's friendship, and they decided to do their best to heal Liu Huan.
After examining Liu Huan, the doctors found that her condition was far more serious than expected.
Because there was no thorough treatment in Changzhou before, it was delayed for more than a month when I was in Guizhou.
When Liu Huan came here, she now suffered from tuberculous peritonitis.
And at this time, she had a high fever, severe anemia, intestinal adhesions and intestinal obstruction, and was accompanied by thick toxic shock.
Liu Huan still had a large amount of dirt in his abdominal cavity, and his intestines also ruptured, causing poisoning, and almost half of his feet stepped into the ghost gate.
In order not to allow the infection to expand and threaten Liu Huan's life, the doctor cleaned the dirt in her abdominal cavity for her.
Subsequently, the doctors of the Infection Department of the Third Hospital held consultations for Liu Huan.
In addition, they also invited experts from the Gastrointestinal Surgery Department of Changzhou Second People's Hospital to participate in the consultation and formulate a treatment plan for Liu Huan. It is mainly to help Liu Huan fight infection and provide support for whole body nutrition.
The doctor told Wang Jian that Liu Huan still needed to survive many difficulties, and if there were special circumstances, surgery was also needed.
Considering their financial situation, the hospital has also tried to reduce some of the costs.
However, it is conservatively estimated that the cost of subsequent treatment may be 200,000 or 300,000 yuan.
Wang Jian was just an ordinary worker in Changzhou, with a monthly income of five or six thousand.
Because he still owed some money to Liu Huan for treatment before, he still had to repay the loan every month.
And Liu Huan was lying in the ward, the daily hospitalization fee was five or six thousand, and Wang Jian had a hard time paying the hospitalization fee every day, not to mention the subsequent treatment cost.
Wang Jian's family was not rich, but after his parents learned of this situation, they sent more than 10,000 yuan to their son.
The son's behavior is enough to make them proud.
In order to treat Liu Huan's illness, Wang Jian borrowed all his friends who could borrow money.
And he is just an ordinary clerk, at night, Wang Jian will go out to drive an online car to make money, he even wants to find another part-time job, just to make more money, because every penny he earns now is a continuation of Liu Huan's life.
However, these are obviously a drop in the bucket in the face of huge medical expenses.
Society extended a helping hand widely
Therefore, Wang Jian launched a request for help on the public welfare platform, and many strangers donated money for them and encouraged Liu Huan to be sure to refuel.
The doctors were also touched by the previous love between Wang Jian and Liu Huan, spontaneously donated money for the two of them, and also mobilized people around them to help them.
On February 25, looking at the haggard faces of her parents and boyfriend, she said to her parents sensibly: "I am much better, I want to go home, we are not cured." ”
Hearing her daughter's words, Liu Huan's parents couldn't help but shed tears, and Wang Jian told her, "You don't have to worry about these things, I said I will save you and you will definitely do it." ”
On February 26, after receiving three days of treatment, Liu Huan had a significant improvement, and a long-lost blood color appeared on his face.
Seeing Liu Huan's changes, Wang Jian was very excited, as long as he could save Liu Huan, he would not feel tired no matter how much he did.
On this day, Wang Jian received a total of more than 36,000 yuan in donations.
However, it is still far from the cost of follow-up treatment of 300,000 yuan.
After the story of Wang Jian and Liu Huan was learned by the media, he came to the hospital to interview them.
Under the camera, Liu Huan lay on the bed and said with tearful eyes: "When I am well, I want to be with him." ”
And Wang Jian also held her hand tightly, standing in front of the hospital bed and crying many times: "No matter what, you have to hold on." When you're well, we'll go everywhere to see the scenery. ”
After their deeds were widely reported, the story of the Wuxi boys who traveled 4,000 kilometers to pick up their girlfriends from the mountains for treatment was also moved by countless people.
Indeed, in today's impetuous society, such love is rare. The promise of "back to the whole world to save you" is easy to say, but it is not easy to do.
On February 27, in just half a day, Wang Jian's fundraising received quickly increased by more than 100,000.
Because Liu Huan had paid medical insurance when she was working in Changzhou before, but because her work had never stabilized, medical insurance payments were intermittent and had not been done well.
After the Third People's Hospital of Changzhou learned of this situation, it contacted the local medical insurance center and told them about Liu Huan's situation.
After coordination, the medical insurance center helped Liu Huan to renew the interrupted medical insurance.
As the saying goes, rules are dead, but people are alive.
This move of the medical insurance center also reflects the purpose of serving the people.
Sometimes, a small change may save a family.
The three hospitals in Changzhou have reduced a lot of medical expenses for them, and with the support of medical insurance, most of the medical expenses can be reimbursed.
With the help of well-wishers in the society, Wang Jian received 5731 donations, totaling 241537 yuan.
Wang Jian calculated the follow-up treatment costs and felt that he could already afford Liu Huan's treatment costs.
So he closed the link to the donation.
Wang Jian said: "Thank you for your help to us, so that we can get through this difficult time." We will definitely finish the next journey. I hope that everyone's donations can help those who need more. ”
Under the treatment of doctors from the Three Hospitals of Changzhou, Liu Huan gradually escaped from the danger of life.
Wang Jian said that the donations of well-wishers will all be used for Liu Huan's treatment, and if there is a balance in the follow-up, they will donate this money to pass on everyone's love to people with the same difficulties.
What is love? There is no one-size-fits-all answer.
Wang Jian and Liu Huan have known each other for only four months, and in the face of danger, he chose to face it with his girlfriend.
Wang Jian, with his selfless love, traveled 4,000 kilometers to save his girlfriend's life.
Only because of Wang Jian's sentence "I will definitely save you", Liu Huan, who was sick and bedridden, strengthened her faith, gritted her teeth and waited for his arrival, and her boyfriend was her last hope.
In the end, Wang Jian did not live up to Liu Huan's expectations and pulled her back from the ghost gate.
Liu Huan also gritted his teeth and insisted for Wang Jian, stubbornly fighting against the disease.
Once upon a time, cars and horses were slow to mail, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
Nowadays, the fast-paced life even love has become faster, and many people say that love is not credible.
However, the poignant love between Wang Jian and Liu Huan has made us understand that not abandoning is the best way to love.
bibliography:
Yangtze Evening News: "The whole world has given up on you, I will also save you" The boy traveled 4,000 kilometers to pick up his girlfriend from Guiyang and returned to Changzhou for treatment
The boy traveled thousands of kilometers just to save his seriously ill girlfriend