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Su Xiaoyu, this post-00s boy, always has a smile on his childish face and looks very sunny.
In the past few days, Su Xiaoyu has become popular on the Internet, and the reason for becoming popular is that Su Xiaoyu has used the strength of one person to feed the whole family of four.
His father was unable to work due to multiple illnesses, his mother was paralyzed by cerebral hemorrhage, his brother also suffered from schizophrenia and depression, and his sister was married, which was his whole family relationship.
His family situation determines that Su Xiaoyu must support the family at this age, so he usually relies on farming and odd jobs to subsidize the family, and he will also pick up waste products when he is free.
Odd jobs can only be done for half a day, because there are still three people in the family who need his care, he has to do housework and cook for the family.
Such a very hard life in everyone's eyes, Su Xiaoyu does not think so, whenever he thinks of his parents and needs him, he is full of fighting spirit, and he can also find fun from ordinary life.
Watching his videos, every frame is a love for life, mom and dad can't go out, it's inevitable that they are in a bad mood, he can always make some tricks on the meal to comfort his parents.
Although this trick seems to us to be just a few grilled sausages, or very ordinary things, it is a love for his family here in Su Xiaoyu.
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After Su Xiaoyu became popular, many people sympathized with this post-00 boy, who supported the whole family at such a young age and arranged his life from home to the field in an orderly manner.
The boy's sunshine and kindness attracted a lot of attention, and with it came the skepticism.
Many people question that Su Xiaoyu's popularity has a team and a script.
Some people say that Su Xiaoyu in the video often wears new clothes and does not look like a rural person.
Su Xiaoyu responded, who stipulates that rural people cannot wear new clothes?
Some people say that Su Xiaoyu's video is like a script.
A reporter specifically visited Su Xiaoyu's home, and he also longed that his life was the script, hoping that all this was fake.
Some people question that he has a team behind him, and he also admits that he has a team, and his team is nature.
In today's traffic-based era, it is normal to have doubts, after all, some people do use the misery to attract people's attention and attract traffic.
But questioning is questioning, we must be rational, do not expose this boy.
Words of praise can come out of the mouth, and words of harm must be thought twice.
He shoots videos to share his life, and the live broadcast is just to chat with people, so that his life is a little fun, not to mention that when he opens the live broadcast, he often turns off the tipping function.
Children at this age, life is very bitter, there are many responsibilities, but also need some sweetness to add some color to life, help, in the end he is still a child.
Just like many people questioned Ding Zhen at the beginning, although life is very hard, he is very happy and prefers to change his hairstyle, which is the vitality they should have at this age.
This is the energy of teenagers, no matter how hard life is, they can always dance joyfully in the ruins.
They are energetic and positive, but they can also be lost and depressed, but they will also be sad, and children of this age have not experienced too much wind and rain, so when the wind and rain come, they may be helpless.
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Liu Xuezhou, who has just passed away, is also a sunny and cheerful boy who loves to laugh in front of people, who has experienced many tribulations since he was a child and has grown into a teenager.
At this stage, children have strong self-esteem, are easy to care about the evaluation of others, are not mature enough, and are not easy to come out in the face of online exposure.
Coupled with the fact that Liu Xuezhou himself has suffered from depression and is more likely to go to extremes, so the network exposure has become the last straw that crushed the camel.
Although Su Xiaoyu is luckier than Liu Xuezhou, the burden on the child's shoulders is very heavy, his parents are not able to enlighten him, his brother is depressed, and he has also said that he has taken drugs to relieve anxiety.
From here, we can see that this child must have done a lot of psychological construction behind his back before deciding to share his life.
Or maybe he didn't even think about the consequences of sharing his life.
Not only does he have the sunshine and cheerfulness in the video, he also has loss and anxiety, but he just wants to share his good side with everyone.
His smile every day, the new clothes in the video, it's all a boy's self-esteem.
He was an ordinary man, to be precise, an ordinary child.
Those ordinary people's children have the psychological characteristics that are unique to this age, and we must see this side.
It was a secret he had not said, but a sane adult must think of it.
A person with a strong heart either has a lot of love, or has a lot of experience and tribulations, but for Su Xiaoyu, he can't be strong at this age.
Liu Xuezhou has been hurt by the network exposure, we must be rational in dealing with Su Xiaoyu, and his family situation needs our understanding and support.
If everyone can be kind, give guidance and support on his life path, help him avoid pitfalls, and let him grow well, this is our responsibility as netizens, and it is also the responsibility of our society.
In Professor Li Meijin's book, too many children have embarked on the evil road because of family changes.
And now that there is such a child, bravely taking on family responsibilities and sharing his life, what we should do is to guide him like a parent, teach him experience, help him tide over difficulties, and successfully grow into a useful person to society.
I hope that you and I can stick to our social responsibilities, instead of pushing a simple teenager into the abyss and making him a victim of network exposure.
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