Life is a rare practice, don't easily hand over the white paper.
In 2013, when 30-year-old Hu Ge participated in a talk show, he was asked by the host: "In thirty years of life, what is your most regrettable thing?" ”
Hu Ge shook his head a little, and then said: "After I came back from the hospital in a car accident that year, when I was interviewed by the media, I basically thanked all the people, but there was only one person I did not thank, that is, my girlfriend at the time, which is my biggest regret." ”
Yes, Hu Ge has left regrets in his life, especially in feelings:
Again and again, I thought that I could join hands with the people I liked, but in the end I was forced by reality to turn around and say goodbye.
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In 1982, a boy was born in a family in Xuhui, Shanghai, named Hu Ke, which was later Hu Ge.
In the same year, in the far north of Harbin, there was a 4-year-old girl named Xue Jianing, who showed a certain artistic talent and was learning to sing and dance.
Also in Shanghai, there are still four years before a girl named Jiang Shuying was born, and there is still a distance of N film and television dramas from the intersection of the three people.
At this time, none of the three people thought that in the future, they would appear in their lives in different identities and ways.
Perhaps Hu Ge was born to become a star, and he has been associated with art since he was a child.
When he was in kindergarten, Hu Ge stood out from more than 30,000 children and was selected by the Shanghai Radio and Television Station's Little Screen Star Art Troupe to study art, becoming a disciple of Lu Yi and Ma Yili.
Of course, Hu Ge not only learned some talents in school, but also exercised certain leadership skills:
He has served as a class leader in the class, and has served as the director of the radio station in the school and the president of the school drama club.
In 1996, 14-year-old Hu Ge participated in the recruitment of middle school student hosts at Shanghai Education Television Station, and finally broke through and was successfully elected as the host of the program "Sunshine Youth", laying the foundation for the future to embark on the road to stardom.
The host of this program, Hu Ge, has been doing it for several years, and has also mixed with a small reputation in the local area, and has guest starred in some film and television works, such as the movie "National Anthem", the voice actor of the animated movie "Pauline Lantern" and so on.
In this regard, Hu Ge, who was deeply affected by performance, decided to apply for an art school to formally study acting, and wanted to become an actor.
In 2001, Hu Ge was admitted to two colleges and universities (Central Academy of Drama and Shanghai Theater Academy) with his own efforts, and his professional results were very good, one was second and the other was third.
But after weighing the pros and cons, Hu Ge chose the Shanghai Theater Academy, which is closer to home, and has time to take care of his family.
At this time, Xue Jianing has been debuting for many years, and is playing Li Fengjie, the treasurer of the Dragon And Phoenix Shop, in the TV series "Smart Little Don't Understand" starring Zhang Weijian and Li Bingbing, and many viewers are deeply impressed by it.
Jiang Shuying, who is 4 years younger than Hu Ge, is studying at the Shanghai Commercial School, and there are still 3 years before he is admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Subsequently, the 19-year-old Hu Ge officially stepped into the dream actor pursuit path, and was about to usher in the first career turning point in his life.
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When he was a freshman in college, Hu Ge was favored by the Tang Dynasty Film Company because of his talent and appearance, and directly signed him into his name, ready to praise him for his official debut.
In this way, Hu Ge slowly approached the film and television circle under the company's arrangement, first shooting some simple advertisements, and then playing a supporting role in some film and television drama works.
It was in the process of participating in film and television dramas that Hu Ge had the opportunity to meet Xue Jianing, who was 4 years older than himself.
In 2003, Hu Ge and Xue Jianing met because of the TV series "Unparalleled in the World", when Hu Ge just happened to often go to the crew to visit "good friend" Yuan Hong, and after a long time, he met Xue Jianing, who was also in the crew.
However, the status of the two in the entertainment industry at that time was completely different: Hu Ge was just a small actor who had just debuted, while Xue Jianing had already played many roles and had a certain reputation in the circle.
It was not until 2005 that Hu Ge became popular with the role of Li Xiaoyao in the TV series "The Legend of the Paladin Sword", and quickly became a "popular fried chicken" in the circle.
That year, the 23-year-old Hu Ge became the Li Xiaoyao in the hearts of countless audiences, and his career began to go up, and the love he pursued silently also ushered in the results:
Hu Ge and Xue Jianing officially came together, but did not officially open their relationship in front of the media.
When Hu Ge was immersed in the double harvest of love and career, The heavens seemed to be a little reluctant to let him live so smoothly, so they suddenly gave him an accident:
In 2006, Hu Ge, who participated in the filming of the TV series "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter", was on his way back to Shanghai from Hengdian when he encountered a sudden car accident and was seriously injured, and his friend and assistant Zhang Mian was seriously injured and died.
For the death of his friend Zhang Mian, Hu Ge has not completely put it down until now, no matter how busy he is every year, he will go to worship him, and in his name, donate 30 Hope Primary Schools.
After more than 6 hours of rescue, Hu Ge, who was seriously injured, woke up, but his neck and right eye were stitched with more than 130 stitches, and his face was basically a serious injury.
For Hu Ge, who is in the ascending stage of his career, the face is undoubtedly very fatal, and it is likely to lead to the death of his career that is not easy to get up, just like Yu Haoming, who later burned his face.
At that time, Hu Ge could be said to be deeply shocked, and he was once depressed, but fortunately, with the encouragement of his friends and girlfriends, he gradually came out of that shadow:
Since the heavens can't take away their own lives like this, then in the future, they must live well, live more meaningfully, and live their own wonderful lives.
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In 2007, Hu Ge, who was discharged from the hospital after recovery, officially announced his comeback and continued to shoot the unfinished TV series "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter".
However, in the process of completing this work, Hu Ge's body and mind were deeply tormented:
On the one hand, you need to bear the pressure of work, and you need to endure the torture caused by facial scars.
After filming this TV series, Hu Ge frantically vented the negative emotions he had endured for a long time, did not care about the eyes of others, and let the tears flow down.
In this regard, many people feel that the future Hu Ge is like this, and there will not be much improvement in the career.
However, the later Hu Ge hit many people in the face with one classic work after another, making them call out the true fragrance one by one:
In 2009, once the TV series "Legend of the Paladin Sword 3" was broadcast, it quickly became popular all over the country, and Hu Ge caught fire again, yang Mi, Huo Jianhua, Tang Yan, Liu Shishi and others also began to become popular;
In 2010, the 28-year-old Hu Ge once again pushed his career to a new peak with the role of Yi Xiaochuan in the TV series "Myth";
After several years of precipitation, Hu Geyin played the role of the brave and clever Mingtai in the TV series "The Pretender", so that the audience understood that he not only acted well in costume plays, but also other dramas were also invincible;
Subsequently, Hu Ge starred in the role of Mei Changsu in the TV series "Langya List" and directly became a god, which became the "ceiling" of costume dramas in recent years.
After watching the entire TV series, let the audience not forget for a long time, as if Hu Ge is Mei Changsu himself, elegant and domineering.
Since then, Hu Ge's career has reached the peak, and almost no one can threaten his position in the entertainment industry, becoming a powerful actor liked by countless men and women.
However, just when the cause slowly achieved a counterattack, or even better, his love never ushered in a good result.
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At the end of 2008, Hu Ge's relationship with his girlfriend Xue Jianing came to an end and announced a peaceful breakup.
At this time, it was still a distance away from playing indescribable things with Jiang Shuying, and there was still a "Whirlwind Eleven".
In fact, no one can predict the direction of love.
All we can do is do our best to put it in a good direction, and if it ends early, we can only say goodbye to each other.
As for the reasons for the two to break up, there were many opinions at the time:
Some people say that Hu Ge's mother thinks that Xue Jianing's age is too old and always disagrees with this relationship, and finally Hu Ge chooses to break up in order not to make her mother sad;
Some people also say that it is because the two get together less and leave more, each busy with their own career, resulting in a gradual weakening of feelings, and finally to the situation of breaking up.
However, no matter what the reason for the two broke up, they never spoke ill of each other, but blessed each other well.
In 2012, when Hu Ge was asked by host Lu Yu about his relationship with Xue Jianing on the show, he said a little choked up:
"She's fine, she's really a really nice person, after all I missed it."
Similarly, when Xue Jianing was asked by the media about Hu Ge, who regarded the fire, she smiled and said:
"As a good friend, I'm especially happy for him, he's too hot now, I'm not involved."
Indeed, when a relationship comes to an end, the best decency we can give to each other is:
Wish each other well and don't bother too much.
Because excessive interruption is very impolite for someone who has ever loved.
In 2013, the 31-year-old Hu Ge and Jiang Shuying, who was 4 years younger than himself, became acquainted with a "Whirlwind Eleven" and ushered in a new relationship.
The relationship between the two was exposed because of an airport love: the two almost missed the plane because of sweet feeding, and were urgently sought out by the airport radio.
Subsequently, the two were photographed by the media kissing on the street late at night and holding hands back to the residence together.
For the love affair between the two, Hu Ge did not deny it, but bravely stood up and admitted.
The two people in love have always been affectionate and do not care about the public's evaluation, but the result is a bit unsatisfactory.
Maybe a lot of beautiful things, God doesn't want to make them perfect, will always quietly leave a certain regret in it!
On a quiet night, a drunken Hu Ge tweeted: "It's not that you don't fit here, it's that I don't fit here." ”
In this regard, the melon-eating masses have speculated that he broke up with his girlfriend Jiang Shuying.
Sure enough, not long after, Hu Ge and Jiang Shuying officially announced their breakup, but the reason for the breakup is unknown.
Since then, Hu Ge has not had a new love affair exposed, and has been in the state of "single nobleman", becoming the only "left-behind child" in the Xianjian.
Perhaps for Hu Ge, it is very regrettable emotionally, but fortunately, he has really experienced it and seriously loved it.
Life can leave regrets, but it is absolutely impossible to remember without a trace of good things.
The things that should be experienced still have to be experienced, and don't worry too much about not having good results.
It may be regrettable to miss it, but it's better than not meeting and experiencing each other.
Because there was always such a person in my heart at that time, it was worth saying: Thank you, let me meet.