<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="61" > preface</h1>
The most important thing in marriage is fidelity, and once there is no fidelity in marriage, there is no need for feelings to last.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="60" >meme: Ms. Yan, 56 years old</h1>
My husband and I have been living for decades, although the relationship was very good when I was young, but now, there is no longer any topic between the two of us; my husband is not retired now, every day there is only my own person in the family, originally our relationship in the thirties, has been estranged, plus he does not have much time to accompany me, I feel that living with my husband is not interesting.
But I can't get a divorce, because we are older and already have children, and now divorce is not a good thing, it is not a good thing for me or for my husband, so even if our feelings are not very good, we have not filed for divorce, but choose to try to endure each other's bad, but such a day makes me feel very depressed.
And as a woman, I slept in a room with my husband, no matter what, I felt inappropriate, so later I chose to betray my husband, planning to ask for it from others, and I couldn't get the love and care from my husband; after I had the idea of betraying my husband, I began to consider what kind of person to look for as a lover, after all, if I found someone who was too familiar, it was very likely that my husband would find out.
But unfamiliar people, there may be major changes, just when I was very embarrassed, my young ex, just returned from the field, and just happened to meet each other while I was shopping, but I did not want to choose to let the ex be my lover, after all, I was afraid that the lover would force me to divorce my husband and then let me be with him, so I did not mention this matter.
We stood on the street and talked for a while, and then decided to go to the tavern together to have two drinks, after all these years have not seen each other, everyone misses each other very much, even if our relationship is not as good as before, but a simple recounting of the past is still OK, after arriving at the tavern, I ordered a few small dishes with my predecessor, and a few bottles of beer, so we talked like this, it was already evening, so it was a little dark.
When I left the tavern with my ex, it was estimated that it was already eight or nine o'clock in the evening, but at that time I didn't know exactly what time it was, because I drank a little too much, and the whole person walked with a feeling of lightness, I was afraid that if I walked, I would fall, so I let my ex help me go, originally I let my ex help me go home, but I didn't know what happened, my ex actually took me to the hotel.
But at that time, because of the alcohol, I didn't know whether I was in the hotel or at home, and then my ex helped me to the hotel room and put me on the bed, I was already asleep; when I got up the next day, I found that I had spent the night in the hotel, and the ex was lying next to me, and when I looked at the scene in the room, I understood what happened last night.
But I didn't make any radical moves, because last night, I drank a lot of wine with my ex, and it was a matter of course that he couldn't take me home, but what I didn't expect was that the two of us accidentally had a relationship, originally I wanted to blame my ex, but after my ex woke up, he kept saying sweet words to me, and even made many promises to me.
So I didn't say anything more in the end, but chose to accept all this quietly, but when I remembered that I had not returned overnight, I was completely frightened; after all, as a married woman, but I did not come home all night, my husband would definitely be suspicious of me, and after thinking of this, I did not say anything more to my ex-introvert, but directly sorted out my clothes, and then hurried home.
When I got home I didn't see my husband, so I was relieved for a while, and then I thought of an excuse and waited for tonight to explain it to my husband; soon it was evening, and the husband returned home as usual, he opened the door and entered the house, put his coat on the coat rack, and then went to the sofa and sat down.
When I saw my husband come back, he immediately brought him a cup of hot water and put it in front of him, but he didn't pay any attention to me, but instead took some documents out of his briefcase, and then he asked me to sit next to him, and then said to me: "Where did you go last night?" I immediately replied with an excuse I had come up with during the day: "I drank with my girlfriend downstairs last night, and because I drank a little too much, I slept directly at her house." ”
My husband replied to me, "Are you sure?" Why is it different from what I know? When I saw this, I immediately replied to him: "Why don't you believe me?" What have I lied to you about over the years? The husband suddenly said solemnly: "If you don't say it, you and I know it anyway, and if you don't say it, I know what you did with the man last night." ”
After saying that, my husband took out the divorce agreement and put it in front of me, and said to me: "Sign the divorce", I was shocked at the time, I immediately said to my husband: "Sorry husband, last night's incident was really an accident, you forgive me once, I didn't expect to end up like that, do you forgive me?" ”
I very sincerely wanted to ask my husband's forgiveness, but my husband did not care at all, directly forced me to sign the agreement, I saw my husband's attitude, I knew that there was no room for this matter, there was no way I could only sign the divorce agreement in the end; so I divorced my husband, but until now I still do not understand why my husband refuses to forgive me.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="58" > Conclusion:</h1>
Ms. Yan betrayed her husband, but she still wanted her husband to forgive him, which was simply impossible.