<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > preface</h1>
Some people think that extramarital feelings that do not have a sexual relationship are not cheating, so it is very wrong to say that the cheater has betrayed the lover from the heart, even if he has not had sex with others, his emotional focus is no longer in the family. It can be said that emotional infidelity is worse than physical infidelity.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >meme: Ms. Li</h1>
I was born in the 80s, has passed the year of standing, my husband and I grew up in the young plum bamboo horse, went to school together, and even entered the same university, because I was afraid of confessing failure even friends can not do, so each other like each other did not dare to confess, close to the graduation of the days, my love for him is more obvious, because of the fear of running after graduation, there is no opportunity to contact and miss each other, so he plucked up the courage to confess to me, at that time I felt surprised and moved, I was with him, in the days together, he did not provoke me to be angry, He remembers what I say and is happy to be with him every day
After graduating from his passionate love for a year, I chose to join hands in the palace of marriage, half a year later, a little angel came to our home, at that time I thought I could live carefree, but at this time, my mother-in-law suddenly fell ill, my mother-in-law could not leave people to take care of me, and my parents could not spare time to take care of me at this time, because my husband was a business executive, busy all day sleeping and forgetting to eat, so he was even more unlikely to take care of me.
I thought in my heart, although my husband is busy at work, I can't take time to take care of me, but I can't let him give up his career because of himself, although I want him to accompany me more than anyone, I can only take care of the confinement by myself, but I don't know how to take care of my confinement at all, so I often have cold hands and feet, shoulders and legs are sore, my hands and feet are cold, my heart is getting more and more anxious, my temper has also changed a lot, often impatient to yell at my husband, my husband is very tired after a day of work, and he has to endure me Later, we often quarreled. Neither side bowed their heads and gave in
What disappointed me was that my husband was busy at work and did not have the energy to take care of the family, and my in-laws ignored our family all day, at that time I especially wanted to divorce, but when I remembered that we still had children, and my husband did not do anything special, I digested my grievances.
This kind of day is really painful for me, this kind of day I don't want to go on for a day, in a casual dinner, met my company boss, in the face of him full of charm, I can't find a reason to refuse, his family is very rich, when I am with him, he can meet all my material needs, I don't need to think about what to buy, he is also very good to me.
So I enjoyed being with him, because my husband and in-laws didn't care, so I didn't feel guilty about my husband.
Because of the children, I did not choose to divorce my husband, but continued to marry my husband while maintaining an extramarital affair with my superiors.
The good times are not long, because I spent a lot of money and bought a lot of things beyond my ability, my husband sensed that something was wrong, in order to find out the truth of the matter, he ignored the company's affairs to ask for leave to investigate me, and the ambiguous actions of me and my boss after work that day were discovered by my husband.
When my husband got home, he divorced me, and I pretended not to know at first, "How long are you going to hide from me?" "After saying that my husband showed me the photos in his mobile phone, suddenly my mind was blank, standing on the window sill at a loss, I cried and begged my husband to forgive me, although I felt that the days after marriage were very painful, but I liked the life of having a husband at home and having a boss outside of marriage.
I cried all night, my husband could not help my stalking, finally forgave me, since then, I broke all contact with my boss and resigned, my attitude towards my husband has also undergone a huge change, began to do serious housework, and the salary card was also given to my husband.
Every day I have to report to my husband where I am, leave work on time every day, my husband will not go out alone at night when he is not at home, and what he says to his husband is only obedience, none of us mentioned the previous things, just when I thought everything could start again, I understood that everything he did made me fall more miserably.
It was Valentine's Day, and I was going to get ready and leave early, but unexpectedly, as soon as I entered the door, I saw him and another young woman.
I hurriedly asked my husband, "Who is she?" How could she be here? What's going on? My husband did not hide from me and said, "You also saw, this is my girlfriend, you have nothing to do with this family in the future, I think of everything you did before, I would like to divorce you immediately, I want you to taste this taste." ”
I stood where I was, not knowing what to do next, so I was stunned for a while, I ran out on my own, and the next day I filed for divorce with him, and then I often remembered what he said that night, and my heart could not be calmed for a long time, and I did not expect him to do this to me. I didn't hate him in my heart, only blamed my own wrong decision.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > concluding remarks</h1>
Mutual understanding, give both sides some free space, experience with the heart, support each other, don't lose your temper without moving, make a big fuss for some insignificant things, don't care whether the payment is proportional to the return, cheating has never had a good ending, you must not covet a momentary fun and cheat, and don't think about fooling through.