When a man or a woman has always had one in his mind to control the other party and pinch the other party, is he actually out of the essence of love? If you are in love, why do you want to control? Control is originally the status, power, the embodiment of superiors and subordinates, the embodiment of domination, if love in order to control, manage, and the other party if only by being managed can make you satisfied, make you feel safe, then this is not love, this is foolishness, this is slavery,