Hello everyone, I am Tian Jing, the girl don't be afraid.
On buses and subways, salty pig hands are common and annoying.
There are many people with miscellaneous hands, oil or accidents are not easy to define, and the perpetrators are not easy to lock.
Before the Spring Festival, the girl was not afraid of the rice wine in the editorial department, and she was molested on line 7 of the Beijing subway.
It was a coincidence.
So she taught this man a lesson.
I would also like to share with you: if this situation is encountered, what can we do?
The following is a self-description of rice wine.
01 On the subway
A middle-aged man rubbed his hips against me
On January 6, 2022, as usual, I went out to take the subway to work.
When the car arrived, I saw that there was a seat, so I sat down and took a book out of my bag and flipped it through.
"Drop—" With a prompt, I looked up and realized that I was about to turn around, so I closed the book and got up.
At this time, the car door opened, and many people poured into the car, which was a bit crowded. I stood on the side of the car door and looked down at my phone.
The doors are closed.
I suddenly realized that the carriage was very large, why was it still very crowded around me?
The temperature in Beijing was already low, and I was wearing a thick coat.
But through my coat, I felt a constant, regular friction.
I looked up suddenly, and my eyes were on a face that would regurgitate my stomach every time I thought about it.
An emaciated middle-aged man, with his inches and white sideburns, was rubbing my left hip with his pants and my coat.
I subconsciously turned my body to move the bag containing the computer between me and him.
One is to block the other party through other objects, and the other is that I know that the corner of the computer is very hard, so it is better to use the collision to remind him:
I know what you're doing, please stop now.
Unexpectedly, just as I moved the computer over, he suddenly shouted:
"You little girl, what are you pulling at me for?"
His voice was sharp and panicked, and for a moment I even felt funny, asking him: "Why are you so close to me?" ”
Because of the shortness of time and the thickness of my winter clothes, I wasn't sure if he had acted obscenely against me.
But his reaction made me confirm: "Yes, he must have done something he shouldn't have done." ”
He was dumbfounded when confronted by my questioning.
I then asked, "Why are you rubbing against me at such an old age?" ”
He was in a hurry and began to make personal attacks on my words:
"Dressed improperly, frivolous in demeanor, unqualified, faceless, life without teaching, outsiders get out of Beijing..."
Stimulated by the vicious words, I became more and more angry, took out my mobile phone, and wanted to take pictures and leave evidence.
Unexpectedly, he took a big step in front of my face and vigorously hit my hand holding the phone.
Then he slammed his face to death, just a fist away from my face, stared at my eyes, and then cursed.
Anger and nausea immediately made me unable to control my emotions, I stretched out my right hand, clenched my fist, and hit him the shoulder.
He returned his hand and punched me a few times. Later we almost beat each other up.
There were many people in the carriage, and the laughter was continuous, but no one stopped it, and there was no sign of the staff.
After a few seconds, I arrived at the station, rushed to work, and got off the bus directly.
After getting out of the car, I realized that this matter could not end like this.
So I stopped at the transfer station and dialed 110.
02 The indecent incident you reported has been dealt with
After two "beeps", the phone rang.
I briefly recounted the incident to the police, and he told me to wait, and the police in charge of the precinct would contact me.
While waiting for the call, I calmed down and reflected on the mistakes I had made throughout the incident.
First of all, I passed the best time for forensics.
If you take out your mobile phone to take a picture when you encounter indecency, it must be more effective than the photo after the fact, although this is difficult to do.
Second, in the event of a physical altercation, I should grab the other person and let the police or staff handle it.
I realized that although I had written and read articles on "How to Deal with Obscenity," there was still no way to stay calm and make the right way to deal with it when danger came.
As a girl, the helplessness, fear, and humiliation I felt in that moment were so intense that I forgot for a moment how to properly protect myself.
Soon, a second phone call came, and after a brief inquiry, the police asked me to take notes at the nearby police station.
When I arrived at the police station, I was greeted by two policemen, a man and a woman. They gently comforted me, you are doing the right thing, and it is right to defend your rights and interests.
I have to say that this really warms my heart.
After a simple registration, I started taking notes, the process was longer and more detailed than I thought.
For the sake of factual accuracy, the police will confirm the manner, location, duration, etc. of the other party's indecency several times.
Nearly 3 hours later, the "immersive" transcript ended.
Because I let the suspect go at that time, now the police can only compare faces based on the photos I took.
Ten minutes later, faster than I could have imagined, the results came.
The police have found out which station the other party boarded the train according to the monitoring of the station, but because the monitoring of the station and the monitoring of the train belong to two systems.
The processing method of in-car monitoring is not real-time upload, but running with the train, archiving one day at a time.
That is, the police could not continue to track the suspect's whereabouts until the train stopped.
But a subway often runs until about 11 o'clock, and then the monitoring can be called up and the other party can continue to track the other party until it is finally locked.
So until the police have brought the man back to the police station completely, all I can do is wait.
So I submitted all the evidence taken by my phone: two photographs of the infringers and two photographs of witnesses (onlookers).
The transcripts and evidence were fingerprinted one by one, and the incident was completely filed, and the next thing I needed to do was to wait for the police to contact again after the investigation.
A few days later, I received a call from the police on my way to work.
He told me that the case of the police was not established, and after the police investigation, it was not handled.
A few days after I left the police station, the police quickly identified the suspect, but the other party denied indecent behavior.
The police had to call for surveillance, but the angle at which I was standing was right in the dead corner of the vehicle's internal monitor.
Then there is only one last way to get evidence – to find witnesses.
But yes, the police told me that finding witnesses was not a simple matter.
And even if you lock in witnesses and want the other party to testify, the process will go through many obstacles.
In the end, what results did I receive?
Does a seemingly "trivial" and extremely common indecent trifle really have a chance of being successfully accepted by the police?
And what punishment is given to the aggressor?
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