On February 10, the media rushed to report the news that Tang Wei and her South Korean husband Kim Tae Yong had been separated for half a year and had returned to China alone with their daughter.
On the Internet, there are more and more doubts about the marriage of two people.
When Tang Wei returned to China in September last year, everyone thought that she missed her relatives and came back to visit them.
At that time, Tang Wei returned to China and wore a black dark V dress to participate in the event.
She was radiant at the event, and seemed to be announcing to everyone that her life was very good, so she was in good shape in all aspects.
A month after she returned, it was Tang Wei's birthday, and she posted a photo with her daughter and father on social networks.
But there is no text mention of the husband, and there is no intention of wanting to reunite with the husband.
Tang Wei shares her and her family's heavenly gifts in Beijing, and Tang Wei's husband Jin Tae-yong has no intention of blessing Tang Wei and still lives a wonderful life of singing and dancing.
When everyone was curious about how Kim Tae-yong was doing, some netizens revealed that Kim Tae-yong and his friends were walking in Kichijojoji Temple in Seoul.
There is no interaction between two people on social media, a once-intimate couple, suddenly starting to live their own lives.
This has been going on for more than half a year, and it's hard not to let people guess whether they are divorced.
Although faced with everyone's doubts, Tang Wei's company always replied:
"Tang Wei and her husband are very happy, and now they are still dubbing their husband's movies, and the family is fine!"
However, for the statement of the brokerage company, netizens who have seen too many reversal plots are clear in their hearts.
There is no divorce, only Tang Wei and his wife themselves know.
Wang Lihong separated for half a year, and the brokerage company also said that he and Li Lianglei were not divorced;
The separation of Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying has also been declared to have not been divorced for many years.
And a couple who have been married for many years suddenly separate, there must be something difficult for them to say.
Tang Wei has a good image and good temperament, and his skin is still delicate and smooth after giving birth to his daughter.
Whether it is marrying in South Korea or taking his daughter back to China to live separately.
Every step she takes shows that she understands the principles of life that a woman needs to understand in the process of growing up.
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Love must also give way in the face of the cause you love
Tang Wei's excellent appearance has made her not lack of suitors at every stage.
When he was in college, the famous drama producer Yuan Hong went to China Opera to hold a college student theater festival.
Tang Wei actively signed up to volunteer, yuan Hong quickly noticed her, and the two met in this way.
After that, Yuan Hong invited Lai Shengchuan to give a lecture on Chinese opera, and arranged for Chinese opera students to perform a drama fragment performance, and Tang Wei was one of them.
Through this meeting, Lai Shengchuan quickly noticed Tang Wei, so Tang Wei smoothly played the fifth patient in Lai's drama "Like a Dream".
A female student with no acting experience can go to the play of a big director or a heroine, which is a rare opportunity for any female student.
Tang Wei has also launched his own acting path since then.
In 2006, during Tang Wei's filming of "Police Flower Swallow", the male protagonist Tian Yu cared for Tang Wei very much.
Tian Yu is a Beijinger, relatively mature, and has a certain amount of acting experience, and the two soon began to fall in love.
Tian Yu was rushing to get married at that time, and he was very serious about Tang Wei.
At that time, Tang only had a very good opportunity, that is, director Ang Lee invited Tang Wei to participate in "Color Ring", which became an emotional test for the two of them.
Famous directors filming, the actors who cooperate with liang Chaowei, such a good opportunity, there is no second one to miss.
In the face of this performance, Tang Wei persuaded his parents to convince Tian Yu that he was bound to seize this opportunity and did not want to miss it.
At the beginning, Tian Yu was supportive and went to the set several times to visit the class.
It wasn't until after hearing about the big passion scene that the two soon broke up.
At that time, Tang Wei understood that this opportunity was a dream of every actor, and if he missed it, there would be no second time.
Either you have to bravely challenge yourself, or you can only continue to work slowly in the TV series.
She really likes acting too much, and for the career she loves, if her partner can't understand it, she also feels helpless.
Sober, she knows that there will be many loves in life, but the height of her career is not easy to get.
Young girls want to chase their dreams, which is a sign of bravery.
However, it is necessary to consider whether you can bear the corresponding consequences.
It may seem easy to challenge the world, but the influence and public opinion that accompany it for a lifetime is not so easy to erase.
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The age of marriage, there is nothing bitter at all
Tang Wei became famous because of the "Color Ring" and was also banned because of "Color Ring".
And the disappointed Tian Yu broke up and found a stable girlfriend to marry and have children.
Career is gone, love is gone, fortunately director Ang Lee helped Tang Wei in the most difficult time.
He entrusted Tang Wei to a friend, sent Tang Wei to study in Britain, and when he returned, he made a movie with Jacky Cheung.
Later, he collaborated with director Kim Tae-yong on the film "Late Autumn", which received praise.
Later, Tang Wei began to shoot movies and TV series, and not only his acting skills were recognized, but also received praise from the audience.
After his career was stable, Tang Wei also reached the age of talking about marriage and marriage, but several times of love did not end.
In the end, she married Kim Tae-yong, the director of "Late Autumn".
Following Kim Tae-yong to marry South Korea, at the beginning, Korean film and television still had great potential, and the two lived in Seoul.
But within a few years, the Korean film and television market was sluggish, and Tang Wei moved with Kim Tae-yong to the outskirts of the Seoul border.
Relocated from a bustling city to a small village with only sixty or seventy households.
The living situation has changed so much, Tang Wei did not complain, but took his daughter to plant grass and flowers.
I have seen the bustling world, I have a lot of income, and I am willing to give up everything I have and accompany a man to live a self-supporting rural life in a strange country.
Tang Wei is a woman who is willing to bow her head for life, and also has the dedication of traditional women to sacrifice for the family.
I have achieved success in my career and experienced the consequences of challenging the world.
A woman who is tired of working outside wants to return to the warmth of the family, wants to have a stable life, and live happily with her partner and children.
This is the second stage of a woman's growth: the desire for family – the desire to have a family to accompany, the desire for a stable life.
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Marriage or daughter which is more important
After six years of marriage, Tang Wei suddenly chose to return to China alone, began to take product endorsements, and actively prepared for a comeback.
This is a completely different life from her previous life of accompanying her husband to marry far away from the countryside.
Something she had experienced in those six years had changed her mind about stability.
She wants to take her daughter back to the most competitive place in Beijing to study and go to school.
She stopped being her husband's well-behaved servant, returned to work, started making money, and began to make another plan for her daughter's future.
A plan far from the countryside, a plan to receive a rich education in the city, to reach more people, to see a more modern and prosperous city.
It all seems to be for her daughter, she is back to work and fighting, she wants to plan for her daughter's future, to give her daughter everything better.
Separation may affect the relationship between husband and wife, but at the moment her daughter is more important to her, so she chooses to return to China alone to make a comeback.
Tang grew up again and again, making his own life choices again and again.
It can be seen from the fact that she smiles again every time she faces a difficult situation and is reborn, as long as she has faith, all problems will pass.
The most important thing in a woman's life is to learn balance, the choice between career and love, and the choice between marriage and children.
Because every choice means taking a different path.
Whether there are fellow travelers on this road or not, they must have a strong will and the consciousness of resisting pressure alone in order to face unknown difficulties.
Only you can be a hero in your life.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.