Zhou Bingyi in "The World of Man" has always been a young pacesetter image, not only the pride of the Zhou family, but also the most sensible child in the eyes of the audience, mature early, high quality, excellent learning, IQ and emotional intelligence fly together, but I think that since he entered the door of Governor Hao's house and became a door-to-door son-in-law, the whole person has changed its taste, and his understanding has become more and more realistic.
It is not worth advocating - if Bingyi is not dead, the final result is nothing more than one more Governor Hao.
When he was in line, he was loyal to love, upright and cheerful, and did not be blinded by the sudden encounters in life, because at this time, he still had justice in his heart, and he also thought that pure love and sincere trust were far more precious than worldly opportunities.
Obviously, he was still young at this time, and how precious the lost opportunities were, he did not yet know. He was simply immersed in the exuberant pride of guarding the moral high ground—a state of mind that I understand.
I once encountered a matter of the leader wanting to marry me in the corps, but then I learned that the woman's ex-boyfriend was driven away because he did not have academic qualifications, and I was immediately sympathetic, and I also surged with pride, so I tried my best to complete them, decisively quit, and let the leader have no face - at that time, I felt that I was simply upholding justice! As for whether there will be retaliation in the future... I don't care, young, good youth is capital.
I think that when Governor Hao put on the official stand and despised the righteous workers' families and ordinary identities, I think he should regret it, because for people like Governor Hao, the lack of morality is not so important.
And whether your family is qualified to let him associate, whether your identity makes him feel that there is value of mutual "help", this is the fundamental - so to speak, even if Bingyi became a secretary and dumped Dongmei, but after becoming a bureau chief, and then come back to marry Governor Hao, there is no problem, and it will even be easier.
You can see how Governor Hao treats the poor aunt who came to request the implementation of the policy, and the organization minister who is with him, you will understand it all.
The minister of organization was obviously morally corrupt, the relationship between men and women was chaotic, and the women all wrote letters to report, but Governor Hao only knocked a few times, but instead rebuked the parties who wrote the letters: What is the purpose of writing this? Scum! Isn't it stressful enough to be idle? Such an impassioned spirit is both a help for the organization minister and an act... Perhaps through this matter, it is possible to achieve a certain personal purpose through the organization minister?
How ugly! Pembi for adultery may not be counted, aiding and abetting abuse may not be enough, but hiding dirt and grime is certain, shielding bad people is a nail in the coffin, whether it is a complicity is also difficult to say, it should be sooner or later, right?
Why? Even Bingyi saw the problem and reminded his father-in-law that this person must have problems in these reports, because he had met a similar Director Dai when he was in the corps... As a result, Governor Hao spoke in a serious tone about the rules of the official field. I believe that from then on, righteousness has metamorphosed—and, of course, more sensible.
Governor Hao is more concerned about: What is the value of this person in front of him? Is he worth helping? Is there a peer-to-peer utilization relationship?
Watching that poor aunt upset Governor Hao and make his mother-in-law go to great lengths to offer some help with his own private money — isn't that? At this time, Bingyi stood up to send his aunt... How sensible! So Governor Hao exclaimed in the back: "There are eyes, understand things!"
During the legion period, the sincere and beautiful righteousness of resolutely abandoning the secretary of the deputy political commissar of The Ming Dynasty was gone, and the righteousness of the great righteousness of the sisters who would rather go to college than the opportunity to go to college in order not to be humiliated disappeared - there was one more material for the official in the world.
The turning point of everything occurred on the afternoon before the New Year, when the two families were officially preparing to intersect:
Governor Hao's two sons were so reluctant and so painful that they reluctantly prepared to visit the Zhou family just to prevent Dongmei from being embarrassed.
Then the dramatized was: Governor Hao had an asthma attack - the secretary later said that this kind of problem was like that, it was fierce when it came, it was good in the past, obviously, at this time, the onset also made Governor Hao breathe a sigh of relief: finally there was an excuse.
What's there to see in this worker's nest! This family really didn't want to look at it more—the contempt and disgust that could not be concealed!
The most dramatic, the most ironic: the secretary dog saw the person low and sent the gift - the face snapped! Zhou Father's two barrels of tea, Zhou Bingyi's box of southern specialties!
The implication couldn't be clearer: you're something! Come and climb too!
This paragraph is quite breathless: Father Zhou is really humiliated! What happened to the governor? Just let you be degraded like this? How many times have you cleaned the yard? Obviously, Father Zhou's waist pole is not yet tough.
Zhou Bingyi didn't even mention, his understanding at this time was extremely annoying!
At this time, it is time to question loudly, should we stand in front of our father-in-law and governor and seriously ask: Why? What does that mean? If you really feel that your workers' family can't stand the governor, then it is easy to do, and it will be clear in the future!
In fact, after that, the Zhou family really didn't ask them for anything, but this kind of compensation was careful, and this kind of humiliation like an underground party made me feel really disgusting and despised!
Although Ms. Jin later began to ask about Bingkun's release from prison in order to compensate and because of her inner guilt, I still felt that there was no need, not even to make up for it.
At this time, including the future Zhou Bingyi, I looked down on it very much, even the backbone collapsed, how delicious is this person doing?
He died so early, and it had too much to do with his patience and caution in his father-in-law's house-----------------
I believe that if he could really ask: Father-in-law, what does it mean to do this? I believe that this Governor Hao will only be surprised, thinking that his son-in-law is not simple and has a lot of backbone.
Big deal divorce, what a big deal!
Unfortunately, if you look at Bingyi's "understanding", you can only make people feel that it is okay to hurt him, and people understand it.
He laughed at these face-slapping gifts, and he forbade his father to mention it again—he almost didn't let his father get into trouble; what he said to Dongmei when he went out the door, he thought he was very clever, but it wasn't.
There is a saying that is the most critical: this arrogance is correct, because it is caused by the rank gap...
Yes, is that kind of harm right? The meaning is obvious, and at this time, Bingyi also believes that as long as there is a position of power, hurting others should be understood, right? In other words: once you have a position of power, you should be unconditionally understood, right?
Isn't Bingyi at this time a sensible Haba? Although the heart is very unhappy, although you want to fight, it is nothing more than the hope of being valued by the powerful, right?
In the face of power, in reality we often swallow our anger, which is understandable.
However, in the face of such a powerful person as your father-in-law and mother-in-law, you still have to swallow your breath and swallow your voice, and even suppress normal emotions and dare not express them.
The relationship between the two families cannot be improved, and the conniving effect caused by Bingyi's "understanding" is inseparable.
How can it change without fighting? Who will look up to a rebellious nest?
(Although governor Hao later died, and his mother-in-law began to open her mouth to be an important official for Bingyi, the premise was that Bingyi first became an official of a certain rank on his own?)
When my mother-in-law opened her mouth, Bingyi was 40 years old, and she was already at the deputy department level, which was the same class, right? )