Text/Guan Zimo
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On the morning of February 3, there were media reports that foreign media exposed The results of Kobe Bryant's autopsy, reporting that the cause of his death was a plane collision, and the report also said that the nine people on board were killed for the same reason. Foreign media also said that The helicopter that Kobe Bryant was flying on took off illegally.
Whatever the reason, the news of Kobe's crash has been hard to let go. The saddest thing was his family and his wife and daughter.
An accident that took away a generation of legends, the fall of superstars, and the death of the world.
We never know which tomorrow or the unexpected will come first.
For Kobe's beloved wife Vanessa, everything is like a dream, and I hope it is just a dream.
Not long ago, Bryant and his wife Vanessa went to Italy for the New Year.
But when he woke up, he was greeted with such an unacceptable ending.
The saddest thing in this world is that there is a man who loves you like a life, but suddenly leaves you.
<h1>01</h1>
As time passed, the clock's gears were turned back to 1999.
At the age of 20, Kobe Bryant met Vanessa, who was a part-time model at the time, to subsidize the family, and he fell in love with it ever since.
Ladies and gentlemen.
16-year-old Vanessa came out of nowhere, making 20-year-old Kobe Bryant fall in love like a hairy boy.
Kobe Bryant, who was already a little famous at the time, put down his body, took the initiative to greet Vanessa, introduced herself, and was shy like a big boy.
"If you don't meet and smile before you meet, you will have a life at the first meeting."
At a glance, their story begins.
On day 2, Bryant began his quest for Vanessa.
He called Vanessa for hours at a time, so twisted that he couldn't wait to stick together.
He also often drives a black Mercedes-Benz limousine to transport Vanessa to and from school, and the two's love affair develops rapidly.
Soon they began dating, and six months later they announced their engagement.
People in love are always you in your eyes.
At an NBA Finals in 2000, viewers and the media discovered a strange thing.
That is, the king of the ball, Kobe Bryant, will always unusually throw a wink at a beautiful woman in the audience, and his eyes have never left.
True love cannot be hidden.
The media quickly dug up Kobe Bryant and Vanessa's relationship. In order to further break out more entertainment news.
When the media discovered Vanessa's footprints, helicopters often haunted vanessa's campus in order to capture the footage of Kobe's pick-up of Vanessa and let fans and fans catch a glimpse of Kobe's girlfriend.
This not only shocked the school, but also caused Vanessa's studies to be troubled and blamed.
In order not to affect Vanessa's studies, Kobe Bryant hired a private teacher to tutor her through high school at home.
Their love story is like a domineering president falling in love with a commoner Cinderella.
Same romance, same controversy, same resistance.
This unrecognized marriage made the two of them more determined to come together.
<h1>02</h1>
In May 2000, Bryant announced that he had successfully proposed to Vanessa.
It was announced without consultation with everyone, and this marriage was opposed by everyone.
Bryant's parents simply despise Vanessa's origins, family, and appearance, and consider Vanessa's purposes for money to be impure.
Bryant's team and agent are also not optimistic about them together, and even advised Kobe to sign a prenuptial agreement to prevent the loss of premarital property.
But Vanessa, for Kobe, is no different from the most important person outside of basketball.
He ignored his parents' objections, the team and the agents.
Even if he is an enemy of the whole world, he must protect his beloved woman, insist on marrying Vanessa, and even break with his parents.
In 2001, at the age of 22, Bryant consummated marriage to Vanessa in a Roman Catholic church.
However, only 12 people attended the wedding.
Except for Kobe's bodyguard, the rest are Vanessa's relatives and friends.
Kobe Bryant and Vanessa stood under the heart-shaped arch to receive the priest's blessing.
Kobe Bryant's self-sufficiency has always made the people around him dissatisfied, but he himself is very happy.
Marry the woman he loves home, give her the best care, and spoil her as a little princess.
The best love is probably: for you, I am willing to give up the whole world, even at the expense of making enemies of everyone.
During his honeymoon, Bryant bought a mansion with a private cinema, recreation room and 3 acres of artificial lake for $13.5 million as a new home for Vanessa.
Kobe Bryant's engagement to Vanessa was a seven-carat diamond ring. The owner of the jewelry store who made the ring said that the ring was the size of a five-cent coin.
It can be said that in addition to basketball, Vanessa is all Kobe Bryant has.
"She brought the other end of the scale to my life. In the past, I only knew basketball, but she made my life more balanced. "
Kobe Bryant's words made everyone envy this woman named Vanessa.
<h1>03</h1>
However, the happy life of princes and princesses is not calm and waveless.
Bryant's Vanessa's marriage suffered a major crisis in 2003.
At the time, Bryant was accused of assaulting a 19-year-old female college student, thus getting embroiled in a 14-month-long lawsuit.
They already had a daughter at the time, facing public recriminations, fans' disappointment, and the sadness of their wife Vanessa.
In the end, even if the innocence has been proven, then Kobe Bryant's cheating has become an accepted fact.
And in front of Vanessa, there are only two endings, either divorce and take the money and leave; or forgive and put down to face together.
Strong as Vanessa, she chose the latter.
I prefer to believe that Vanessa's forgiveness of Kobe bryant is out of full love.
Even though her heart was sad and desperate, Vanessa still showed a dignified and stable hostess posture, and faced the global media and public with Kobe.
"My husband is definitely not a criminal. I knew he was definitely not going to sin, he wasn't going to violate anyone at all. He has always been a good husband and father. I believe in his innocence and innocence. Because I firmly believe in his innocence, I will support him and face everything with him. I will do my best to support him in refuting all the nonsense allegations. I'm not going to leave him alone. I know Kobe Bryant better than anyone. Privately, he was a thousand times better than on the pitch and in public. "
Anyone who reads such a statement has reason to believe that in the days to come, they will be able to live together for the rest of their lives, because of sufficient trust and eternal haven-style tolerance.
After the crisis, Vanessa finally won everyone's approval.
Although it is not encouraged to forgive betrayal uniformly.
But Vanessa knew how to defend her marriage with dignity at a young age, and she couldn't help but admire her heart and courage.
A woman who becomes a generation of superstar celebrities must have a big pattern.
In the face of all the long guns and short guns, she was rational and calm, and did not retreat in the slightest.
Can't help but make me think that Vanessa is actually a woman who doesn't talk much and has a beautiful face, which makes people sincerely admire.
There are two kinds of people in this world who are the most precious:
"One is a woman who accompanies men to suffer at a low ebb, and the other is a man who still gives women happiness when he is brilliant."
After the crisis, Kobe Bryant and Vanessa reconciled, and the two re-lived a happy life that only envied mandarin ducks and immortals.
<h1>04</h1>
Maybe it is too young, a marriage that has experienced common hardships, and is still in danger.
The marriage boat looks crumbling and always unsettling.
Or maybe people are not more popular and face more temptations.
The scandal about Kobe Bryant went up and down.
Or maybe I've experienced some sadness and saved up enough disappointment on the road to defending my marriage.
In 2011, Vanessa filed for divorce.
The two signed a divorce petition in December 2011.
Fortunately, the two didn't really separate.
The reason why the breakup is not successful is that they are still deeply in love.
Vanessa's letting go made Bryant suddenly have a sense of vigilance.
After losing, I know how to cherish everything in the present.
After getting divorced, Kobe Bryant realized that he still couldn't let go of his beloved wife.
Kobe Bryant, who has always been proud on the court, was frustrated in the love field, and he desperately tried to save this relationship.
In 2013, the two were reunited, and the divorce application was withdrawn at the same time.
Shouted: a sigh of relief.
Princes and princesses may just be flirting with their tempers, and people still believe in love.
Luckily, love is finally back.
Since then, both the prince and the princess have learned to cherish.
Kobe Bryant returned to the family, became a good husband, a good father, his wife Vanessa accompanied her for more than ten years, became the woman behind Kobe, and gave her the warmth and strength of the harbor.
Bryant also gave back to the world with the best results in his basketball career.
They dedicated their youth to each other, let the gentle time amaze the years, and bring legends to the world.
However, when they finally learn to cherish and are ready to work together to create a future.
God, however, cruelly took away the princess's prince, leaving the princess alone in disgrace.
I had to sigh a long time: Create and make people, and heaven is jealous of talents.
While love is still there and your lover is alive, please cherish it and love each other every day as the end of the world.
The Scythians are gone, and the living are like this.
May the begonias remain the same, born like the splendor of summer flowers.
About the Author:
Guan Zimo, a multi-platform original author, a lover of perfectionist words, a slash youth who lives with a left hand and dreams with a right hand, can be soft and just able to be good, and has feelings and righteousness and talent.