At a recent party with a buddy, he shared a quote with me: "I've finally learned to talk to myself." ”
Like most men immersed in the workplace, he has both dreams and pressures. The dream is to see the career flourishing, and the pressure comes from taking on more and more responsibilities. Just when he was nearly confused, he experienced a serious illness and got this life insight of his own.
I asked him, "How did it help you to learn to talk to yourself?" ”
He said, "Listen to your own inner voice. “
What defeated him was
What you call a sense of accomplishment
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He then shared his own experience along the way.
Once, as a man immersed in work, he was conceited, proud, felt that he had a unique sense of accomplishment, and every day was like playing chicken blood, encouraging himself with great interest, encouraging colleagues, and enjoying the happiness of being close to success.
Unexpectedly, a sudden attack of a serious illness knocked him down by his so-called sense of accomplishment.
Men's vulnerability is reflected in the hospital bed. No matter how powerful it was before, when the disease comes, the body will naturally remind you that it is time to step on the brakes, and the illness at this time is often a good thing, it will make the nervous brain and the overdrawn body pause for a while, let the high-speed life pause a little, only change the rhythm will re-examine themselves, learn to listen to their own voices, and talk to their own hearts.
Now that he is full of vitality, after talking about these experiences, he is quite grateful, after all, this has given him enough time to calm down and communicate with himself, and the biggest gain of this time is to start paying attention to himself, paying attention to his body, which he said is his true choice to be true to his heart.
In fact, the lights in front of me and the hurried steps at the intersection have made many men like my buddies still indulge in excited anxiety.
The same is life, we have long forgotten the philosophy of life left to us by the ancients, "retract and put freely", but often when facing work and life, we are easy to put, but it is not easy to receive.
Through dialogue with one's own heart, looking for a choice that is true to one's heart is undoubtedly the best balance between convergence and release. Forget which person said a philosophical word, when you are busy and breathless, you may wish to pause for a moment to go further.
I am today
Thank you for being the first one
Going further is my true choice.
In order to explore the unknown world, in order to go further, at the age of 30, I chose to resign nakedly, listened to the true words of my heart, and began a great adventure for the future.
As a result, circumnavigating has become half of my way of life, although I am busy but enjoyable, today I look back on the past and really appreciate my original choice to be true to my heart.
When I edited my travel life into social media, I received private messages from many people, some white-collar workers who were established, and some returnees who were eager to return to China for development, most of them were like me, with an uninhibited heart, of course, most of their questions were the same, about the future, whether to choose to have a small desk, or choose to go to the vast world, the only answer is Feather your heart.
After 40
I just want to live for myself
Last week I received a very hot whisky on the market, it was couriered by my classmates who grew up with me, and as soon as I signed for it, he called to thank me for my help when his company was in danger, I knew that he would make a lot of money when he returned to the old Internet guild, but he chose to start a new career in the year of confusion.
I asked him are you really willing to give up the high salary you once had? He said lightly that the first forty years of life have experienced the glitz of the world, the last forty years he wants to live for himself, although money can measure whether a person is successful, but money is by no means a measure of a person's success, at an important node in life, only be loyal to their own heart, do the right thing, achieve a better self, this is the most facet.
In the eyes of many people, I am also a "face-to-face" person, after all, I spend more time in front of the mirror every day than other men.
In addition to taking care of my own appearance in front of the mirror, I will also spend some time communicating with myself in the mirror, to accept the white hair that does not know when it will come out, to accept the wrinkle that slowly climbs up the forehead, and the only thing that cannot be accepted is the beard that grows unchecked and unruly.
After all, over the past decade, under the care of Philips shavers, the beard around the corner of my mouth has become a very symbolic symbol of me. From the moment I was true to my heart and chose to take the journey of the way forward as my future way of life, it played an indelible role in reshaping myself.
Looking back at the past 80 years, Philips has made continuous breakthroughs in science and technology, continuously innovated in the use experience, and along the way, with the world's top men's grooming technology, it has continuously conducted in-depth exchanges with Chinese men, accompanied by countless men like me to grow together, and constantly encourage Chinese men to be loyal to their hearts and move forward for themselves.
Be true to the heart, move forward for yourself, need to speak the truth, also need to dare to take risks, but also need to contain the Truth and Dare Philips 80th Anniversary Edition Gift Box, which appears in the form of soul torture, so that we can re-examine ourselves now and meet our better selves in the future while being loyal to our hearts.
This Philips 80th anniversary gift box, with exquisite leather as the watch, with the fun of men as the inside, can be held in the hand to feel that it is a weighty gift.
Open the gift box, the first floor is placed in gold and silver Truth or Dare game cards, is the man is not afraid of the challenge, open a card to see their own hand.
The Pop Art box on the second floor features Philips 80th Anniversary Collector's Edition Electric Shaver, a S7880 shaver that recreates the black and gold color scheme of Philips' first electric shaver, "Cigar", as a tribute to history.
Vintage logo Philishave pays homage to the will to keep moving forward and the spirit of constant innovation.
Technology can also be comfortable. Microbead comfort zone for a smoother skin,multi-directional floating tip that accurately conforms to the contours of the face and has a multi-effect lerable blade.
The third floor is a yuppie man's favorite, with a HUGO BOSS bottle opener set for you to enjoy the gentlemanly style.
Such a gift box has placed the courage, wisdom and interest of men in it, waiting for you to harvest. Whether you're interested or not, I've already received it anyway
Finally, I would like to ask you,
How long have you not listened to your inner voice?
Right now
Go to the official flagship store of Philips Tmall
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Test your voice
"Uncle Life", comfortable your life!