In my life, you and I will always meet countless people.
Some people just pass by and then there is no intersection.
And some people, can not be sought, once encountered, even if it is only three or two, it is enough to benefit you and me for a lifetime.
- Know Your Confidant -
Confidant is the person who can face the joys and sorrows of life with you; that is, no matter what happens, always stand by your side, always understand what you are thinking, and have a similar temper with you.
No matter how far apart, no matter how different the identities, the friendship does not change, the original intention remains unchanged.
The acquaintance of people is valuable in knowing each other, and the knowledge of people is in the knowledge of the heart.
If you have fellowship with close friends, why should you care about the mundane things outside your body?
This is confidant.
Just a plate of peanuts, a bowl of wine, you can talk about everything;
Approaching you, not only do you want nothing else, but also want to solve your problems;
Others will only ask you if you are not happy, and he will only ask you whether you are miserable or not, tired or not.
True confidants, even if they are far away from the end of the world, are like being close at hand. There are not many confidants in life, and they do it and cherish it.
- Dead Friends -
It is difficult for people's lives to be smooth, and they will always encounter ups and downs and difficulties.
And at these times, there are always a few friends, without asking for any reason, the first time to lend a helping hand.
Go from place to place for your business, stick a knife in your ribs.
This lifelong friendship is not a blood relative, but a blood relative.
A promise weighs thousands of dollars, talking about life and death.
Seeking advantage and avoiding harm is the instinct of human nature, but it can overcome the instinct, regardless of life and death, rich or poor, suffering and sharing. What a heavy friendship it was.
What is true friendship is, it is a happy drink when the spring breeze is triumphant, and it is also a greeting in the midst of poverty.
Knowing that your life situation is not good, even if the end of the world is far away, it is still in mind to solve your worries and problems.
To have such a friend, you must not miss it.
- The one who gives you advice -
People who are not sages will always make mistakes.
When we make mistakes, we always meet people who give us advice, who may be older than us, who may know more than us, and who may even be just a child.
It is such a piece of advice that lights up our way forward.
They advise you and me to cherish time.
They advise you and me that people should have integrity and be more humble.
They advise you and me that the best life is to see through and think openly.
Such people, you and I want to thank him, it is their existence that gives us timely advice.
Let's learn to reflect and learn to be human.
- Opponents of comparable strength -
Life without enemies is lonely.
Without Cao Cao, who dominated the Central Plains, and Liu Bei, who had monopolized his own interests, how could he achieve the fame of a generation of Eastern Wu Emperors?
Life without opponents is lonely. In the words of the late martial arts master Mr. Jin Yong, it is:
Defeat the hero, the world is even more helpless... Whoops, life seeks an enemy and cannot get it, and it is embarrassing to be lonely.
There is an opponent of equal strength, who can spur ourselves to continue to improve, and always remind ourselves not to relax, because of their existence, we have become the person we once wanted to be.
- Strangers who reach out to you -
This society is mixed, but in the final analysis, there are still many good people.
You have to believe that this society is still very beautiful, between people, not so indifferent.
It is easy to add flowers to the icing on the cake, but it is difficult to send charcoal in the snow.
Perhaps when you are down, a cup of hot tea and a hug given by others is the greatest warmth in the cold winter and the biggest reason to persevere.
Life is like a furnace, who does not burn in it?
Since they are all fallen people at the end of the world, meeting each other is a fate, and it does not hurt to help them as much as they can.
Know that if you reach out, you may be able to pull up a person who is in trouble.
A confidant who understands you makes you cry and laugh and someone understands; a friend who has passed the life will let you have someone to accompany you for a long time;
A person who gives you advice will greatly benefit your life; a good opponent of equal strength will make you invincible;
A stranger who lends a helping hand makes you believe that the world is still good.
In life, some people are unattainable, and if they can meet one or two, it is the greatest blessing in life. Dear poets, have you encountered too much?