If you love him, don't give him your own "little wicked man."

It is his selfless tolerance that tolerates your unwarranted willfulness.

If you can't be as tolerant, concessional, and accommodating as he is, at least don't be aggressive and unreasonable.

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Contributor: Cat Owner, Weibo: Miss2mao, WeChat Public Account ID: Miss2mao

Original title: "Love him, don't give him your "little evil man""

［1］

Who said that the New Year is new, but since New Year's Day, my husband and I have been arguing.

Between husband and wife, that is, those sesame seed-sized things, it is nothing more than that I think his tone of voice is heavy, and I am louder than him. He thought I was talking about it, so he simply put on his headphones and ignored me.

Light you one sentence, I sentence, you sentence again, I sentence again. Fortunately, there was no revenge, and after a while it disappeared again, as if there was nothing wrong with it.

In serious cases, they do not give in to each other, and they have to fight for the ugly. A few minutes passed, ten minutes passed, half an hour passed, and this time must have ended with my Cold War.

But often I don't mean to end like this, I will definitely sit on the couch in a sullen voice and hold myself for an hour, and the gentleman is even more angry, and a soft word will not be said, let alone coax me.

Time seemed to stand still, and the time of my cold war must have been decided by mr. when he came to coax me.

Every time he starts with "If I don't love her, I don't care about her, just let her sit down like this", come over and hug me, I am finished. ［2］

I remember once I sat like this at night, originally Mr. wanted me to reflect on it, and then coax me after a while, I didn't expect to lie down on the bed and fall asleep, sleeping until I couldn't reach out and touch me in the middle of the night, so I quickly got up and saw that I was still sitting on the sofa...

Later, he said, on a cold day, you really wanted to give you two slaps, and saw that your poor baba curled up on the sofa with cold hands and feet was cold and unbearable. From this point of view, I am very pleased that only when his tolerance and concession can tolerate my unreasonable teasing enough, can I be so unbridled and willful.

Recently, however, there have really not been many substantial reasons. I was always capricious and unprovoked angry and unprovoked.

In the words of the gentleman: You have been entangled in a little ghost called wayward this month, this little ghost is still a cat, the dog remembers a thousand cats, it remembers the road that came to you here, you throw it out, it runs back, throws it out and runs back...

I said disapprovingly: Yes, that wayward little devil is the little evil man in my body. Don't you always say that I am a multi-faceted person, in fact, I only have two sides, one side is the delicate old man who is lying to you and wants to hug, and the other side is the fierce god, like a hedgehog pushing you away.

Many sentient beings, who is not like this, multi-faceted, complex, often there are two little evil people in the brain to argue, resulting in us entangled, embarrassed, unable to choose.

And the most important way for husband and wife to get along is not to give your "little evil person" to him, and not to let each other's two little evil people meet each other.

［3］

Two days ago, Miss Su Su ran to my house in anger, still holding her bank card and her husband's id card. As soon as I entered the door, I didn't take off my shoes, so I said angrily, "If I want to borrow money from a strong son, there is no door." My mother and I didn't lend it, he hadron counted which onion."

It turned out that this was because the hadron self-employed and borrowed money was a tantrum.

Xiao Zhang and Qiangzi are both dormitory classmates of Mr. University, and they are very good. So after getting married, Susu and I also became good friends after several gatherings. Su Su is a person with a straight and fast speech, while Xiao Zhang is an honest man with a gentle personality.

We often joke about Xiao Zhang: Su Su, the "wild horse", was actually surrendered by you. Xiao Zhang always happily replied to us: Su Su is a wild horse in front of you, but a small flower cat in front of me. The words are permeated with the flaunting of happiness.

The little flower cat belongs to the small flower cat, we know that many things in their family Xiao Zhang will respect Su Su's opinion, if there is no principle problem, it is basically Based on Su Su.

We know that although Su Su has a hot temperament, she is also a person who can live a life of integrity, and all the decisions are for the good of their family.

We know even more that in the final analysis, it is because Xiao Zhang loves her that he will selflessly spoil her. ［4］

The hadron also spoke to my husband.

We didn't have much savings, so we only agreed to borrow ten thousand dollars. And the Su Su family, when everyone was in difficulty just after graduation, Qiangzi once lent Xiao Zhang five thousand yuan, and Xiao Zhang has always remembered this "kindness".

Now that I have some savings, I want to lend thirty thousand to Hadron. Su Su, on the other hand, firmly disagreed. I think that hadron has changed several girlfriends, and has been in love without getting married, which always makes people feel unreliable.

More importantly, last year, Su Su's mother fell ill for surgery, which coincided with the fact that Su Su's family had just bought a house and had no money on hand, so they could not add supplements to their mother, and they have always felt sorry. At first, it was good to stop Xiao Zhang, but later I saw that Xiao Zhang's attitude was more insistent this time, so I simply quarreled with him.

No, just Xiao Zhang's tepid temper, even if Su Su shouted again, he used to laugh at Mimi's listening and pacify Su Su as the main thing, how could he argue with Su Su this time.

Su Su drank the water, and her mood slowly stabilized, and I tentatively asked what was going on.

Sure enough, Xiao Zhang was recently very blocked because of the work matter, and he had spent a long time and energy to win a business, made all preparations, and went to sign a contract in the afternoon.

As a result, I learned that I had been dug up by a competitor with "improper" means. This is still an old customer, who can't afford to complain and can't afford to complain, and when he comes back, he is scolded by the leader. I had to be like a rat in a bellows, both ends angry.

Su Su said: He still has a temper this time, I originally wanted to borrow less, but I didn't expect that he not only did not agree, but also said the sentence "do not promise me not to borrow at all, my mother I did not lend it, he counted which onion" after he was anxious with me...

Sure enough, there was a little evil man who obstructed it.

If Xiao Zhang's little evil man had not run out because of his depressed emotions, he would have solved the matter as before.

If Su Su's little evil man had not come out, he would not have run out of the house for this. ［5］

In fact, even the most temperamental people also have depressed and angry times, and there is also a bottom line of emotions.

The reason why he often shows a "good temper" appearance is only because things have not yet touched his bottom line, or he is tolerant and tolerant enough that the things that pull to his bottom line are bounced back.

Or, just because, he loves you.

If you love him equally, the key to resolving the contradiction is to hide the little evil person in your body, do not let it meet the person you love, and do not let the two little evil people of each other meet each other.

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