Children are never the private property of their parents

Talk about the female student who insulted her father, this matter, the whole time to eat melon down... Unfortunately, the door is not good. What else can be said? alas.

Digging into their family before, how much the father expects from his daughter, how much pressure he gives. Yes, that's what makes this daughter in this situation.

But his daughter's performance in the past two years... When he returned to China last April, he refused to quarantine, and after going to Spain again, he went crazy to humiliate his parents and incite others to explode his father... These behaviors, sorry I can't sympathize with her. Born to be a person always has a bit of a bottom line, crazy criticism of that other said.

This incident finally caused the net to explode her father's gods and friends all broke the defense of her father, what do you call this ™ a broken thing?

But in the end, it is also a private matter of people's own families, you can't control it, and in the end there is only a sigh, that's all.

This father is very unfortunate, but this misfortune is caused by himself, which is the misfortune of misfortune.

Children are never the private property of their parents, and no matter how young they are, they also have independent personalities. Only by respecting children with a mutually equal personality can children grow up with a complete personality. Otherwise, the child will present itself to you with a distorted personality.

The reason is very simple and very clear, but why there are always parents who can't do it, despise the child's personality, and even trample on the child's personality, and finally be reversed, it is the selfish psychology that causes all this. This kind of selfishness is difficult to be detected, nor is it detected by the parents themselves, because this selfishness is wrapped in a coat of cloak, which is father's love and maternal love What kind of selfishness is it, wrapped in father's love and mother's love without being detected?

While taking care of their children's healthy growth, parents will hope that their children will have a future appearance. Many people think that they want their children to have a career, for the sake of their children's good, what selfish will parents have?

The child has a chance, although it is good for the child, in fact, it is also giving the parents a long face. Children do not study well, do not get into good schools, do not show up, but lose the face of their parents. Especially as a parent who graduated from some famous schools, how can he afford to lose this face? In China, I did not get into a good school, ate chaff and throat dishes, and also sent my children to study abroad, while satisfying my own vanity, I was also cultivating and promoting my child's vanity.

If the love for children is selfless, how can it be scolded at every turn?

Scolding children is typical of selfishness and incompetence.

Parents vent their inner anxiety and stress by scolding. But they don't realize that through scolding, they vent their anxiety and pressure, but these anxieties and pressures are completely transferred to the child through scolding! How cruel and selfish is it to let the young mind of a child suffer such brutal destruction?

As the child grows, the personality becomes more and more independent, many things have their own judgments, will make their own decisions, at this time, parents can do is to provide opinions and suggestions, rather than make decisions for the child.

Even if the decision made by the child is wrong because of the lack of knowledge and experience, you must respect the child, and at this time, you must be patient, follow the good temptations, guide them, and wait for the child to slowly change. This is the place where parents are most tested. If you don't handle it well, the relationship between parents and children will go to the point where water and fire are intolerable.

The relationship between the father and daughter has reached such a field that it is almost insoluble. If you can let go of vanity and go to "Gold Medal Mediation", maybe there will be salvation. They probably couldn't listen to each other anymore. It depends on the third party, whether other people's words can be listened to.

The old scroll king has raised a small exquisite self-interest, and all the grievances are in the unspoken

Isn't this the usual routine of the little fairies arguing? As long as there is a fault in your dealings with her, then all her problems in the past, present and future are not problems, but punishment and revenge on you.

Less come to this set. Didn't you grow up in a perfect environment? That's a coincidence, we are all.

You can explain this daughter's brutality, but it can't explain why she nibbled on the old man and beat a rake... This is all 23, she is not a baby in any country at this age, if it is really so angry, why do you have to use your father's money completely? Is it really so tough that you can do odd jobs to cover excess expenses? Is it very puzzling that parents must bear the living expenses of their adult children?

The economic base determines the superstructure, since the adult children are completely dependent on their parents for money, then eating must look good, ah, what is worthy of empathy for this kind of behavior of eating a bowl and putting a bowl to scold the mother?

Reversed? I didn't feel reversed. At first, everyone thought that women were not filial piety, and then they found that the father may not be kind, but the essence of the matter has not changed.