After the breakup, why bother?

N Evening News reporter Wang Weiguo correspondent Xiang Yueqing

Wang Hua and Zhou Li of Xincheng Town, Xiuzhou District, are a couple who have been together for more than 3 years. In the eyes of the surrounding neighbors, they have a good relationship with each other and are very kind to each other. However, a few days ago, the Xincheng Police Station in Xiuzhou District received a police call from Zhou Li, what caused them to go to the police station to report to the police?

In the police investigation docking studio of the police station, the old woman's uncle Yang Jianlin accepted the dispute mediation according to the application of Wang Hua and Zhou Li. The old woman's uncle learned from the police that there was a physical conflict between the two at that time, and the surrounding neighbors did not see it, and the police learned from the onlookers that the two had been a pair of boyfriend and girlfriend and had broken up for a while, but they did not know why they broke up.

The old lady uncle asked the two why they did it, and what was the reason for the dispute.

Zhou Lixian couldn't help but spit bitter water on the old woman's uncle, the two have been separated for 3 months, on the day of the incident, Wang Hua suddenly ran to her house, the two did not say a few words before quarreling, and Wang Hua also took a bank card and a mobile phone.

Hearing this, the old woman's uncle quickly asked Wang Hua: "What is the bank card and mobile phone?" This nature is different again! Wang Hua did not deny taking these things, saying that it was because the two gave Zhou Li a lot of money when they were together before, and also bought her a lot of things, and now that the two have broken up, they always have to return part of the expenses to him, let her pay back she refused, he took it himself.

Listening to Wang Hua's "stingy" words, Zhou Li's anger could not be contained, and she immediately rolled up her sleeves and quarreled with Wang Hua.

The old lady uncle quickly stopped them and asked Zhou Li how much money she had in her bank card and what the value of her mobile phone was. Zhou Li said that there are more than 200 yuan in the card, and the mobile phone bought more than 2,000 yuan, which has been used for two or three years.

In fact, if Wang Hua wants to say how much money she spent on the days with Zhou Li, it is not clear, and although the two have not registered, but they are living together, it is possible to really calculate a cent. The old lady's uncle estimated that Wang Hua was unhappy when they broke up, and his heart was angry. So the old lady uncle started from the nature and consequences of this dispute, combined with the previous emotional analysis of the two people, moved by affection and knew the reason.

No matter what the reason, Wang Hua's act of going to Zhou Li's house to get something is very undesirable, and even involves criminal responsibility, which is not a joke. Two people in love usually eat and drink together, are piecemeal expenditures, the man's expenditure is more, but not All of them are wang Hua alone, and there is no transfer details or IOUs and other credentials, it is difficult to say clearly. The two have been together for many years, and even if they break up, they can't tear their faces.

Under the patient persuasion of the old woman's uncle, Wang Hua returned the bank card and mobile phone he had taken to Zhou Li, and Zhou Li gave up the responsibility of pursuing Wang Hua, and both sides promised that they would not have any property entanglements for any reason in the future. (The parties in this article are pseudonyms)

The old lady uncle had something to say

After the couple breaks up, some get together and disperse, and some become enemies, because emotionally or financially, there is still one party that cannot accept it. Once a dispute occurs, it is easy to get emotionally upset, and "new hatred and old hatred" are counted together. Such emotions can easily lead a person to lose their minds and make wrong judgments and behaviors. Small amounts of property donated to each other during the love period and the consumption expenses of the two parties living together are gifts and exchanges, and are generally treated as gifts and are not supported to return. Adults should take responsibility for their own actions, and if their feelings are really broken, they should not let the impulse occupy the brain and try to break up peacefully.

【Source: Nanhu Evening News】