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No matter what you do, men and women are more advantageous than women, although women also have strength, but far less than men, and women can do the same men can do, but men do not necessarily do, so no matter what they do, men are dominant.
Although it is said that now the nanny is done by women, women are more careful, can take good care of the elderly's life, but the premise is that the body can take care of the elderly, if you take care of the paralyzed elderly, women are not competent for this job, at this time, can only be shot by men, men to do nanny advantage is also very large, in the eyes of the elderly is also very popular, in some old people can not take care of themselves, male nannies can take good care of the paralyzed old man, help him up, carry him, or turn him over is not a problem, But female nannies are not good, the strength is not so big, can not take good care of the elderly, so some employers still like to ask male nannies to go home to take care of.
The 46-year-old Uncle Zhang below confided: "For the 72-year-old aunt to be a live-in nanny, the monthly salary is 8,000, but every day I want to escape", what is going on? Let's take a look at the story of Uncle Zhang's nanny.
Uncle Zhang is 46 years old
I am 46 years old, I have been a live-in nanny for five years, probably many people will say that I am a big man, it is not good to go out to find a job, just do some women's work, say out people are laughing, I also know that I am a big man should not be a nanny, will also give men shame, but I have no way, I do not do nanny, I do not have so much money, I am forced, if my family has money, I will certainly not go to the nanny, is not, I chose to take this road, I don't want anyone to understand me, I just want to spray less.
I grew up, my family is very poor, there is no money, my parents also gave birth to four children, and my mother died of illness when I was nine years old, leaving my father to live with our brothers and sisters, although life is very hard, but these years have survived, originally I thought that having my father to take care of it is also very happy, but when I was fifteen years old, my father also left us because of overwork.
I have not seen my grandparents since I was born, and I don't know what they look like, since my father left us, the four of us have completely become orphans, at this time, my grandmother wants to take the four of us back to take care of, but my aunt refuses, thinking that the four of us are dragging oil bottles, the family is not good, now take us four back, the pressure must be great, but my grandmother does not care about my aunt's words, insists on taking us back.
I thought that after my grandmother took us back, we would have to rely on, but my grandmother was also older, and she didn't talk much accurately, we were often scolded and bullied by our aunts, which may also be the reason for sending people under the fence, the atmosphere did not dare to heep, any of my aunts bullied us, such a life also lived for a few years, and the lives of several of us were very difficult.
Later, I stopped studying, I went out to work, I didn't want to continue to live in my grandmother's house, look at my aunt's face and act, so I was very tired, I would rather go out by myself, what kind of life is my business, I don't have to live so tired, and I also want to make more money, give my grandmother flowers, after all, she brought us back to have a home to rely on, I also know how to be grateful to be a person, but before I earn money, my grandmother also left us.
After my grandmother left, we had no relatives at all, and my aunt didn't let us go back to where we were, saying that they had severed ties with us, and since then, I hadn't gone back, we were all living in other places, four brothers and sisters were living in other places, and during the New Year's Festival, they occasionally got together, usually worked hard, and all thought about the day when they got ahead.
Later I met my wife, although my wife is not very pretty, but she is particularly gentle, virtuous, she does not care whether I have money, insists on marrying me, I did not disappoint her, the two formed a family, and lived a sweet life ever since.
When my wife was in the second year, I gave birth to children, our family of four lived a happy and sweet life, I also did my best to give them a good life, my wife and I for the sake of this family, but also very hard at work, never complained that I could not give them a good life, but just seven years ago, my wife because of the tumor, the family was suddenly empty, went around to borrow a large amount of debt, to cure the wife's illness, but the cure also needs to rest, can not do heavy work, Later, she could only work as a housewife at home, and she could not do any work.
Since my wife can't do the work, the responsibility of supporting the family has been pressed on my head, all of a sudden a lot of weight, fortunately, my two children are very sensible, did not let us worry, but also admitted to a good university, but after going to college, they need to spend more, and they will face marriage in the future, so my pressure is quite large, I must make more money, otherwise there is no money to support them.
My work salary is not very high, and the boss often delays the salary, some times, only once in half a year, when there is no money, I still have to borrow money to live, and then I have no way, I can only resign to find another job, and then I contacted the profession of nanny, listen to my friend said that the salary of doing nannies is very high, and the salary of male nannies will be higher than the salary of female nannies, and I do not require any technology, after hearing such good things, I also disregard the face of things, I signed up for nanny training straight away.
After a week of training, I also officially took up my post, although I have never done housework, but taking care of the elderly these things is not a problem, and men as nannies are to take care of the paralyzed elderly, this is more advantageous, I have enough strength, help the elderly is not a problem.
My first employer was very easy to get along with, people are very good, good for me, just like family, although I am a man, the other party is also a man, but the employer has never treated me as an outsider, and did not treat me like a nanny, when I served him, let me be very relaxed, I also like to get along with the employer, but last year, his son came back to pick him up, I had no choice but to find a job again.
My second employer is a female employer, she is 72 years old this year, looking good at age, but the temper is not small, although the body can not move, but the initiation of temper, I can not resist, listen to her family said, she was not paralyzed before, her temper is not like this, since she was paralyzed, her temper is getting bigger and bigger, the family can not take care of her, so I asked the nanny to come back to serve her.
To be honest, after I first knew that she was a woman, I wanted to refuse, but the salary she gave was very high, higher than the salary given by the previous employer, so I stayed to take care of her, plus I also felt that she was very pitiful, her husband betrayed her and left her, and her paralysis was also because she was hit by a car, so I felt that her life was very bad, that is, I could not see the old man so sad, and I also stayed regardless of her temper.
Later I learned that I was wrong to stay, because she was really difficult to serve, I had never met such a difficult employer, every day to change the law to make you, bully you, not let you have a good time, I regret being a nanny for her.
She obviously knows that she is paralyzed, can't walk, and wants to go out in a wheelchair, but she just sits, just refuses to sit in a wheelchair, she has to carry her out before she is willing, she says that if she takes a wheelchair, people will laugh at her, and they love face, and I am simply speechless to her.
In addition, the female employer is not a very light person, she is more than fifty pounds heavier than me, every time I carry her, I will ask for my old life, causing me to have a sore back at night, very uncomfortable, and some times, especially do not treat me as a person, is to think that I am her nanny, on my various calls, some obviously what I can do, I have to come, I am very unhappy that she treats me like this.
And every time I eat, I let her come out to eat on the dining table, she resolutely refused, that is, let me bring it into the room for her to eat, bring it in for her to eat, she also deliberately put the quilt on the food everywhere, eat and do not forget to wipe her mouth with the quilt, but also wipe her hands, and then let me all change down to wash, every day I have to change the quilt to wash the quilt, I really think that her these practices are superfluous, do not use tissues, but also said that I waste, think she has more money.
And her temper I have seen, three days at both ends of the arrest to scold, no matter three seven twenty-one, scolded again, I did not do anything wrong, she will catch me to scold, and even sometimes, will take a stick to beat me, I simply can't stand it.
Now I am really tired, every day I think about resigning and not doing it, but the salary she gave me is very high, there is 9,000 yuan a month, there is this 9,000 yuan, let me pay off a lot of debts, but I am not happy at all, I now hope, quickly pay off these debts, so that I can stay away from her and not serve her, too tired.
summary
It is not easy to do any work, it is not so easy, it is not easy to be a nanny, especially when it is difficult to meet such a difficult employer, it is even more difficult, so that people want to resign every minute, if the employer is better to the nanny, be polite, so that the nanny will not have the idea of resigning, and will also take care of the employer wholeheartedly.