"Why do people lose faith in life?"
"It's because it's too idle."
People are energetic, knowledgeable, and more down-to-earth, but as long as they lie on the bed, it is the same.
It is a blessing to be busy, but it is inevitable to be discouraged if you are idle for too long.
If you are idle all day, one person is ruined.
Drucker once said, "If you count your time, you will find that you spend most of your energy on meaningless things." ”
There are limits to what you want to do, and time is always limited.
I was afraid that time had paid for bitter tea, and my wishes were given to quicksand.
For people who are idle all day, they don't need to count the time, they already know that there is no meaning.
Blogger Urbane said at the TED Talk about his tragic experience of catching up with papers:
He planned it perfectly, writing slowly at the beginning, gradually working a little heavier, and drawing out the arrangements.
The 90-page paper, divided into one year, seems a breeze.
But in the first few months he did not write, brush movies, watch gossip, dangling leisurely passed, thinking about going to advance, to the middle of the month also flew away, his paper is still only a few words.
From a month, two weeks, to only three days left, he finally rushed into the study room in fright.
After staying up for two days in a row, he hurried out with the last 72 hours and almost didn't hand it in.
Recalling the teacher's expression and the achievements of pulling his crotch, he stood on the stage and shook his head straightly: "Super invincible rotten!" ”
Forced to stay up with two eyes black, only to harvest a "super rotten", like the epitome of every idle person's life.
Obviously longing, obviously planned, the wish is close at hand, and it is shattered in an instant.
Saying that life is too hard is ruined in their own hands.
Step by step, steady and steady, even if things are difficult, they can be completed.
Don't wait for your ambitions to sit idle and complain that things are fruitless.
There are many things that no one forces you to do, and there is no deadline, idleness has become a habit, and there is no longer the motivation to fight.
Idle to the end, try to think it is desperate.
There is a post on the Internet: "Just worked for two months, and then want to quit what to do?" ”
The landlord stayed at home for a whole year last year, every day muddy, nestled in the sofa, eating snacks, how comfortable how to live.
By February of this year, after too much gossip from friends and family, he finally went to find a job.
Because he hadn't experienced this kind of suffering for a long time, he remembered that he was going to work, and his head was about to explode, and he was groggy and uncomfortable.
Usually, I stay by myself, and when I see my colleagues and customers, I want to hide behind and don't want to talk to them.
He hates the content of the work even more, and whenever a new job comes, he feels flustered, like a stone pressing down, and the work is naturally not good.
In the face of his complaints, some people pertinently suggested:
"If you're lazy, too lazy to get up, too lazy to go from nine to five, too lazy to cool only two days a week, don't quit your job."
Bad habits are really easier to form than good habits, and idleness and laziness are a cycle.
The more you don't go out, the more you don't want to move your legs, the more you don't read a book, the more your brain doesn't want to turn, the more idle you are, and you don't have the courage to look out.
We all want to indulge for a while, indulge for a lifetime, but the reality is not like this, many things are not whether you want to face it, but you must face it.
As the Answerer said, "We always have to learn to live on our own." ”
If you are afraid of things, you will always hide from things, and the more you hide things, the more you will be afraid of things.
Before encountering trouble, I thought of escaping, and before I needed to fight, I confessed.
Idle and idle, it is a whole life.
People who are too lazy to do things and have no time to act will always make time for anxiety.
Talk to your friends, always feel that others have to misunderstand themselves, all night insomnia.
Unintentionally brushed to the message, always feel that the other party is in the connotation of their own.
If you don't want to do something and have nothing to do, many people can't cope with anything, but it doesn't prevent you from always finding something.
When the writer Li Xiaoyi was a trainee reporter, he met an idle old lady.
When I picked up the phone, I heard her chanting: "I have a son, I have no one in my thirties, I want you to give him a blind date." ”
"My son is in good condition, and he has several houses..."
Li Xiaoyi began to patiently explain that the hotline here is to report news, regardless of blind dates.
The old lady ignored the chatter and did not mention the news clues at all.
After 20 minutes, Li Xiaoyi finally couldn't help it: "We really don't have this service, and I'm quite busy at work now, if it's okay, I'll hang up first." ”
The tone of the tone was decent, but it touched the old lady's fragile nerves.
Soon she was complained about, and the old man rushed to the newspaper office and scolded her.
What puzzled her even more was the director, who knew that she was wronged, but coaxed the old man from beginning to end and promised to give away newspapers.
When the old lady left, the director let her know with a sentence: "Those who want to do things, don't provoke those who are too idle, you must quickly send them away." ”
As it is said in "Parchment Scroll": "People are really busy, there are not too many complicated emotions at all, only too idle, will take those trivial things seriously." ”
In the eyes of idle people, the most talents who oppose themselves are busy and chaotic, and when breaking things become serious things, and small things become big things, they are all things in their eyes.
Busy, calm down, even others look for things are not taken seriously.
It's up to you to decide what to do.
All the bitterness, all the pretense, get busy, it's gone.
People who work hard in a down-to-earth manner are all annoyed and do not feel bitter when they encounter suffering.
Radio anchor Cheng Yi used to be a wedding host in Henan,
He was not willing to shout in his throat for the rest of his life, "Love tree, a line of pulling, symbolizing romantic marriage", decided to go to Beijing to find a job.
When I first applied, I submitted a lot of resumes and were rejected, picking his academic qualifications and saying that he didn't appreciate taste.
But he didn't have time to worry, he set up his own radio station early, no matter what the response, every day on time and on time, live broadcasting, accompanied by every stranger.
When the momentum saw good, he kept recruiting troops, staffing the venue, and moving the studio to the large office building.
Although I did not show my face, Cheng Yi still insisted on fitness and weight loss, and lost 40 pounds.
Saying that he could not develop, he closed his mouth, rejected his resume, and even came to his company to apply.
Daily hardships and tiredness, inevitably coping, every minute and second is full, your memory will only be wonderful.
Seeing that all the efforts that have been made have blossomed and borne fruit, and the sweats that have been shed have meaning, the heart is truly at ease.
Persist for a long time, and you will not feel bored until you are old.
The old man Qi Baishi is over 90 years old, or insists on painting 5 paintings every day, and no one will stop when he persuades him.
Only there was a birthday, a bunch of friends and guests came at home, from morning to night did not stop, he was a little bit of energy at night, lay down and slept.
And the next day he got up and went to paint without eating.
After painting five sheets, he continued to spread out the rice paper, splashing ink, and his family was afraid that he would be tired: "Haven't you drawn enough five sheets?" ”
He said: "Yesterday's birthday, there were many guests, no paintings, today to chase a few pictures to make up for yesterday's 'idle'." ”
At this level, he no longer wants to make a name, and at this age, he is even less profitable.
Every day, using his brain, painting, pulling erhu, practicing calligraphy, Qi Baishi has less thoughts and more childlike heart, but is much more peaceful and comfortable.
Busy, unlimited talent.
Busy, more positive mentality, stable and optimistic.
In the midst of busyness, hard work, idleness and sorrow, they are all healed.
In "Cai Gen Tan", it is said: "Life is too idle, then don't think about stealing life." ”
The network paragraph said: "People who are too idle will be wasted, and money that is too idle will be inflationary." ”
I just want to say, "In this life, you always have to find something to do." ”
Idle, idle all day, really not like the surface of ease.
It will make you break the plan with your own hands and start to cringe until there is nothing left of idleness in your life.
After half a lifetime, you will understand that only busyness can cure all kinds of things in the world.
Busy with what you are busy, happy with yourself, full and happy.
Author | Yew, the iron lady of the post-90s cute system, can turn the knife with a pen, and the eyebrows are smiling.
Image | Visual China