Wilde once said:
"When I was young, I used to think that money was the most important thing in the world, and now that I'm older, I realize that it is."
It is true that the world is bustling, all for the benefit of the world, the world is bustling, all for the benefit of the future.
In life, money seems to be an indispensable passport.
And in a person's attitude toward money, there is his attitude toward the world.
Talking about money is not only the touchstone for testing a relationship, but also the best criterion for seeing a person.
I have seen such a sentence: "People use wealth to test, gold to test with fire." ”
Whether the character is good or not, you can know it when you talk about money; if your feelings are really not true, you will know it when you talk about money once.
A few months ago, Lao Zhang received a call from an old classmate who had not been in touch for a long time.
Sudden contact, either marriage or borrowing money, Lao Zhang naturally did not escape.
The old classmate said that he was tight on hand and wanted to borrow some money to use for turnover, and in about half a month, he could pay it back.
Lao Zhang thought in his heart, when everyone has difficulties, since there is something wrong, he can help one.
But a few days later, the old classmate actually showed love in the circle of friends, from the picture, it can be seen that the old classmate took his girlfriend to the island with a high consumption for a vacation.
At this time, it coincided with Lao Zhang's mother finding some problems in the physical examination, and it was the time to use the money.
Lao Zhang stared at the arrival of half a month, so he called his old classmates, saying that he had also encountered some unexpected situations and asked the other party if he could repay the money.
Unexpectedly, the old classmate directly launched a fire on the phone:
"When you have money, they will naturally pay you back, so why are you in a hurry?"
Although repeatedly urged, the old classmate still paid back the money.
However, in the first time after repaying the money, he blacked out Old Zhang, and even complained about Old Zhang's stinginess in the group of classmates.
This time, It made Lao Zhang very embarrassed.
Even wonder if you should be kind enough to help so-called acquaintances?
There are many ways to see a person, the most thorough of which is to talk about money.
Money is a mirror that illuminates the good and evil of the human heart; money is also a thermometer that can measure the temperature of human nature.
A true gentleman is willing to send charcoal and help his friends in the snow when they are in difficulty, and will also take the initiative to repay the money as soon as they get out of trouble, and will not let the friend fall into an embarrassing place.
Villains, on the other hand, often borrow money in the name of "good relations" and do not repay, and even change their faces when they mention repaying money, and they will frame others because they do not want to repay money.
Whether a person is worthy of deep friendship or not, it is known once; how a person's character is, it is known once to talk about money.
After all, human nature can be seen most in the back and forth of interests.
More than a decade ago, there was an old man named Chen Jinying in Zhejiang, who was saddled with more than 20 million yuan in debt when he was in his 80s due to the company's poor capital turnover.
There are many people around her who advise her: "File for bankruptcy, so that you can reduce your debts, anyway, you are so old." ”
Some creditors also remembered their past feelings and said, "Even if we don't pay back, it doesn't matter, we have made a lot of money in the past cooperation." ”
But she said: "As a person, you can hunch your back, but you can't bend your waist, and the debt you should pay will try your best to pay it off." ”
In order to pay off the debt, she sold the factory and the house, but even if she moved from place to place, she still had nearly 3 million yuan in arrears.
But the old man was not afraid, she set up a stall on the street, sold down jackets, and finally paid off the last debt at the age of 90.
Chen Jinying has exchanged more than ten years of hardships for the integrity of a lifetime; he has also exchanged his good character for people's respect.
The locals, for this reason, affectionately call her "Honest Grandma".
Shakespeare once said, "Money is a great wand that can change a person's appearance at will." ”
After all, the world panicked, but the figure broke a few silver.
But a gentleman who loves wealth must have a way to get it; a gentleman who repays his debts must pay them off even in ten years.
Because they know that money is character.
A person who can be stable in the face of interests can be as stable as Taishan in the face of other big tests in life;
A person who can be easily shaken by money, at a critical moment, does not know what else to sell.
Moreover, in this life, in addition to money, there are many things that are more precious.
For example, promises are more valuable than thousands of dollars; for example, integrity is the real priceless treasure.
Establishing a correct view of money is equivalent to establishing the correct values.
I have seen such a sentence: "People who do not talk about money will never mature." ”
It is true that talking about money generously is not only a compulsory course for an adult, but also the greatest decency among adults.
A few days ago, Dada, introduced by a friend, took on a list to design cartoon characters.
At first, she had a good conversation with the other party, and even received half of the fee as a deposit.
However, after the finished product was completed and sent to the other party, the final payment was lost.
At first, the other party was prevaricating, then said that the third party had a problem, and finally even the message was not returned.
This not only bothered Dada, but also embarrassed the middleman as a friend.
This is in stark contrast to another "strategic partner" of Dada.
The two have been good since childhood, one to learn Chinese, the other to learn design.
After graduation, he said that he wanted to start a business together and start his own comic story journey.
At the beginning of the cooperation, Dada said that friends do not need to calculate so clearly, but the friend insisted that the brothers should settle the account, and even invited professionals to draw up a division of labor and sharing agreement between the two.
Although the initial income is very small, but you like it, now there is a small popularity, and the two will not lose their friendship because of the uneven interests.
People often say that talking about money hurts feelings, but as you grow up, you will find that not talking about money is the real hurt feeling.
Even Sanmao once sighed:
The world's comedies do not need money to produce, and most of the tragedies in the world are inseparable from money.
Because the real world is not a fairytale castle, nor is it a castle in the sky.
What we need to face is a real vegetable and a meal, a peach to repay the li's personal exchanges, and a way to get along with "you give me a papaya, and I give you Qiongyao".
Good feelings must be based on not covering up each other, not avoiding each other, and generously talking about money.
Good cooperation must also be based on mutual respect, value recognition, and equivalent returns.
After all, a relationship with a material foundation can be healthy and long-lasting.
There is a sentence in "The Money Merchant":
In this era, some people have money and some people have no money; some people make money, some people lose money; some people love money, some people are afraid of money.
At the end of the day, everyone can't do without money.
Money is not a panacea, but money can solve most of life's troubles.
Talking about money can not only help us see the depth of a friendship, but also help us test the quality of a person's character.
Please cherish the people who talk about money generously, and please cherish the people who have good money.
At the end of the article, I light up [in the watch], may you make a lot of money in the year of the tiger, and may you meet noble people everywhere.
Author | Natto, I'm circling the globe at my fingertips, personal public number: four or five pages (dreaminggirls3)
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