In an interview, about "the age of a letter", actor Liu Tao said:
I miss the days when there was no VB, no VX, no mobile phone, no internet, coming home, eating together as a family, chatting, watching TV, parents and children caring for each other, leaving home for a long time, writing letters to the family, I miss the emotions of that time.
Liu Tao's words have broken many people's defenses!
This year's Spring Festival, affected by the epidemic, the family did not gather to play cards, the first day of the New Year, rainy everywhere, in order not to want to sit on the cold bench for a day, many young people like to chat with the elders while roasting the fire.
There are many opinions about "what is the taste of the year".
The post-60s mother said:
In the past New Year, there was no Internet, no mobile phone, as soon as I had time, I would tidy up the room, clean up, and do what I should do, and now in the New Year, I would take my mobile phone to brush vibrato as soon as I had time, and I was too lazy to do any housework.
The uncle of the post-70s generation said:
When we were new year, everyone sat in the courtyard and chatted over the fire, listening to the stories of grandparents' generation, and listening to them over and over again.
The cousin of the post-80s generation said:
I miss the previous New Year, I and my buddies play games on the Internet, although there was the Internet at that time, but everyone chatted while playing, shopping with buddies, but also hooked up with each other, now play games, everyone only hold the mobile phone to play, really not interesting.
Post-90s novels:
Especially nostalgic for the 2G era, when the New Year, no keyboard man, no Internet violence, the elderly leftover women returned to the village, at most a few long-tongued women in the village were commenting on the foot, now different, I do not get married, my parents will put me on the Internet to spur.
The sister of the post-95s said:
I prefer the current New Year, with a mobile phone, relatives do not have to force a smile to find a topic, if there is no mobile phone, awkward chat will be more painful, but with a mobile phone, I am working 24 hours a day, the work group never dares to set do not disturb, hear the mobile phone ring, my heart began to hair anxiety.
The Internet, it is a product of the times, with the Internet, many people have indeed gradually become "ruthless strangers".
Previous New Year VS Now New Year
In the past, watching TV at home during the New Year, there were three stations, and it seemed that they were all "Journey to the West".
Now in the New Year, every household has a cloud TV, a few remote controls, press and go, can not find the right TV series to watch, even if there are good TV series, are to VIP.
In the past New Year, everyone did not have a mobile phone, the neck was not sore, the waist was not painful, the eyes were clear and clear, and there was a lot of talking to the family.
Now in the New Year, everyone has a mobile phone, the family eats, each watching their favorite program, sandwiching the dishes on the table, planing the rice in the bowl, and the mouth is chirping, and they are unwilling to say a word, like they have a language disorder.
In the past New Year, classmates and friends would go to KTV, and everyone would rush to compete for Mai Ba, and they would also prepare a few songs in advance.
Now when classmates go to KTV, everyone is either sitting and playing with their mobile phones, or going everywhere to channel the stage.
In the past, when I went home for the New Year, workers did not have mobile phones, and when they left work, they were off work, and when they were on duty, they were on duty.
Now the workers go home for the New Year, with a mobile phone, even if they come back for the New Year, 24 hours seem to be at work, and the work group never dares to set up a message to avoid interruption.
In the past New Year, relatives gave red envelopes, and in order to pretend to be embarrassed, every year they had to stage a robbery refusal war.
Now the New Year, with a mobile phone, relatives in the group to send red packets, everyone still does not hesitate to grab, the elders to give the red packets, although embarrassed to receive seconds, but after waiting for 30 seconds, will not hesitate to point out the reception, a big deal to say "thank you boss red packets."
Now with the Internet, many people's lives have been kidnapped, and now no matter what you do, there is big data monitoring and observing you anyway.
On the street, only a snot, a dish with teeth, a foot on a chair, spit on the street, someone will quietly record it with a mobile phone, and then put it on the Internet, all of a sudden, low-key you, suddenly on the hot.
In fact, everything has two sides, and the Internet is the same, and there are pros and cons.
Take the actor Liu Tao, if there is no Internet, no traffic, everyone only looks at the print media, I am afraid that everyone does not know who Liu Tao is, as an actor, I am afraid that her attention will not be so high.
Without the Internet, is it really convenient for you to communicate and contact with your loved ones?
Do you understand the mood of receiving a letter before?
After 7080, they especially like the feeling of writing letters, an envelope, a stamp, after the mailbox is delivered, it is the feeling of looking forward to the reply.
Mr. Mu Xin's "Once Upon a Time Slow" wrote:
Once upon a time, the sun became slow, the car, the horse, the mail were slow, only enough to love one person in a lifetime, the lock of the past was also beautiful, the key was exquisite, you locked, people will understand.
With the Internet, people can also care for each other, greet each other, reunite, visit friends and family with video chat, and write E-MAIL to send blessings, which is convenient and fast.
People in my father's generation said: "In the past, telephone bills were expensive, letters were slow, and it was unreliable to find someone else to bring words, but in the past, if you were looking for a friend to say something, you had to cross several mountains, and when you arrived at the door of a friend's house, you found that he was actually not at home, and it was really a vain trip."
With the internet, it is easier to communicate with family.
With the Internet, people who usually can't see it can also make videos.
My cousin is after 80, when he was in college, every time he asked the family for living expenses, his uncle had to go to the bank to transfer money.
Now the cousin after 00, he is looking for his uncle to ask for living expenses, as long as he makes a voice call, the money will arrive in seconds.
Then again, many people now feel that the new year's human touch has gradually become strange and cold, in fact, this has little to do with the Internet.
All along, Chinese New Year's Day, no matter how busy they are, no matter how crowded the roads are, everyone has to go home for the New Year.
The hard work of the workers a year away is for the family reunion in just a few days.
The workers know the traffic jams, the hardships of the weekly transition, and the fatigue of carrying large bags and small bags, but even after thousands of mountains and rivers, they will not tire of hard work, and the workers will go back to reunite with their families.
Every New Year's Festival, you will find that China's passenger flow is breathtaking.
Many years ago, when a crooked nut saw this scene, he complained:
I think they (Chinese) are so stupid that they might as well send the money home and save effort and fare.
But our family, they don't care more than money. After all, money can't replace the joy of being reunited with your family, and I think this is probably the "New Year's flavor" of Chinese!
#这就是年味儿 #
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Wen | Xuancao
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