This is my second article of February 2022, numbered 2022-2-2.
My little idol won the championship, and I was so happy that I couldn't do it.
The youthful and spontaneous posture brings a brilliant sunshine to our lives.
I saw from her: 1. People can achieve dazzling results in many fields; 2. Maternal love or love is the source of motivation; 3. Love is always the only shortcut in life!
Let's start with the first point: people are complexes! Just as in order to improve economic efficiency, people divide work into many lines and many kinds. The same is true of the subjects, in order to improve the efficiency of learning, there are many subjects.
But can a person only do the same in a lifetime to succeed? I don't think so.
A senior told me that you must first build your own knowledge structure before you can write a high-level novel. Just like building blocks, you use one piece to build and use multiple pieces to build, the effect is definitely not the same.
Isn't there a proverb that says that Wen Shi Zhe does not separate families!
Many people are good at mathematics, physics and chemistry, and some people are very good at writing, painting, calligraphy and music.
The more solid the structure, the easier it is to make breakthrough achievements in the later stages. Gu Ailing plays football, rides horses, swims and runs... These exercises not only improve physical fitness, but also exercise balance and coordination.
Also, I reckon she's not bad at trampoline either, as she practices skiing first on the trampoline (to prevent injury).
Therefore, if we learn more subjects, not only is it not harmful, but it can also help us reach the top level, because the top breakthroughs often require knowledge or skill background in similar subjects.
Let's talk about the second point: if a mother only wants to work early to get married and have children, it is actually similar to the life of a cowherd, herding cattle and marrying a daughter-in-law to have children and herding cattle... The cycle goes on and on, not only does not leave room for children to develop, but also gives various constraints.
There are many difficulties faced by people who become beyond ordinary people, they need support and strength, and even the best nobles are not as good as mother's love.
I believe that everyone has loved their mother deeply, and in the end whether they love or not I don't know, but people will love the person who really loves him.
If you really love your child, let her do it, and protect her. The mother does the most or protect and protect. In particular, protection is not coddling, protection and coddling are two different things, and true love is fine, just like money.
Gu Ailing's mother never said she was tired. In my opinion, Mother Gu is much harder than Gu Ailing. She skied with her daughter almost every minute. When my daughter skied, she sat in front of the computer, watching every second of Gu Ailing's skiing, analyzing the action, formulating countermeasures, responding to accidents, checking the injury, and communicating at any time. Every game, they communicate through headphones, wind direction, wind power, state, strategy... After the exercise, she also had to take care of her life. Most mothers can't do that.
My daughter is 25 pounds in a winter coat. I often hold her out to play. She doesn't like to ride in the car and especially likes me to hold. Hugging is definitely good, enhancing intimacy and fostering her sense of security. But I'm often so tired that I can't. It's too far from Gu's mother. That's the gap!
Finally, let's talk about the third point: love! I love reading and writing. Immerse yourself in it and can't help yourself. Whoever stops me, I may kill! It's a bit of an exaggeration, but you must know what I mean. Reading is tired, writing is hard!
I don't want to tell you that after writing the article yesterday, my hands and feet were cold and unconscious, because I forgot to turn on the air conditioner, and as soon as my daughter fell asleep, I immediately began to write. It was a pleasure to write and finish. That joy is unparalleled! And I was recently reading Stoner, after my daughter fell asleep, eating two mouthfuls of food and quickly reading a few pages. As long as I can read it for a while, I have a good day and keep thinking about what I have read.
I think that Gu Ailing is also like this, once on the ski slope, the feeling of riding the snow field comes, and the excitement and joy pour out throughout the body, and it doesn't feel more refreshing! People have emotions and preferences, and this preference is talent. As long as you are not a fool, you must have talent. Don't you know what you like?
If you find your hobby, you are not afraid of not working hard, you are afraid of sleeping and forgetting to eat. Therefore, Gu's mother must let her daughter sleep enough for ten hours a day, afraid that she loves it too much and overdrafts her body.
Such an analysis, is it that most people can become Gu Ailing in their own talent field?
If you're already a parent and can't help your child develop, don't be a stumbling block. Share!