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Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

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Low-key people are often very cultured.

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Figure丨 Wash the rain and get off the bus

In the era of the media and the Internet, only a person with a high profile can make people see, let people know, and make people pay attention. High-profile must be strong, not afraid of attack, in turn, the more attacked the more attention, the more it becomes the protagonist of public opinion, do something will be hot sales; high-profile not only scenery, but also bring fame and fortune win-win, so some people choose high-profile.

High-profile people can also be addictive, high-profile people are often inseparable from high-profile, like smoking and drinking, the better it is, the more it can't come down, and it is uncomfortable to come down. But the media and the Internet are transient, rolling, like the new and tired of the old. It is difficult for anyone to always stand in the high-pitched area, so it must be constantly tossed, hyped, created, and troubled in order to continue to be high-profile.

Some people think that high-profile is a success, but it is not. High-profile is just a way of living in this era. Of course, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and there is nothing wrong with choosing anything.

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Picture 丨 The fragments of dimples

So others choose a different way of living – low-key.

This kind of person does not like to be concerned about every move, every word is also discussed, does not like the dignitaries in front of people, does not like to be chased by the "paparazzi", is entangled and besieged by fans, and is exposed to the naked; they understand that in the society of commodities and consumption, the price of high-profile existence is to be commodified and consumed. In this way, people who are willing to keep a low profile are not known and not known, but they can do what they like steadily, fully enjoy and chew the day, and live a peaceful, stable and steady life. You ask him how he's so low-key, he'll just laugh; it's like loving someone and needs to explain it to others? So:

Low-key in order to live in their own world, high-profile in order to live in other people's world.

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Figure 丨 Qingke

The same is true of culture. There is also a high-profile culture and a low-key culture.

First of all, the business culture must be high-profile, only high-profile will be hot selling, low-key who knows who to buy? However, what is hot cannot always be hot, and sooner or later it will be replaced by something fresher and more fashionable. Therefore, fashion is the darling of business culture. The most successful in the market are fashion goods. People say that fashion is created by creating momentum, and there are a lot of colorful bubbles in it, but commodity culture is not afraid of bubbles, because it only seeks the commercial effects of the time, the shock and strength of the moment, and does not seek lasting charm.

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Therefore, another pure culture that pursues the charm of lasting life is difficult to become popular in today's era, but it will not give up its own pursuit for the sake of popularity. It is willing to be lonely because it is convinced of the value and meaning of this culture.

I have a lot of respect for some of my fellow writers. In a society where the market dominates, I am afraid that writers are the most calm group of people. They usually do not know where to hide, rarely reach out to probe their brains, sometimes not seen for a year or two, seemingly evaporated in the human world, but suddenly took out a book that was more than 100,000 or hundreds of thousands of words thick; the depth of life and human nature touched by the tip of their pen, and the strength of the creativity of words, which was surprising. When people go to taste and discuss, they go somewhere silently. Only in this way can he write works that truly understand the life of society.

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Picture 丨 Freshwater room

Writers are inherently low-key. They live in the deep creases of society, but also in their own hearts and dispositions, so they can see the light in the darkness and the shadows in the sun, as well as the pain points in the depths of the earth. They are not born to be star material, they do not manage themselves but only create the characters they write; any thinker is like this: put themselves in a low profile, so that the idea can truly become a high profile of the times.

Enjoy the understated – understated tranquility, solidity, depth and timelessness. Low-key is not forgotten by the edge, and it is not incompetent. On the contrary, only self-confidence can be low-key and content to be low-key.

Feng Jicai: Confident people are often very low-key

Figure 丨 Ruiyan

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