In 2007, in Yejiapu Village, Fucheng County, Hebei Province, news of the "haunting" of villager Wu Guiling's family quickly spread throughout the village. Wu Guiling saw with his own eyes that there were shaking shadows in the home, so the villagers were panicked, and Wu Guiling was even more frightened and could not sleep at night.
What the hell is that shadow? Is there really "haunting"?
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<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > the first revelation of the shadow</h1>
In August 2008, Wu Guiling saw the "shadow" again. That day, Wu Guiling went out and found that she had forgotten to bring something, and at the moment she opened the door, the shadow flashed in the house again.
Wu Guiling rubbed her eyes vigorously, and she found that the shadow in front of her was actually a figure, and Wu Guiling was suddenly frightened and lost. When she came back to her senses, she immediately turned her home upside down, and did not see half a figure, and only her sister, who had been paralyzed for 20 years, lay in the house.
Wu Guiling
Later, her daughter's words made Wu Guiling feel even more strange. It turned out that her daughter, who was studying in the county town that day, came back, and when she returned home, she was scared and cried out, and Wu Guiling saw her daughter's shocked look and asked busily: What' up, what's wrong?
The daughter suddenly fell into Wu Guiling's arms and said, "Get up... Up..."
Wu Guiling was confused: "What... Up? ”
Daughter: "My aunt is up." ”
Wu Guiling recounted the scene her daughter saw
Wu Guiling's heart was full of ten thousand how could it be. Sister Wu Guiying has been paralyzed for 20 years, life can not take care of themselves, even turn over, how can she get up? After Wu Guiling asked her sister, she also got a negative reply from her sister.
Is that shaking figure Wu Guiying? If so, then why should Wu Guiying pretend to sleep?
Paralyzed Wu Guiying
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > figure mystery surfaced</h1>
Wu Guiling has eight sisters, she ranks third, and Wu Guiying ranks eighth. Since Wu Guiying is the youngest, his brothers and sisters will humble Wu Guiying. As long as Wu Guiying and her brothers and sisters have contradictions, it is Wu Guiying whose mother protects her the most.
When Wu Guiying was 15 years old, she once had a fight with her brother, and her brother accidentally hit Wu Guiying, and Wu Guiying suddenly fainted, and when she woke up, she was vomiting. Since then, Wu Guiying has been paralyzed in bed and cannot get up.
Her mother has been taking good care of Wu Guiying's living and eating for twenty years. Until 2007, after her mother died of illness, the sisters took turns to take care of Wu Guiying.
Wu Guiying's sisters
After the third sister Wu Guiling took Wu Guiying home, she took care of her meticulously: responsible for her three meals a day, cleaning her sputum, washing her body, and even helping her turn over often.
Until the sudden appearance of a figure in the family and the strange phenomenon that her daughter saw, Wu Guiling's heart was full of all kinds of doubts and fears, and her daughter hid in a relative's house because she was afraid.
Wu Guiling's husband, who was working outside the home, heard the news and hurried back. He had been observing secretly for many days, and the strange figure had not appeared in the house again.
Wu Guiling's husband
Her husband comforted Wu Guiling that it might be a cat or dog in the family, and just as Wu Guiling's doubts slowly subsided, the figure really appeared in front of her eyes.
That day, when Wu Guiling and her husband went out to work, they found that they had forgotten to bring a tool, Wu Guiling returned home to get it, and just as she opened the door, the figure stood in the house, staring at her with a straight face, that person was her sister who had been paralyzed for 20 years.
The sister was feeding Wu Guiying sugar gourd
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" > sister who has been paralyzed for 20 years stands the truth</h1>
When Wu Guiling and her sister looked at each other, Wu Guiling was startled into a cold sweat, and she quickly turned her head and ran out. When Wu Guiling saw her husband, she suddenly sat down on the ground and told her husband the truth in a panic.
When Wu Guiling and her husband went home to check, they found that their sister had fainted on the ground. She quickly carried her sister to bed with her husband, and when Wu Guiying woke up, Wu Guiling eagerly asked her sister if she knew if she would get out of bed and walk?
Wu Guiying denied the fact that he would go
Wu Guiying told her sister with a puzzled face that she didn't know anything. At this time, Wu Guiying's heart was even more panicked, why did her sister suddenly stand and she herself did not know, was there really a soul possessed?
When Wu Guiling pondered and meditated, one question after another suddenly came to mind: Why did her sister have been paralyzed for 20 years and had not had bedsores? In addition to the weakness of the limbs, there is no atrophy? A recent increase in meal intake? Why did you speak Tianjin dialect for a year before? ......
Wu Guiling simply installed a camera at home, and on the third day, her sister finally revealed her horse's feet, and she not only stood, but also went to the cook alone to get peanuts to eat. Why is my sister like this? Wu Guiling decided to turn to a psychologist.
Monitor a scene
When Professor Che made some understanding of Wu Guiying's situation, he also expressed his great confusion, because he took over many hysterical patients (various physical disorders), but hysteria patients like Wu Guiying who have been paralyzed for 20 years are also rare in the industry.
Experts quickly identified the problem in the analysis of the stripping of the cocoon:
First, Wu Guiying did not have a strong sense of wanting to stand, and even when she was assisted in standing, her heart resisted; second, Wu Guiying was pampered since childhood, as long as she did not go well, she would lie on the bed, at this time the family either coaxed her or fed her food.
Experts concluded that Wu Guiying's subconscious did not want to get up, because she could get more love from her family when she was lying in bed, which was also a common histrionic personality imagination among hysterical patients, which somehow attracted the attention of people around her.
Wu Guiying is in the process of examination
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="04" > sister of "pretending to sleep for 20 years"</h1>
Experts are kind to Wu Guiying, telling her about the various advantages of standing up and walking, but Wu Guiying still does not cooperate with standing and even behaves very reluctantly.
How to let Wu Guiying walk normally has become the top priority of everyone. At this time, the expert did the opposite, he severely reprimanded Wu Guiying for standing up and getting up, and exposed her lies in public.
Wu Guiying would sit still
Stimulated by the experts, Wu Guiying actually stood up trembling and walked back and forth several steps.
Rather than saying that Wu Guiying's dream was completely awakened, it is better to say that she can't put it down, or that her subconscious tells her that she can walk, and in less than 4 days before and after, Wu Guiying, who "pretended to sleep for 20 years", can really walk!
Wu Guiying was walking
What happened to Wu Guiying, who was 37 years old at the time?
Wu Guiying's family also finally realized that it was the family's care for Wu Guiying that led to the tragedy. Under the advice of experts, the brothers and sisters slowly cultivated Wu Guiying's sense of independence, and no longer interfered everywhere in all trivial matters of Wu Guiying.
With the encouragement of her family, Wu Guiying has slowly returned to a normal life, and her mood is improving day by day. According to insiders, Wu Guiying later got married under the introduction of a matchmaker and lived a happy and harmonious life.
Netizens revealed
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="05" > the hidden pain behind the tragedy</h1>
Wu Guiying's final ending makes us happy at the same time, but it is not painful. The most brilliant time of her life stopped forever at the age of 15, and 20 years of youth were consumed in bed.
Life is like a bouquet of flowers, or tenaciously open in the storm, or in the greenhouse, it is not related to the future of a person's growth.
Wu Guiying on the sickbed
Netizens have mixed evaluations of the Wu Guiying incident, some people say that Wu Guiying is too lazy, and some people say that it is a habitual problem. So who caused Wu Guiying's tragedy? In my opinion, there are three reasons.
First, the parents are spoiled. Just as the habit of killing a child is like killing a child, if parents have to do everything for their children, then the child cannot bear the hardships, cannot stand setbacks, and it is difficult to achieve great things.
Wu Guiying was held in the palm of her mother's hand since she was a child, everything let Wu Guiying, her mother's spoiling developed Wu Guiying's comfortable character, she was afraid of hardship, and even she would take the sympathy of her relatives as a matter of course, which was also the main reason why she pretended to sleep for 20 years.
Second, too clingy to the mother. After becoming a mother, maternal love is easy to flood, but when the child reaches a certain age, the mother must slowly alienate the relationship with the child. Otherwise, boys who are too clingy to their mothers are easy to mother, while girls who are too clingy to their mothers are often unable to be independent.
When Wu Guiying was 15 years old, her mother still cared for her in every way, resulting in Wu Guiying's lack of independent ideology and lack of the ability to live independently. Until she found that pretending to sleep could be worry-free and could be favored by her family, she also slowly enjoyed the feeling of being taken care of, and this consciousness had penetrated into her bone marrow that she herself did not want to wake up.
Third, the neglect of psychoeducation. In China's 2020 Mental Health Blue Book "China National Mental Health Development Report" shows that 24.6% of adolescents are depressed, the depression detection rate at the primary school level is about 10%, the depression detection rate at the junior high school stage is about 30%, and the depression detection rate in the high school stage is close to 40%. In the process of children's growth, these psychological problems of children are problems that parents cannot ignore.
Wu Guiying, who has been paralyzed for 20 years, returned to normal walking in 4 days, and experts have also said with emotion that if it is treated in time, it will not be paralyzed for 20 years. Imagine if Wu Guiying's family realized the psychological impact of growth education on Wu Guiying as early as possible and took her to timely treatment, I think there would be no subsequent tragedy.
When Wu Guiying always remembers her 20 years of "pretending to sleep" after tea and dinner, I wonder if she has a momentary remorse?
Just as you can never wake up a person pretending to be asleep!