Gemini people are often a person who is good at choosing in the heart, they do not like to live and live a life, often have a lot of self-judgment, and are good at silently planning in the heart.
Therefore, when they start to slowly ignore you, it is likely that they have already made a judgment on you in their minds and chosen to stop the loss in time, so what are the reasons for Gemini to slowly ignore you?
When do Geminis not care for others?
Gemini is actually a stubborn person in the heart, but also a person who needs to be treated equally, many times, they know how to look at people's faces, when they see that others are perfunctory or unwilling, then Gemini would rather escape in the opposite way, or lose you, rather than continue to catch up.
It can be said that Gemini is also a sensitive and delicate person, they have a shy component, but also have the adaptability to the environment, they are good at making corresponding changes according to the external situation, rather than falling into a passive.
Therefore, they are often extremely wise and hurtful, and in a delicate interpersonal interaction, they show a lonely side of their hearts, so sometimes they actively choose to alienate a person, because they know what they really want in their hearts.
First, I find it difficult to explain the truth to you
Geminis are people who have more things than less, that is, they do not want to make their lives complicated and often in waves.
They are a person who needs to be quiet in their hearts, not a noisy person, so Gemini often does not like to play some "cat and mouse" game with a person to make themselves suffer internal friction.
What they need is to add color to each other's lives, not to control the relationship between being controlled and controlled, so they do not want to provoke a "war" or work hard in the process of competing for the initiative.
They would rather give you the initiative, but just keep their distance from you, and they don't mind conceding defeat while running away from your words, making no sense with you, and simply not talking.
Second, the times have changed, and people have taken tea cold
Many times, Gemini slowly ignores a person, there is no special reason, but just the passage of time, people go cold, they are not a person who will particularly care about the warmth and coldness of human feelings, because Gemini seems to be enthusiastic, but in fact, there is a cold side.
They actually pay more attention to their own hearts, rather than some external things, which is why Gemini is a bit "autistic", because the outside world will be just a passing cloud for them.
Therefore, don't expect Gemini to cherish some fate and care about some interpersonal relationships, but can only say that people walking tea is a particularly normal thing for them.
Third, after the heart, you need to stop the loss in time
Many times, Geminis are enthusiastic at first, but they will slowly alienate you because they understand that you are not the person you want.
The initial enthusiasm is a feeling of heartbeat, or a curiosity, so that they inevitably want to contact you and understand you, but when they begin to slowly understand you and find some places that are not suitable for each other at all, then, in order to suppress their own heartbeat, they simply avoid it, in the opposite way, let you know what they mean.
Many times, Geminis don't want to say it too clearly, they feel that "voting" with their feet is a way that does not hurt people and is less lethal, so they just can't bear to make the parting scene too ugly.
Fourth, self-esteem is strong, you are cold, they are even colder
Many people think that Gemini is a person who needs to be indulged, but they do not know that if this method is used too much, it will also evolve into a "disaster".
Because Gemini actually has a strong sense of self-esteem, when they are enthusiastic, you deliberately treat them in a cold way, or even if you see their initiative, you pretend not to be reasonable, then it is difficult for Gemini to pay enthusiasm.
It can be said that they need to receive a kind of feedback, an interaction when they take the initiative, and if you just want to "hang" them, or there are still concerns and prejudices in their hearts, then they will naturally feel that their self-esteem is frustrated, choose to stay away, and many times, Gemini values face more than you think.