Zuo Qiu restored the Ming Dynasty and plotted 31 essays

1. The Eight Precepts of the Pig are greedy and lustful, the sand monks are honest and mediocre, but they do not wear the tight hoop curse, Sun Wukong does not eat, does not snooze, is not lustful, and has strong ability, but wears a tight hoop spell? Because people with shortcomings are easy to manage, people with mediocre abilities are easy to manage, but perfect people and people with strong abilities are not easy to manage, so wear a tight curse just in case.

2. Of all the workplace problems, there is only one core solution, that is, to become a leader's confidant. As long as you become a leader's confidant, nothing is a problem. If you're not his confidant, anything is a problem.

3. Do you know what behaviors leaders hate most about their subordinates? 1. Negotiate conditions. 2. Have emotions. 3. Pick a pick. Talking about conditions shows coercion of superiors, emotions show that there is unwillingness, and picking words shows disobedience to authority.

4. The core of dealing with interpersonal crises deals with conflicts of interest, but the most important thing is to deal with emotional conflicts. When people have emotions, any communication is ineffective, and any rationality is lost. Remember: Deal with emotions first, then deal with problems.

5. Making money is not what we want to do, we do, but to see what people with resources want and what customers want. We offer what they want. Habitually help people with resources solve problems, habitually help customers solve problems, and money slowly flows into your pocket.

6. Don't look at this unpleasantly, look at that unpleasant eye. Does a girlfriend have someone else's pretty sexiness? Do you have anyone else's leisure time and money? If not, put aside emotions and struggle. Emotions can only make you a fishing wire, picking up the rest of others, picking up the right self-comfort while picking up...

7. Enlarge the mind a little, don't be so careful with your eyes, don't be so self-righteous, do you still want to learn the retreat of the Great Qing? Then wait to be beaten! Whoever has the resources we will be close to whom, and what is effective we will learn from whom, it is as simple as that. What face, guilt, cowardice, all are obstacles, all garbage, all must be abandoned. If you have a big heart, you can understand the things of the world.

8. When others praise you, don't shake your head vigorously, and don't nod your head stupidly. What to do? In turn, praise each other. Interpersonal well, pay attention to interaction, you praise me, I praise you, everyone goes up.

9. Man, the most feared thing is Qinggao. Once cleared, it's like a balloon injecting hydrogen, leaving the ground and floating in the air. It is difficult for a high-ranking person to achieve worldly success. A lot of excellent boys, can't find a beautiful wife, ah, why? Because of qinggao, always picky and choose, always hesitant, the result is that it is gnawed down by some.

10. To your own requirements, be a little more relaxed. Let yourself go, you are not a saint, not a moral model, you are a person who can no longer be vulgar, you exist for money, power, sex, you are such a person. In this way, your psychological baggage will be a lot lighter, and the action will be sharp. In the past, you were always like a refugee, carrying a big bag and a small bag and reluctant to lose it, why bother?

11. After those false moral masks are thrown away, true wisdom comes out. After taking off the moral sunglasses, the scenery in front of me is much clearer.

12. Man is a bully who is afraid of evil, don't change this, don't say, "Oh, how can you bully the weak?" Who would be stupid enough to bully someone stronger than themselves? When you become unsavory, others will naturally respect you. Punch a punch, so as not to have a hundred punches coming.

13. To establish a good relationship with a person, in addition to daily patting, you must also find opportunities to reward him with a few slaps. "Leader, in order not to live up to your trust, I must tell you the truth...", "Because you regard me as a friend, I only tell the truth, in fact...", with a righteous face, deny the other party, let the other party think that you are principled and have bones. Horse ass and slaps are used together, and they are beaten and pulled, in and out, in order to make each other cool, in order to satisfy the inferiority of human beings to the greatest extent.

14. What is the root cause of our face to our parents and smiles to strangers? It's because you're sure your parents won't turn their faces to you, and strangers will turn their faces to you, in other words, strangers will make you "lose." If something doesn't make you feel "likely to lose," then you won't cherish it either. Therefore, when you interact with others, let them feel that you may be lost.

15. The soldiers and horses did not move, and the grain and grass went first. Before others ask others to do things, the interests will be laid out first, and it will be much smoother.

16. Society has been changing, and people's minds have been changing, but human nature has not changed. Greedy for life and afraid of death, greedy for money and lustful, good at leisure and bad work... How did these humanities change?

17. One day, Xiao A accidentally bumped into a married manager and a married female colleague holding hands to open a house. After coming back, Little A's soul did not keep the house, and kept saying: What to do, what to do, see their ugly things, what should the manager do if I wear small shoes later? I sighed, no wonder Little A is still at the bottom of society for so many years, fishing wire is fishing wire, not only no brain, but also no courage.

18. Suddenly, one day, I found that it is the inferiority of man that drives social progress. Since then, my life has been smooth sailing. Because I always do things from the inferiority of people, interpersonal communication is based on the inferiority of others. I used to be too naïve and always defeated by the inferiority of others.

19. Man, not extreme, but moderate. What is extreme? It is a black-and-white diode thinking, either thinking that everyone in the world is a crow, or thinking that everyone in the world is a magpie. What is called moderation is that there is no distinction between crows and magpies, only the difference between useful and useless, useful ravens become magpies, useless magpies become crows.

20. There is no good and no evil body, and the human heart has no good and no evil. So never say who has a good heart, and who has a bad heart. Look at you good bullying, other people's hearts are bad, look at you bad bullying, other people's hearts are good. So whether a person is a good person or a bad person depends not on himself, but on yourself.

21. A group of moms get together, smart moms will praise other people's children, and stupid moms will praise their own children. Praising other people's children is to make the other parents happy, to praise their own children, and most others do not think so. This is the same in interpersonal communication, where smart people praise others and fools praise themselves.

22. The husband broke a vase, the clever wife asked if the hand was hurt, and the stupid wife scolded why she was not careful. The former shows that the husband is more important than the vase, and the latter shows that the vase is more important than the husband. That's how smart people and fools are distinguished.

23. Don't listen to what dog P "advice", if these suggestions are effective, the other party has already soared, the clubhouse is not happy, and will tell you your own secrets, so that you can compete with him for resources? If the other party is mixed into that N, it means that these "suggestions" are dog P! Therefore, my attitude towards other people's suggestions is: smile and giggle on the surface, MMP in the heart!

24. True interpersonal masters, who don't make others think they're good at interpersonal communication, often look a little "stupid". People have a defensive mentality, you behave too skillfully, others will think that you have no intentions. It's like you want to buy something, but know that the other party is a sales master, and the sales skills are very strong, what do you think? You'll doubt his motives and feel like he's playing tricks on you, just for the money in your pocket.

25. One of the tricks of the reign is to turn the power in the hand into a blue ocean, let the people below roll to death in the blue ocean, and finally cultivate a batch of roll kings. This is the art of raising clams, this is the art of dog fighting.

26. There is a willow tree by the lake, there is also a willow tree on the lake, and the willow tree on the lake is the reflection of the willow tree by the lake. Face, emotion, are all willow trees on the lake, but many people think of them as real willow trees.

27. If you want to improve your own reputation, smart people use the mouth of others, and fools use their own mouth. Words of praise cannot be spoken through one's own mouth, but must be spoken through a third party.

28. The leader throws out a piece of meat, so that small A, small B, small C... Compete together. Watching the subordinates fight for this piece of meat, rolling up happily, the leader smiled, ate fragrantly, and slept steadily.

29. The inner volume is the essence of life, and from birth, you have to constantly compete with your peers for various resources. Therefore, letting go of illusions and taking up arms to fight as soon as possible is what mature people should do. Gentleness belongs to the victors, and if you haven't succeeded, keep the beast's character.

30. Fools like to fight alone, and smart people huddle together to keep warm. Hugging the group is to drink wine, eat meat and visit Yaozi, and divide the power and divide the money. What you are pursuing is the success of the world, not the spiritual victory of Ah Q, so it is vulgar and grounded.

31. The world is stupid and easily deceived by appearances, so it is necessary to throw in its favor and coat the shells with a sugar coating. Smart people say "I want to see the first rays of the morning sun with you", and fools say "I want XX you", the essence is the same, but it feels that the former is elegant and the latter is vulgar. People, if you want to achieve the goal, packaging is very important.

Public number【Zuo Qiu Fuming】