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At the age of 29, he graduated from Shanghai Jiao Tong University with a graduate degree
Just stepped into society, just about to fall in love
Just about to start a business
He was diagnosed with leukemia
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After graduating from graduate school, he gave up treatment for a relapse of leukemia! The reason makes netizens cry
Bone marrow transplantation recurred after 100 days
He chose to abandon treatment
And with my father
The Voluntary Letter of Donation of Remains was signed
Donation of remains
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Zhang Di, 29 years old, from Shenyang
He studied at Shenyang No. 2 Middle School
Northeastern University
Graduated from Shanghai Jiaotong University with a master's degree in power engineering
Last July, 2 months after graduating from graduate school
Leukemia was detected
20:30 on May 7, 2019
Zhang Di died
With the assistance of parents,
He fulfilled his dying wish to donate his body..."
Zhang Di is gone
Late on the night of May 7, Dou Wei, coordinator of organ donation of the Red Cross Society of Shenyang, released the latest news in the WeChat circle of friends, "The big boy in Shenyang named Zhang Di went to heaven, I hope, there is no leukemia in heaven, I wish him rest in peace!" ”
Went to Dalian for the last week
Dou Wei, coordinator of organ donation of the Red Cross Society of Shenyang, told reporters that a week ago, under the witness of Dou Wei, Zhang Xuehua and other volunteers, Zhang Di and his father Zhang Chunsheng signed the "Registration Form for Voluntary Donation of Remains". Subsequently, the family chose to abandon treatment. Zhang Di proposed that he wanted to see the sea in the last days of his life, so his parents led their sons to Dalian.
Zhang Di spent nearly a week in Dalian accompanied by his parents. During this period, a family of three held hands at the beach to watch the sea, bask in the sun, and chat. The father, Zhang Chunsheng, is 56 years old this year, but because of his son's special experience in recent years, his hair is almost white and looks particularly old.
Carrying his wife and son behind his back, he looked at the family photo book over and over again, hoping that there was really a time tunnel where they could go back to the past, to any time when their son was not sick. "However, life is a one-way line, and there is no going back!" However, I will never be able to get past this hurdle in my lifetime. He said.
Behind the scenes, Zhang Di's mother also washed her face with tears: "In my son's high school classmate book, he is an athlete!" "After he fell ill, he learned to play the guitar." "The child is running out of time and wants the child to go happily."
Party Zhang Di,
But he wrote a line in his diary:
"I hope my parents forget me as soon as possible."
Declined donations to abandon treatment
In late April, many media in the Liaoshen area reported on Zhang Di's registered donation of his body. At the same time that the majority of netizens have praised him, a small number of people have also questioned: Is it to win the sympathy of netizens and donate money for him? In this regard, Zhang Di and his parents have stood up to clarify: they have refused all love donations, have given up various treatments, and the reason why they are high-profile on the news is that they only hope to publicize the public welfare behavior of body donation and let more people participate.
But what Zhang Di's parents did not expect was that in the past week of going to Dalian, the family originally wanted to stay together quietly, but they were bombarded by phone calls and WeChat from all directions, among which although many well-wishers expressed their desire to donate money to treat Zhang Di's illness, there was no shortage of people who sold fake drugs, rubbed hot spots, and so on.
"When Zhang Di returned to Shenyang from the sea in Dalian, he felt that his physical condition was not good." Zhang Xuehua, coordinator of organ donation of the Red Cross Society of Shenyang, told reporters that his parents rushed him to the first hospital of the medical university for hospitalization. Unfortunately, despite the doctor's full treatment, Zhang Di passed away at 20:30 on May 7.
Late on the night of the 7th, with the assistance of Dou Wei, Zhang Xuehua and other people, coordinators of organ donation of the Red Cross Society of Shenyang, Zhang Di's body was successfully donated.
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In Zhang Di's home, there are thick stacks of awards and graduation certificates: graduated from Shenyang No. 2 Middle School in high school, studied at Northeastern University with an undergraduate degree, and studied at Shanghai Jiao Tong University as a graduate student.
Speaking of her son, Zhang Di's mother said: "Since I was a child, I have been an excellent student, and I don't let my parents worry about it at all. The grades of primary school and junior high school have always been the top 5 in the class, and the high school was successfully admitted to Shenyang No. 2 Middle School, the university was admitted to Northeastern University, and then went to Shanghai Jiao Tong University for graduate school.
His son has a wide range of hobbies, and has loved sports and basketball since he was a child, and his bookcase still contains comics of slam dunk masters he read when he was a child. He loves to read, and in addition to his major, books on history, literature, and economics are neatly arranged in the bookcase. He also likes music, but after he got sick, his hands were weak, and he couldn't play the guitar anymore..."
In July 2018, all this beauty came to an abrupt end: Zhang Di successfully obtained the master's degree certificate of Shanghai Jiao Tong University, ending nearly 20 years of studying, Zhang Di can finally breathe a sigh of relief, ready to find a suitable job, enjoy a good life. However, Zhang Di, who had just joined a research institute in Shanghai for two months, found that he had a lot of bleeding spots on his body.
Bad news came to hide from parents
At first, Zhang Di thought it was a skin disease, but the treatment was not good, and the doctor suggested that he draw blood for testing. The blood test results came out quickly and was diagnosed with acute leukemia. And the onset of the disease is very fast, Zhang Di soon has a high fever and bleeding in his mouth. Even so, Zhang Di was afraid that his parents who were far away in Shenyang were worried, and he was stunned to hide from them, just looking for classmates to help take care of him. As his condition deteriorated rapidly, the doctor issued him a critical illness notice, and he informed his parents.
"I was still at work when I got the news, it was a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and it felt like the sky was falling." Zhang Di's father, Zhang Chunsheng, said, "The child was in good health before and had not suffered from serious illness. Even the may 2018 induction check-up did not detect any problems. ”
The doctor said that the treatment method of this disease was the same in all hospitals, so the whole family decided to return to Shenyang for treatment. In August 2018, Zhang Di began chemotherapy, chemotherapy for 4 months, his father Zhang Chunsheng matched with him, did hematopoietic stem cell transplantation. "I can do whatever I need, as long as I can save his life."
The whole family struggles to accept misfortune
January 7, 2010,
Zhang Di underwent a hematopoietic stem cell transplant.
But in April this year, the condition recurred.
Faced with his son's overly serious condition, Zhang Chunsheng and his wife finally hugged and cried: "There is no medicine to use." All chemotherapy drugs do not work, and malignant cells do not kill. The second transplant can only last 6-9 months of life, and cannot be completely cured. The most heart-wrenching thing is that once the treatment begins, the son can only lie in the hospital bed, as parents, we really can't bear the son's sin! ”
"Mom and Dad, son, please, give up treatment!" I am well aware of the current situation, and I think it is much better to face it calmly than to passively accept it. Zhang Di said calmly to his parents.
Zhang Di said that he regretted that his parents had cultivated him for so many years, but he eventually wanted to send a white-haired person to a black-haired person; he had experienced more than ten years of cold window suffering, and he was about to die before he served the motherland; however, he said: "I don't want everyone to face this matter with a very pessimistic attitude." I have been satisfied with my short and fulfilling life. All the efforts of myself and my family have been done, and this result is acceptable. ”
Fathers and sons register to donate the remains
When it comes to the idea of donating bodies and organs, Zhang Di said that he has been sick since he first got sick. On November 1, 2018, the Shenyang Evening News published "The Leukemia Girl Left Quietly Yesterday, Her Parents Fulfilled Her Dreams with Tears", which further strengthened Zhang Di's confidence in donating her body. The thought that he was gone would still be valuable to society and contribute to medicine made him happy.
"There is no point in leaving a box of ashes when a person dies, so it is better to do something that contributes." Zhang Di wanted to donate his cornea and other organs, but due to illness, all organs did not have the conditions for donation and could only donate the remains.
Zhang Di felt that the most difficult thing was to get his family to accept the donation. Unexpectedly, his father, Zhang Chunsheng, not only supported him, but also the father and son jointly registered the donation.
"In fact, before my son fell ill, I had the idea of donating body organs. After my son told me about it, I fully supported him. Zhang Chunsheng said that he hopes that his son's name will appear on the tombstone of the donor at the same time.
Netizens like "The Pride of Heaven"
In the face of Zhang Di's deeds of donation, the majority of netizens have liked and commented: "The essence of life lies in freedom, a person cannot choose his own birth, but he can choose what posture to face death." When life comes to an end, some people choose to complain and complain about themselves, some people choose to fight to the end and do their best for a longer life, and some people resign themselves to fate and get by. ”
Zhang Di, 29 years old
Thank you for ever being here
You are an excellent student
He is a filial son and grandson
Is a mature youth
It is the pride of Shenyang people
Maybe your abandonment
Maybe not everyone understands
But your reverence for life
Selfless love and dedication
It deserves a big thumbs up for all of us
Source | Shenyang Evening News (sywb88) reporter Tang Kuiyang Some materials comprehensive pear video, Shenyang news comprehensive channel
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