Libra is actually a person with strong self-healing ability.
Because Libra has a skill that many people envy, and forgets it when you sleep. Although it is impossible to completely forget a certain person or a certain thing, it is still possible to forget most of the feelings, emotions and paranoia at that time.
For example, last night there was a big fight, angry to say that I want to break up, the result of waking up in the morning seems to be less angry, the other party smiled with himself, he also smiled, then this matter is over.
For example, yesterday was scolded by the boss, thinking that he might lose this job, the mood is very depressed, and the next day, the boss praised himself, saying that it was because he had great expectations for himself that he would say so yesterday, continue to cheer.
Libra will be revived in an instant full of blood, and the previous frustration and chagrin will be immediately left behind.
This ability to forget about sleeping can make Libra more adept at seizing opportunities in good times.
Because he will not worry about the previous setbacks, nor will he be afraid of repeating the mistakes of the past. He always knew exactly what he wanted and what he should do.
However, in bad times, even when falling into adversity, this kind of sleep and forgetfulness is like a fluke psychology, which will make Libra lose its way.
The two examples just given, we are all going in the best direction, the other party in the example is friendly, so Libra can smile and can be resurrected with blood.
However, if the other person is not friendly.
Last night there was a big fight, angry to say that they wanted to break up, only to wake up in the morning to find that the other party had blackened himself, and Libra poked his mouth, "You blacken me, I will also blacken you", and then go to do your own thing.
As a result, at night, the emotions came up, the instant collapse, "why", not only why they broke up, but more why they were so sad.
His grievances do not know where to vent, he does not even know where his grievances are, he feels that the other party may come to him soon, just like the last time, on the other hand, he will feel that the other party will never come to him again.
While in pain, he clutched his mobile phone tightly, waiting for the last hope.
Libra, who does not seem to be easily hurt by love, will be trapped in it for a long time after being affected once.
Because he always waited a long time to find out that the other party had really left before realizing that he had been injured.
But in the middle of this, countless sleepless nights, countless times the contradiction of overturning his own ideas, made Libra have a feeling of inability to say.
He would subconsciously associate feelings with grievances and torture.
Because he had forgotten the man, forgotten the feelings that the man had brought himself, but he only remembered his own painful processes.
Therefore, what Libra is afraid of is never that he cannot forget, but that he suddenly remembers it again.
And Libra's self-healing ability makes him feel that he doesn't care, he can live his life with a smile during the day and swallow these grievances at night.
He always felt like he would get better after a while, like last time.
However, if the environment around him constantly "suddenly and suddenly remembers" until his life begins to be disordered, his mood begins to be low, and his state begins to be unstable, he will really collapse.
I would feel that the collapse of Libra would come more quickly and harder than any other sign.
Because he had no idea why.
Is it because of a lost love? Is it because the job is not going well? Is it because of a conflict with a classmate and colleague? It's because...
Obviously the day before yesterday was fine? Why is it that I suddenly have a bad mood and can't sleep?
He had forgotten even the series of troubles, the people or things that made him sad, but he couldn't forget his feelings, he couldn't forget how much he doubted himself.
Although you may not know why you are so suspicious of yourself. But he knew very well that this situation was caused by himself.
Will it be better to find a new object?
Will it be better to get a new job?
Will it be better to change to a new environment?
Will it be better to start a new life?
In this state, Libra has become accustomed to denying himself, he will think that no matter how to change, it will not get better, just don't toss it.
But the answer I can give is that it will be fine, but the premise must be that you must have the courage to take this step.
If I really want to analyze how Libra fell into this swamp step by step, I can only say that there must be one of the most important reasons, feelings/work/family, that makes Libra feel very annoyed, want to escape but can't escape.
So in this process of torture, Libra's life began to become chaotic, and he tried to get himself back on track, but found that in a state of distraction, whether it was food or games or even travel, he felt bored.
He tried to wait for this trouble to solve itself, but in the process, because of the problem of his own mentality, new troubles were constantly generated.
Eventually, by the time Libra realized something was wrong, the troubles had woven into a net to trap Libra.
Like a word mentioned many times above, "just like last time".
Libra is really a person who does not fall into this kind of situation and will not feel that he will be so cruel.
There is a contradiction, there is nothing to solve, just like the last time it will be reconciled. Bad mood, nothing to adjust, just like the last time to solve. Work is not going well, there is nothing to reflect on, just like the last time it will get better...
Libra is too passive in the face of life's manipulation.
He likes to think in joy and likes to learn in a free environment. But he forgot how to adjust himself in the face of adversity.
If you have not experienced this state of Libra, take it as a wake-up call, I hope that you can adjust in time when you find that your state is not right.
As long as you can still feel happiness in life and find goals, you will not fall into that point. If you can't feel happiness and can't find the goal of The Scale, I can only suggest that you change your living environment first.
Maybe it's work, maybe it's feelings, maybe it's a regret. What you have to do now is simple, don't let yourself remember it again, don't let yourself be trapped in the past.
For Libra, it is the external force that pushes the internal force. It is to take this step first, have a new life, have new happiness, and then slowly put it down and no longer think about it.
Wanting to think clearly on your own and then slowly come out is actually an obsession. You're still waiting where you are. The one who can trap Libra is always himself waiting in the same place.