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1
Today is the seventh anniversary of my marriage to Gu Ning.
When he held a rose in his hand and thanked me affectionately for the company of nine years of love and seven years of marriage, I coldly filed for divorce.
Gu Ning's brow furrowed slightly, and then he quickly eased up, only when I was joking, he lowered his voice: "Xiao Man, so many people are watching it, don't make trouble." ”
No wonder he thinks so.
I think back then, I was stalking him to marry him, and after two years of love, I tricked him into the grave of marriage.
And over the years, our feelings have been very good, there are small quarrels, but it has never hurt the fundamentals, and it is not too much to describe it as "like a hot love".
To tell the truth, I am quite uncomfortable, I love Gu Ning, but this marriage, I must leave.
Gu Ning and I are college classmates.
My dad was a civil servant and my mom was a teacher. Gu Ning's family is in a small village in the north with a bad name, his parents are farmers, nearly sixty years old, and a brother and a sister are studying.
I still remember the first time I heard about Gu Ning's family situation, even my father's old fritters that had been in the official field for a long time, his face couldn't help but twitch twice.
My mother coughed twice and asked, "In the future, it is your business to support your parents and raise your younger siblings?" ”
Gu Ning pushed the glasses, and the tone was extremely natural, "My parents are not in good health, I am the boss of the family, and I always have to worry about my parents." ”
If it were other times, my mother would have been moved to tears. But the thought of me marrying into such a family made her temples twitch in pain.
After settling Down Gu Ning and sleeping, my mother quietly touched my bed, "Your father and I think it is inappropriate for you two to be small." ”
I asked, "What's not right, he has a good personality, he's good for me, and he's already signed Company A and has a job as soon as he graduates." ”
Seeing that I was addicted to the whirlpool of love and could not jump out, my mother pointed out: "His parents are old, his younger siblings are small, the whole family has so many mouths, and the burden is too heavy." In the future, if the in-laws ask for money every three or five minutes, you will not be able to live a good life? ”
I met with Gu Ning's parents a few times, and apart from telling us to study hard and asking Gu Ning to take good care of me, there was no other word, and it was really not like the kind of person who would calculate me as my mother said.
But my mother didn't listen, and she bitten to death and didn't allow me to have any more contact with Gu Ning.
2
Even after I graduated, my parents still contradicted my love affair with Gu Ning.
At the beginning, he said that Gu Ning's family was heavily burdened, and he was afraid that I would be affected by marrying in the past. I don't care, Gu Ning has strong ability, and he can survive for a few years of work. As for the elderly, I should naturally fulfill the obligation of support.
My mother looked incredible, as if she had never seen me so understanding.
Later, they said that when I married into the north, they were reluctant and afraid that I would not be used to life. I said that now the traffic is convenient, if you want me, take a plane in the morning, you can arrive in the afternoon. In addition, I am adaptable, and I am a small strong who cannot die anywhere.
I have always been three minutes of heat, only in love with Gu Ning, I am as always, no remorse. Even though my parents were chasing and blocking, I still had an iron heart to marry Gu Ning.
A week before the wedding, the parents finally came to T Province. My mother's face was cold, like a cold day in the north, with frost hanging from it.
My father La Gu Ning chatted in the room for half a day, and when he came out again, he solemnly patted his shoulder, "Xiao Man will be handed over to you, she is far married, let her do everything." ”
My mother said that the winter in the north made her legs hurt, and she returned to the south as soon as the wedding was over.
But I guessed that she still did not accept my marriage to Gu Ning, and she was afraid that if she stayed any longer, she would want to bring me back to the south.
Before leaving, she secretly gave me a card, "Give your dowry, keep your own flowers." ”
My parents have raised me for more than twenty years, and I am full of guilt for not being able to fulfill my filial piety around me, where do I dare to ask for their pension money again.
My mother forced it on me, "You don't want to sell yourself for a penny, I'm afraid you'll be bullied by your in-laws, you have money in your hands, and you talk tough." ”
Before getting on the plane, my dad waved us to stop, and my mom stared at me like an enemy, "The road I chose, I will suffer no matter how difficult it is in the future!" ”
3
Gu Ning thought that my filing for divorce was just a gamble, and picked me up from work every day as usual, as usual.
The sisters in the office were full of envy, "Little Sister Man, where is there such a good man as Gu Ge, I will definitely give him a child!" ”
"Xiao Man," he pulled me into the car, "how about going to eat seafood today?" ”
Gu Ning is frugal and likes to accumulate the shopping cards issued by the unit to buy major appliances, or only in the new season is willing to buy old down jackets. Ask me to eat seafood, which is a new thing.
I refused, "Let's discuss the division of property first, and don't eat it." ”
Gu Ning drove the car, and had to glance at me with the afterglow, "Why do you suddenly say divorce?" ”
I was going to get divorced, and it was not interesting to hide it, so I replied, "I can't take care of your family's affairs." ”
"You know my family situation," he argued eagerly, "so many years have indeed wronged you, but Xiao Jie and Xiao Shuang will graduate next year, and our burden is light." ”
His hand reached over and held me, cool, "Little Man? ”
"After graduation, they want to get married, they want to buy a house, don't you care?"
In the past few months, I have become more and more fond of sighing, which Chinese medicine says is caused by liver qi depression and poor qi machine. After further consumption and hurt my life, I chose to divorce and save my life.
Gu Ning gently pushed me, "They have an income when they find a job, if they really want to buy a house, then we will give less?" ”
I asked him, "It's not your duty to support your younger siblings, so how long are you going to help?" ”
Gu Ning pitied Baba, "It's not easy for my parents to provide for me, I have the ability now, of course I have to help." ”
I am obliged to help where I can, but I am still difficult to be alone, so how can I take care of my family?
4
Before he could talk to Gu Ning about the division of property, he was sent on an errand.
Just a few days after leaving, the mother-in-law's phone came, "Aunt Jiang's daughter-in-law was married for three years without children, and then she found someone to prescribe medicine, and after eating for half a year, she became pregnant, where is your address, and my mother sent it to you." ”
Gu Ning and I have been married for seven years without children, and my in-laws never urge, thanks and thanks, but this also gives them enough reasons to intervene in our lives. Either find a barefoot doctor to prescribe medicine, or go to some niangniang temple to pray for me.
To outsiders, my mother-in-law treated me really well, and I thought so at first. I feel that they have me in mind, and I, as a daughter-in-law, have never lost my filial piety.
Birthday gifts, New Year red envelopes, daily gifts, I changed the law to buy for my in-laws and younger siblings.
Knowing that it was stressful for them to support two children, I took the initiative to ask for a bank card number to transfer, sometimes hundreds, sometimes thousands.
My in-laws also never spared praise for me, always saying to outsiders that the Gu family had found a good daughter-in-law, and repeatedly told Gu Ning to take good care of me.
I used to be grateful for having such an in-laws, and once blamed my mother for her small belly chicken intestines, such a loving family, my mother would like to say that I accurately targeted poverty alleviation.
But as time went on, I found that my in-laws didn't never ask for it, but just changed their ways.
For example, they will inadvertently reveal the meaning of lack of clothes and food when chatting, "Xiao Man, the down jacket you bought last year was really strong, where did you buy it, and I will buy one for your father." ”
Or vaguely tell me that I've been tight lately.
"Xiao Jie has to pay the textbook fee, I will ask your Uncle Wang tomorrow to borrow a few thousand yuan, and when the pig is sold, I can pay it back."
Gu Ning filial piety, where to hear the parents suffer, immediately call the money to the in-laws, I have a kind of learning, but also the in-laws lack of online shopping directly sent over.
Every now and then, my in-laws have to call again to "blame" me and Gu Ning, "Why buy things for us again, big money, you don't have to spend money?"
In this way, they "borrowed" from me and Gu Ning again and again.
5
This time, the mother-in-law repeated the same trick.
"Xiao Jie has a new girlfriend, I told your father earlier, this girl is as good as Xiao Man." But Xiao Jie did not listen, preferring to be good with others. ”
My "excellent" is probably because I married Gu Ning without asking for a penny of dowry, and I have willingly subsidized their families in recent years.
In other words, I have answered the phone a long time ago, such as "Let Xiao Jie bring the girl to sit at home." "In addition, I have to eat and have fun, and it is inevitable that I will have a bunch of gifts."
Today, I didn't bother to talk about it again, so I went along with her words, "My head is a little dizzy, I'll call you another day." ”
Before my mother-in-law opened her mouth again, I simply hung up the phone and shut down.
At night, Gu Ning's phone just came in, saying that my mother-in-law told him that I was unwell and asked him to ask me.
"Cold, already taken medicine," I asked rhetorically, "what else did she tell you?" ”
"Just ask about your body," he paused, "and about Little Jay's girlfriend." ”
"What else?"
"No, what can you say, you don't believe to ask her." I know Gu Ning, he is not good at lying, and the more he talks, the more he wants to cover up.
I tricked him, "Is Xiao Jie going to bring his girlfriend to play for two days?" ”
Honest man Gu Ning is not good at lying, I can even imagine that he can't help but swallow his saliva because of nervousness, and it took about two or three seconds before answering me: "Yes, I just forgot, she did mention it to me." ”
The hope that arose in my heart was shattered by Gu Ning's answer, and the idea of giving him another chance was now gone.
"Did she tell you about your brother's wedding bride price, told you that she and your father were not in good health, and told you that she and the family had dragged you down so that you would willingly take out a sum of money to 'lend' to her?"
Gu Ning was visibly frustrated, and his voice was bottomless, "No, how is it possible?" ”
"So what did she say?"
"Just told you, that..."
"What the hell did you say?!"
"Saying that Xiao Jie wants to find a job and get married, the woman asked to buy a house and asked if we could borrow 100,000 down payments to him. Of course, if you don't want to, she and Dad will figure out a way. ”
Gu Ning was forced by me, but his brain told the truth. Ridiculously, Gu Jie's garage has been calculated on my head.
6
Halfway through the errand, Gu Ning returned, his beard standing outside the door, looking at me with his eyes wide open.
I turned sideways to let him in, and he explained urgently, "I didn't mean to lie to you, my mother said that they tried to find a way first, and then they would find me, I thought that this matter was undecided, so I didn't tell you." ”
I believe in Gu Ning, he is filial and responsible, but he is stupid.
The in-laws are used to this trick, first said that they encountered difficulties, and then felt sorry that it was not easy for us to work hard outside, and then explained that they did not want us to contribute money, which time was not so?
Gu Ning and I are idiots, and we will always be held in the hands of our in-laws and arbitrarily.
"Apart from this, you really haven't lied to me?" Seven years of feelings make it difficult for me to say let go, and I have always told myself that I am resolutely divorced, but in action, I always want to give him the opportunity to explain again and again.
Gu Ning cut through the cracks, "No. ”
This time I was really dead hearted. I should also be stupid, believe in my mother-in-law, and believe in Gu Ning even more. If Gu Ning's mobile phone had not landed at home, I would not have known that he had secretly transferred the account to his mother-in-law so many times.
Gu Ning's face swelled red, "How do you peek at my phone?" ”
That day, Gu Ning forgot to bring his mobile phone to work, and the computer was not backed up, so I passed a contract from WeChat to his colleagues.
Heaven testified that before that, Gu Ning and I trusted each other, and I also scorned the behavior of peeking at the mobile phone.
But that day, I ghostly turned over his WeChat, originally intended to see if he had picked flowers and weeds behind my back, but accidentally found his transfer record to his mother-in-law.
Mother-in-law: Xiao Shuang said to buy a new mobile phone, the old mobile phone is very good to use, this child, spend money indiscriminately!
Gu Ning: Her birthday is also coming, so let's buy her one.
Transfer 2000.
Mother-in-law: Your father did not sleep well at night, the last time I let Xiaoshuang find a good purchase of melatonin, she sold 300 bottles, I went to search online, the average price was 180, it was really black heart.
Gu Ning: Daigou sells imported, which may have a better effect, so that Dad can eat that.
Transfer 900.
Thanks to my mother-in-law, every time she "reluctantly" accepted the transfer, she also told his son extremely "thoughtfully": Xiao Ning, don't tell Xiao Man about these things, so that she won't worry about the family.
I calculated that in August of the previous year, Gu Ning carried me on his back and transferred sixteen thousand eight hundred yuan to his mother-in-law.
Didn't he take my trust for granted? Because of this incident, I was moved by the idea of divorce.
Despite her family's opposition, she insisted on marrying far away, and after marriage, she was used as a cash machine by her in-laws, and she regretted it
7
Gu Ning was anxious, "Mom is also afraid that you know the situation at home." ”
Should I blame Gu Ning for being stupid, or is my mother-in-law too high? I handed the phone to Gu Ning, "Then you can also see what your mother and I said." ”
Gu Ning frowned and took the phone suspiciously.
I don't have the habit of deleting my records, and my chat history for more than four years has been on my phone.
Coincidentally, my mother-in-law also complained to me from time to time. This time to buy medicine for the father-in-law, next time to pay tuition to the younger brothers and sisters, and then the next time the family repairs the house to buy a lot of appliances.
More coincidentally, the same reason was said to Gu Ning again, and I had to say it again here. And on the grounds that he was afraid of Gu Ning's worries, he repeatedly asked me to keep it a secret.
Gu Ning quickly slid the screen, his eyebrows tightened tighter and tighter, and after half a moment, Mu Mu handed me the mobile phone, "You turned so much for your mother?" ”
Every bill is evidence, and I don't transfer much to my mother-in-law, but there are also ten or twenty thousand.
That is to say, in addition to our "clear account" of filial piety to the elderly, my mother-in-law let me and Gu Ning pay another 20,000 or 30,000 yuan for the same reason.
To be fair, I don't think I'm stingy with my in-laws.
For Gu Ning's younger siblings, I did not do a bad job. On Gu Shuang's birthday, I send water milk, lipstick, and red envelopes. Gu Jie graduated from the internship, I arranged for him to do internship work, and let him live at home, eating and drinking.
But what do they say about me?
Gu Shuang said that the computer was broken, Gu Ning gave 500 for her to repair first, Gu Shuang asked: "People say that the motherboard is broken, so this little money is not enough." ”
At the end, he also teased Gu Ning, "Mom told you not to tell your sister-in-law, isn't it normal for you to give me some pocket money, you two don't have children, how can she be so careful." ”
8
Gu Ning frankly said that he did not think it through, but he was afraid that I knew that he would privately transfer money to his parents and cause family conflicts, and he did not think that it would cause a crisis of trust between husband and wife.
Wrong, it's all his. But marriage is certainly inseparable.
My mother called me, and her voice trembled with anger, "Your in-laws don't want to face it, and every dime will be buckled on you." ”
A few years ago, since my mother-in-law had vertigo and couldn't go out to help, Gu Ning and I gave my in-laws a thousand yuan a month for living expenses. I didn't dare to tell my mother that after my father-in-law's lumbar spine found out that there was a problem, we gave an extra five hundred medicines a month.
After a fire, my mother calmed down and comforted me, "It is not easy for husband and wife to come together, Gu Ning is good to you, we have a number in mind, make trouble, and divorce must not be mentioned again." It's just that in the future, the money of the two of you must be tightly held in your hands. ”
On the other hand, the in-laws' pit behavior really made Gu Ning unhappy.
He gave me the salary card first, which is funny, usually he only said that the monthly salary was ten thousand, but I actually know now that he gets eleven thousand a month.
Gu Ning scratched his head in embarrassment, "Sometimes I have to buy something for my family, afraid that if you are not happy, I will leave a thousand private money." ”
The in-laws cried again, Gu Ning also knew that he refused, "My parents-in-law live on the sixth floor, it is inconvenient to go up and down the stairs when they are old, taking advantage of the transformation of the old community, Xiao Man and I are ready to pay for them to install an elevator." ”
On the surface, the mother-in-law was still very sensible, "Xiao Manyuan married over, can't take care of that side, you should have done more filial piety." Your dad and I will overcome it ourselves first, without causing you any trouble. ”
Looking for my son didn't work, and my mother-in-law turned to me, "I heard that the family has installed an elevator over there, and your father and I don't know when we will have the opportunity to go into the city to live in a building." ”
I didn't bother to guess her implications, and it was not good to make the relationship too stiff, so I replied: "After two years, Xiao Jie and Xiao Shuang have money to take you into the city to buy a big house." ”
The mother-in-law ate the soft knife and hung up the phone with two hums.
Gu Shuang sent a message to Gu Ning: Sister-in-law is married, and she is still in charge of the affairs of her mother's family, her father and mother install elevators, why let you pay for it?
9
In order to save the marriage, Gu Ning and I discussed that the maintenance fees that should be given to the in-laws could not be less, and if there were additional expenses, we needed to discuss and then make a decision.
I was used to being a bun, and at first I was always afraid that I would go too far and affect the lives of the elderly, and I was most afraid of destroying the trust that I and Gu Ning had established again.
It wasn't until the amount on my bank card slowly increased, and I used the money I saved to invest in the fund and make a small profit, that I began to enjoy the fun of accumulating wealth.
My mother, on the other hand, always rings an alarm bell in my ear, "The money for supporting the elderly cannot be deducted, but for Gu Ning's younger brothers and sisters, we must keep more eyes." Your dad and I both have retirement pay, don't forget about us. ”
She said that my heart was sour, and the thought of the fact that I had foolishly embezzled the money she gave me to "help the poor" before gave birth to my heart.
Nowadays, my parents are getting older, but because it is difficult to fulfill filial piety between the north and the south, the idea of returning to the south is at this time.
Parents disagreed, said: "You have also been working there for nearly ten years, the roots are half cut in, at this time let you come back, the age is not too young, and it is not very convenient to find a job again." He said, "When we're older, we'll go buy a house next door to you, and we'll be together again." ”
Gu Ning also agreed with my parents' views, and also proposed that we bear part of the money to buy a house. It's better to think of it this way.
Gu Ning also quipped to me that the couple's monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan is not less, and asked me not to lower the living standard too much in order to save money.
I laughed and scolded, "If it weren't for your parents, we wouldn't have to search like this." ”
As soon as the words came out, Gu Ning's face suddenly changed, and he laughed unnaturally twice. I also blame me, he and his in-laws are family after all, and it is reasonable to ask him to get rid of the role of "giver" immediately.
I asked him, "How are mom and dad doing?" ”
Gu Ning frowned, but his mouth said nicely, "Very good, anyway, people in the countryside, daily eating and use can also be self-sufficient." ”
Since the last "installed elevator" incident, my mother-in-law has called me less often, occasionally calling Gu Ning, and hanging up after saying a few words.
I intermittently heard her talk about marriage, boyfriend, girlfriend and the like, maybe she wanted Gu Ning to help again.
Fortunately, since Gu Ning promised me, he would no longer transfer money to his in-laws behind my back. It was only every time he hung up the phone with his mother-in-law, his frown would take a long time to disperse.
10
The money was saved, but Gu Ning was not much happier.
Once or twice, I woke up from my sleep and heard him talking in the living room with his voice pressed, and my mother-in-law's voice came as clearly as a loudspeaker.
"What is no money, you two people a month of twenty or thirty thousand wages are not enough to spend, and it is not in vain to want you, Xiao Jie saved enough money will not pay you back!"
"The Gu family is a capable one of you, and you are the boss, who do they rely on if they don't rely on you?"
"After all, Xiao Man is married, and she doesn't take care of her mother's family for good things, you tell her, she will understand."
Gu Ningkui sat on the sofa, his head buried deeply, and his figure of one meter and seven or eight meters was as slender as an underage child.
When I hung up the phone, I walked over to him and sat down, "If there is really difficulty over there, let's pull it first, buy a house for my parents, and then think of a way later." ”
Gu Ning shook his head weakly and slumped back on the sofa, "You said that I don't value the small family, why don't I know?" ”
Gu Ning is the eldest of the Gu family and has been taught from an early age to take on the responsibility of taking care of the family. There is good food and fun, first of all, let go to the younger brother and sister, because he is the big brother. But whenever he encounters any difficulties, he must find ways to solve his parents' problems, because he is the eldest son.
"When I was a child, the school asked me to buy a new uniform, and I had 50 scholarships, just enough to pay for it." Gu Ning closed his eyes and murmured, "My mother didn't let me, blamed me for loving comparison, asked for the money, and bought a pair of white rubber shoes for each of my younger sisters." ”
Gu Ning also cried a lot, but he was praised by his in-laws, "When you are the eldest brother, you must put your family first in everything, and then go to a good university, make a lot of money, and take good care of your younger brothers and sisters." ”
Gu Ning said that his heart was so annoyed that he wanted to drink. The amount of wine is not good, a glass of wine under the belly, should say the whole trick that should not be said.
He said that at the beginning, his mother-in-law did not want me as a daughter-in-law, saying that I was a city person and an only child, and I was afraid that Gu Ning would not be able to control it in the future.
The reason why my mother-in-law changed her mind was after she learned that I did not need a bride price. They decided that I loved Gu Ning miserably, and they expected that in the future I would only be obedient to him, so they let us get married.
At that time, my parents still wanted a bride price, twenty-thirty thousand, at least to show an attitude. But Gu Ning's salary is not high, and he still has to support his family, so I feel sorry for him and make up my own mind to save it.
After marriage, my mother-in-law also wanted to take away my and Gu Ning's salary cards on the grounds that young people spent money and extravagantly, thinking that after I refused, she came up with the method of "asking for money on both sides".
11
Gu Ning's mood became worse and worse. When I got home, I collapsed on the couch, my eyes empty, and I didn't say a word.
Ask him why, either shut up or simply answer "nothing."
At one point, I thought he was having a mistake in his work, so I asked an acquaintance of the same company as him about the situation.
Acquaintances said that they often heard Gu Ning calling in the stairwell, thinking that his parents were looking for him to ask for alimony, Gu Ning's attitude was not good, "It is not enough to give so much, how much can I have?" ”
After saying that, he persuaded me: "After all, Brother Ning came from the countryside, the family is not rich, you understand more, have the ability or help, so as not to affect the relationship between husband and wife in the end." ”
I kind of heard it, because Gu Ning made a few phone calls at the company and was mistaken by his colleagues for being reluctant to give money to his parents.
Although I misunderstood Gu Ning and me, the acquaintance was also right: against Gu Ning's family, the final impact is still the relationship between husband and wife. Even if I don't want to, I should still talk to him.
Gu Ning smiled bitterly, "I am not afraid of the shadow crooked, and after a long time, they will also know that I am not the kind of person who has no conscience." ”
Being misunderstood by colleagues is small, and the bad thing is that Gu Ning is competing with another colleague for the project leader, who spreads the news that Gu Ning is unwilling to support his parents, and somehow it reaches the ears of the boss of the branch.
In this city, the deeds of the boss are known to everyone. More than two decades ago, he single-handedly rescued the branch from the brink of bankruptcy and eventually grew into an industry leader.
In addition to his courage and ability, the boss is also extremely filial piety. At that time, he had the opportunity to rely on a certain powerful man to make a fortune, only because the other party called his mother a "dead wife", the boss decisively broke off contact, preferring to start from scratch.
The rumor of Gu Ning's "filial piety" entered the ears of the boss, which was equivalent to ending his promotion road.
I proposed that Gu Ning explain it to the boss. Gu Ning sighed, "I rushed to say that not only do people not believe it, but they also feel that there is no silver in this place." ”
I asked again, "Did your mother ask you for money?" ”
Gu Ning supported the forehead, saying that Gu Shuang graduated for more than a year, and after hitting the wall several times, he was reluctant to go to find a job at home, and his daily life was to watch live broadcasts to buy things.
Gu Ning asked her to find a job first, at least to support herself. Gu Shuang is unwilling, to put it bluntly, he feels that the salary is low and refuses to be "low".
The mother-in-law heard hearsay, claiming that someone only needs 100,000 yuan of "drinking fees" to let Gu Shuang enter the public institution without testing, which is why he bombards Gu Ning by phone every day and wants him to sponsor.
The mother-in-law does not understand, Gu Shuang still does not understand?
Gu Ning was helpless, "Gu Shuang is just stupid, this is still the way she found herself!" ”
12
In order to alleviate the contradictions in Gu Ning's family, I called my mother-in-law.
Since the last time we were rejected, we have broken off contact, and I took the initiative to look for her, and she was somewhat surprised.
Without saying a few words, the mother-in-law's words went to Gu Shuang, and she explained the causes and consequences of the "sponsorship fee".
No matter how I explained it, she was sure that there was a real thing, and she also named and said that whoever was the child was so on the iron rice bowl.
Seeing that she didn't move me, she took a breath and blamed Gu Ning, "Let him arrange Gu Shuang to work earlier, he said he was incompetent, he asked him to give some sponsorship fees and said that there was no money." You have more than 200,000 a year, and you have not raised children, and you have spent so much? ”
He also said, "You are all married girls, and you must always put your in-laws first." ”
Gu Ning heard this, and out of nowhere, he directly scolded his mother-in-law, "Xiao Man and I have been married for so many years, haven't we given our family enough?" She married far away, she didn't want a bride price, and she couldn't take care of her parents over there, what do you want her to do? ”
The mother-in-law's voice was sharp and silky, scratching people's eardrums strangely painful, "She herself proposed not to pay the bride price, who is to blame?" The girl who married out spilled the water, she should not have cared about things over there. ”
"I still think of her, married for seven or eight years, children can't be born, I already know this, let you get married." 」
"But you, who were pinched to death by her, you don't care about your brothers and sisters, are you still human, do you still know your surname Gu?"
Accustomed to the scene of motherly kindness and filial piety, I did not know that so many vicious words could pop out of my mother-in-law's mouth.
Finally, the mother-in-law let go of the harsh words, "The money you should give, you can't escape a penny, I was pregnant in October and gave birth to you, dooming you to the Gu family for the rest of your life." ”
13
My mother-in-law and I had a complete breakdown.
Before said that I was as good as a thousand, since I refused to be sucked by them again, I became a "money loser", saying that Gu Ning married me, no children do not say, a good family was provoked by me to be torn apart, it is really eight lifetimes of mold.
Gu Ning felt sorry and repeatedly assured me that it didn't matter if he had children or not, he was only willing to grow old with me.
I definitely knew Gu Ning's thoughts, but I was also worried about him.
He doesn't talk much, he likes to be bored in everything, and he doesn't say anything to me.
He laughed less and less, often sighed, couldn't sleep at night, and ran to the living room to sit for hours.
My mother-in-law sent him a large voice and cursed me in her hometown dialect, which made Gu Ning and her family look at each other. He also said that Bai Yang Gu Ning was so big that he refused to give some money to his family, and he was a full white-eyed wolf.
Gu Jie also scolded him: How can a man ask a woman to lead the nose, I have adored you since I was a child, I didn't expect you to be so seedless!
Gu Shuang is not absent: Yang Xiaoman's eyes are also too bad, making our family unsafe, what a good end, the most hateful while making trouble, while pretending to be weak, green tea!
Life is not satisfactory, and Gu Ning's work is not smooth.
The department manager who was originally not his, because of the storm of "not supporting the elderly", was easily denied by the boss of the branch. Three or four years of hard work have been wiped out by a false accusation.
After the opponent took the position, he was an enemy of Gu Ning everywhere. There is no cooperation in the work, and the words are all sarcastic: "Brother Gu, everyone has an old day, don't do everything too desperately." ”
At the company's meeting, the boss's words also meant something: "Only when you become an adult, you are a person who respects your parents and treats your brothers and sisters." If such a simple human ethics cannot be done, it is absolutely impossible to become a talent! ”
Those words were like spikes, like sharp blades, and the knife cut on Gu Ning's flesh and blood, causing him to die and live in pain.
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Gu Ning suffered from depression.
I saw the medical certificate he had secretly hidden, and the guidance column read: depressed mood, feelings of helplessness or hopelessness, occasional negative thoughts, obviously less words, difficulty falling asleep or waking up early.
The reference diagnosis reads: There are mild depressive symptoms.
The Internet says that if depressive symptoms are allowed to develop, they may develop into severe depression and even have the idea of taking a life. I was so frightened that I couldn't hold my body.
I didn't dare to ask Gu Ning, one was afraid that he would irritate me and peek at his diagnosis report, and the other was afraid that saying the wrong thing would stimulate his emotions. I don't dare to complain to my parents, after all, I am old, and I am afraid that I will only increase their worries.
I began to be suspicious of ghosts, Gu Ning did not speak, I was afraid that he was stimulated again, did not answer the phone, and even more afraid that he would not open his short-sightedness.
Slowly, I didn't want to talk anymore, and at night I either couldn't sleep or had nightmares, and my hair fell out a lot.
At one point, I even had the terrible thought of "if you die, you don't have so many bad things."
Me and Gu Ning, one diagnosed with depression, the other on the verge of depression.
I want to save myself, and I want to save Gu Ning.
I went to the psychological clinic for an assessment, but fortunately the doctor said that there was only depression, and there was still a long way to go before the diagnosis of the disease. He also told me: "In addition to drug control, your husband needs the support of his family the most now, and you can find the right time to talk to him." ”
After thinking about it for a few days, instead of negotiating directly with Gu Ning, it was better to use his concern for me and do the opposite.
Gu Ning sighed, I was louder than him. He couldn't sleep at night, so I got up with him, and as long as he sat, I stayed with him.
He didn't want to talk, but I kept saying, "Oh, the days are too bad, I don't know what it means." ”
After a few days, Gu Ning finally found out that I was wrong, and after sleeping at night, he suddenly came over and put his arms around me, "Xiao Man, are you worried about anything?" ”
As soon as I heard that the time was ripe, I could not speak, and the tears were already half a pillow.
I was afraid, afraid that his work would not go well, and my in-laws would let him be wronged again.
I'm afraid he won't see my concern and feel like he's always alone.
I'm afraid he won't talk to me, but he knows he's carrying it.
Gu Ning listened to me, I cried, he also shed tears, silenced for half a moment, tightly hugged me, and murmured: "Don't be afraid, I am." ”
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Gu Ning began to share with me that the good and bad, such as the opponent sneering at him again, or the project he did was affirmed by the boss.
He was no longer bored at home, and when he had time, he would take my hand and walk around, reading flowers, reading books and watching the lake, as long as he was with me.
He knew that exercise helped secrete dopamine, so he pulled me to the downstairs of the community every day to run and jump.
I peeked at his mobile phone again, and my mother-in-law, as always, engaged in emotional manipulation, saying that Gu Ning did not care for the elderly, did not help his younger siblings, was not a human, but a beast.
Gu Ning also did not argue, replying: it is incumbent upon me to support the elderly, and it is not my responsibility to support the elderly.
The mother-in-law scolded again, Gu Ning threw out a few screenshots of the transfer, p.s. added: Not counting the New Year's Festival, in recent years, xxx yuan has been paid for the younger brothers and sisters, the younger sisters are adults, and they are not eligible to "nibble on the brother" again.
The in-laws and sisters made several phone calls, and Gu Ning either casually responded with a few words or simply hung up.
Seeing that Gu Ning did not enter the oil and salt, my mother-in-law called me on the phone, "Xiao Ning, are you two in conflict, why doesn't he answer the phone at home?" ”
Gu Ning hardened, but her mother-in-law's attitude was much better.
I replied, "Gu Ning has been in a bad mood lately, what can you tell me?" ”
The mother-in-law was dismissive, "If you are in a bad mood, you will not answer my phone, what is more important than my father, mother, and siblings, I am pregnant in October and give birth to him..."
Seeing that she was speechless, I quickly interrupted, "Mom is so anxious to find him, is there anything wrong?" ”
The mother-in-law eagerly said, "This is not a matter of Xiao Shuang's work..."
"Mom, I'll give you back in a moment, the leader is looking for it!" He simply pressed the hang-up button.
Seeing that I could not make a call, my mother-in-law came to a WeChat bombing and began to have a good attitude.
Xiao Man, you let Gu Ning care more about Xiao Shuang's work, she is still idle at home in her twenties, just waiting to rely on Gu Ning and your sister-in-law.
The good temper sent a few, and when I saw that I did not return, my tone hardened.
Yang Xiaoman, don't blow the wind in my son's ears all day, the money is earned by him, he gives us righteousness, you can't control it!
Yang Xiaoman, you are Gu Ning's daughter-in-law, your heart is not toward the Gu family, what is the use of you, I want my son to divorce you!
This old lady, who has no patience at all, is just that whenever she will speak human language, I will pull her out of the blacklist whenever she wants.
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After prescribing antidepressants and active treatment, Gu Ning's mood improved significantly, and he could sleep peacefully without the help of sleeping pills in the past two days.
Gu Shuang sent me a voice, threatening that If Gu Ning did not look for a job for her, he would come to the big brother's company to make trouble, so that his colleagues would know that he did not hesitate to turn his face with the whole family for a woman.
The university is considered to be white, the shame and morality have not learned much, but the old woman's rogue has been thoroughly learned.
Gu Jie also threatened me: The big brother is ours, you less nosy, I never hit women, annoyed you two big mouths!
Gu Ning knew about it, and he was afraid that his sister would come to make trouble, and he was also afraid that his brother would not be good for me.
I took the opportunity to propose: "I can't afford to hide, or we can take annual leave and play outside, and recently we have been dizzy by these bad things, take the opportunity to relax, and also give them time to calm down." ”
Gu Ning booked a ticket back to Yunnan with me on the same day, and then met with my parents in Dali to feel the wind and snow together.
Under the sunset, the Erhai Sea, the sun is harmonious, the sky is blue and white, and the lake is like a mirror.
I leaned on Gu Ning's shoulder and asked, "You said that in case, we really don't have children, will you..."
Gu Ning gently shook my hand, "No." Although having children is perfect, no children are still dashing for a lifetime. At the end of the world, you can do it. ”
I asked again, "In case mother-in-law they..."
Before he could say the second half of the sentence, Gu Ning shoved Xizhou into my mouth, "Leave the troubles in the future to the future, think too much and be tired." ”
Also, I chewed the rice in my mouth, it was so sweet. (Original title: "Human Affairs: Marrying the Phoenix Man")
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