I think a good man should have a certificate of not smoking, drinking less, not gambling, not abusing, not being a prostitute, not using drugs, not obsessing over addictive games, and other bad habits, which is the most basic. There is also a non-domestic violence, good temper, physical and mental health. As for whether there is love, it also depends on what the man's thinking and character are like in the world, whether they match you, and whether the man's appearance makes you like. I personally believe that a good man should be a good man with three views, conform to social values, be patriotic, not hate society, be pure and kind in his heart, have self-cultivation, not be greedy for money, do not take ill-gotten gains, have a bottom line in doing things, have courage and insight, do not do good and work badly, have a sense of justice, serve righteousness and neglect wealth, help the poor and the needy, not hypocritical, not pretentious, not stingy.