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I agree with the saying" "What you really want to do, don't mention it to anyone." ”
(1) In your twenties, you should be fearless
Now you, in your twenties
It is suitable for a person to work quietly and quietly, without showing the mountains and dew, not being disturbed by anyone, enjoying the joy of doing big things in a muffled voice, and waiting for the amazing feeling after the thing is completed!
"The world is good, but then you are not bad" said that "quiet efforts may be more practical than being watched." ”
"Bystanders can't see the fire in your heart, they only see the smoke, just wait for the dust to settle, and then share the imprint after the burning: you see I really did it, it's not bad." 」
Many things, too publicity, lose the meaning of effort.
I had a classmate in college who impressed me.
That classmate talked less, and rarely saw her playing with other classmates for dinner, and more often than not, she was always alone.
She rarely stayed in the dormitory, and when we all stayed up late in the dormitory to spend time chasing dramas, she was never in the dormitory, and we didn't know where she went and what she was doing.
Sometimes jokingly asking, "Where have you been?" Won't sneak up on a date! ”
She always smiled faintly and said softly, "No, it's just that the dormitory can't stay, just go out and around." "
To our surprise, when she was a sophomore, as a school student, she actually opened a very stylish clothing store.
It turns out that when we waste time chasing dramas, when we still think about asking our parents for living expenses, when we are still thinking about eating, drinking and having fun.
As a peer, she has begun to learn and learn about clothing, is already making money and saving money, and is already using her spare time to improve herself.
Quiet her, through her own quiet efforts, finally amazed all of us.
In the year of graduation, when we were all struggling with work and worried about the uncertainty of the future, she was already a successful boss.
In your twenties, it's important to eat, drink, and have fun, and it's also important to let your dreams blossom and bear fruit.
You have to work hard quietly, and when you succeed, tell everyone loudly, instead of not yet starting, saying everyone, setting up flags in the circle of friends every day, and complaining when you see people.
In this world, the highest rate of return is to invest in yourself with all your might, you just start and persevere, life will definitely give you a satisfactory answer.
(2) Stars, rain and dew, wheat fields and wind are also beautiful
In your twenties, why don't you enjoy yourself?
In Anne of Green Gables, Anne once said, "If you decide to be happy, you can always have a good time." ”
The closer you get to the New Year, the more likely it is for people to self-consume.
Chatting with an old classmate a few days ago, she said, "I feel that the people around me are so powerful, only myself, not only from small places, I can't get my work out, and I haven't saved money after working for a few years."
Seeing that the people around me have successful careers, buying a house, buying a car, getting married and having children, only they still have nothing, and the failure is a mess. ”
There are many definitions of success, and if you're always wasting time on self-doubt, comparing yourself to others, and complaining about others, you may not only be unsuccessful, you won't be happy.
Big cities have the bustle and sparkle of big cities, and rural areas have the stars and lights of the countryside, and if you always blame your failures on your birth, you may never have great achievements.
Because no matter what you do, you will feel inferior to others, and then make excuses for yourself, not to act, and eventually time will answer all the reasons for your failure for you.
Just young, twenty-something, you should be happy, success is joy, failure is not a harvest? Isn't it a kind of happiness to make yourself happy?
At your age, you are most suitable for quietly working hard without distraction, not afraid of the world, not afraid of the future, not afraid of birth, not self-denial, and firmly walking towards a better road, rather than just complaining and forgetting the scenery along the way.
Above all, encourage!
Every day, I am with you.
In your own way,
Live your life to the fullest, wish you and wish me.
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