The man could not take out the 660,000 dowry and turned around to marry another, and the woman knelt down and cried bitterly: My mother said that 180,000 is also OK
Wang Tong once said: "Marriage is based on wealth and is the way of life of barbarians." ”
In reality, however, the bride price between love is an unspeakable dispute between a man and a woman. Some people think that the bride price is necessary, but others think that the bride price is not necessary. So is the bride price necessary? Maybe that's still true.
It may still be true if we say that the bride price is only for the sake of begging for a head, but it may not be necessary if it becomes a means of selling women for glory or generating income for women's families. After all, marriage itself is a happy union of two people, not a "transaction".
However, in many places, men and women want to get married, and the "bride price" is the first step. It is undeniable that in traditional customs, the bride price itself is indeed a procedure, that is, to ask for a good bride price, which can be seen as congratulating the two newlyweds on their harmony and beauty after marriage.
However, I don't know when the "bride price" will become tainted. Women tend to have a bride price of 200,000 or 300,000. In some small counties and cities, the money can almost buy a small house. As a result, many men and women who originally wanted to join forces to enter the palace of marriage were defeated by the bride price and became a resentful couple.
There are also many reasons why women offer sky-high bride price. The most common reason is that it is not easy for in-laws to raise their daughters. If a man wants to get married, it's understandable to give the other person a bride price. At the same time, there is an even more absurd claim that the more a man gives his bride a bride, the more he cares about women.
To be honest, giving more bride price means caring about women, and it seems reasonable not to think carefully. But if you think about it deeply, you'll find that this reason is completely untenable. After all, a marriage measured entirely in terms of money does not stand the test.
However, some families still use this to measure men's sincerity, and even completely ignore the financial situation of men's families, directly opening their mouths, resulting in irreparable "misses".
At a wedding scene, a girl in a white wedding dress cried and fell to her knees. She prayed to the bridegroom: "I was wrong, don't marry her." Come back with me, and my mom said don't send a 660,000 bride price. You only send 180,000 dowries and we can be together. ”
Apparently, the girl's words left the scene in chaos, and the captured groom shook his head. The groom's attitude towards the sudden appearance of his ex-girlfriend is obvious. Maybe he didn't expect his ex-girlfriend to come to the wedding and make a big fuss. For a while, the past came back to his mind.
It turned out that the groom and the girl had once been very much in love. They even met each other's parents and walked into the wedding hall. However, the words of the girl's mother made the groom miserable. At the beginning, the girl's mother said in front of the groom: "Without the bride price of 660,000, our family cannot agree to your marriage." ”
However, the groom's family conditions are not very good, and the high-priced dowry of 660,000 cannot be taken out at all. However, the woman's mother did not know whether she wanted to force the groom, or whether the so-called 660,000 bride price could represent that the groom really loved his daughter. Either way, she didn't let go. In the end, the groom could only leave sadly.
The relationship was forced to part ways.
At the wedding of the groom's marriage to her, the girl wept bitterly. She told the groom that she did not agree to the sky-high bride price at all, but she did not dare to disobey her mother. After all, it wasn't easy for her mother to raise her. In addition, she had always believed that the groom would do everything possible to raise money for her and collect the dowry at a sky-high price.
But perhaps the girl is whimsical, or the groom understands that he chose not to borrow money to marry the girl, but to marry another person.
The girl said tearfully, "Marry me." My mom has agreed to reduce the bride price to 180,000. That's what I begged for. I really love you. ”
To be honest, no one wants to see two people who once fell in love in this situation now, but it is inevitable.
Perhaps under the subtle influence of her mother, the girl has long regarded marriage as a business. After all, isn't the operation of reducing 660,000 to 180,000 a negotiating model in the business world? Obviously, whether it is the girl's painstaking plea to her mother to reduce the bride price to 180,000 yuan, or the mother's direct opening of 660,000 yuan, this marriage without disease is more like an extremely absurd joke.
Looking at this once cherished girl, dressed in a white wedding dress, kneeling on the ground in pain and pleading, the groom who was ready to marry her again had no pity in his eyes, only embarrassment and shame.
Hearing the girl's repeated good past, the groom immediately changed his face. When the girl held the groom's leg and begged many times, the groom finally got angry. Not only did he crush his face, but he pushed the girl away several times.
Seeing this scene, the guests who came and went advised: "Girl, why do you bother?" Obviously not possible for the two of you. You'd better hurry up and leave. ”
Admittedly, the past between the girl and the groom should be sweet and happy, but when the girl's mother becomes a stumbling block and the girl's suffering forces the groom to go farther and farther, some may say that the groom does not love the girl at all. Otherwise, why not raise the bride price and marry the girl of his heart?
But if you think about it another way, if you were a man, it was clear that the in-laws lion opened their mouths widely, like a feeling of selling their daughter for money, and the girl gave up fighting for love and obeyed her mother's orders, would you borrow money to get married?
Perhaps, people already have the answer in their minds.
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