"This high-achieving student looks good, but he is too old." "This income is not bad, the annual salary is 50w, that is, the academic qualifications are a little bit, only college, no." "The boys in this row have good academic qualifications and good incomes, but they are a little shorter, and none of them are more than 1 meter 8." ......
Early in the morning, I received this video of an aunt helping her daughter find a match in the Shanghai People's Park Blind Date Corner.
Needless to say, this kind of video is easy to be followed, and it can also successfully provoke the emotions and comments of the melon-eating masses, you see, this friend of mine was successfully guided and forwarded to me.
However, I would like to say that in 2022, I hope that people who see this message will understand at least these 2 things:
(1) Independent thinking of academic societies.
As an adult, you should not blindly be carried by the thoughts and emotions of the w ang network, and use them as an argument to persuade others, but also k e laugh.
In addition to the Internet, I want to live well, work well, get along well with colleagues, and work well as a team... There is no need for independent thinking anywhere.
Independent thinking is not a random way to understand, but to clear the complicated information context and grasp the essence of things. Take this video, think more about the logic behind the prevalence of this video, think about the logic of the video content itself, benchmark to reality, is it a fact or a pompous? Is it an individual case or a generality? ......
When we learned the language from the teeth, we heard the 4 words of "independent thinking", and my mother pointed to the picture and asked "How many pears are there, think about it"... But until adulthood, it is not necessary to think independently, otherwise there would not be so many keyboard men.
(2) The gap in the level of thinking between people is z ui can be p a.
Why should a d-ng interact with people at the same level of thinking?
Also use this video to say, the New Year's Holiday is the time when the j i-end blind date is prevalent, the content is nothing more than "women's search for objects requires a house and a car, q i an, too s hi profit", "the elderly single is not easy to find an object, but also refuse to reduce the requirements, unrealistic"... This then provokes confrontation between men and women.
Then you say: Except for a few people who love vanity, most girls have certain requirements for the economy, all out of consideration for future life, family, children, pension...
He said: You can live without 🏠 it.
All you can say is: you're right, t ao rice is also a life...
You feel speechless, he feels you bar.
Whether it's falling in love or making friends... People who think at the same level, even if you have different opinions, will discuss together, try to find a better solution and the direction of effort, make progress together, do not need to explain everything, and do not use "leverage", so that getting along will not feel tired, but also longer. [Heart] #Education ## Smart Kids Grow Up # #婚姻与家庭 #
