Jiang Wenli, as an old drama bone, has been in the arts for more than 30 years, and she has counterattacked all the way from a waterworker to a super queen.
It is still the white moonlight in the minds of many people.
When it comes to Jiang Wenli, I have to mention the touching story between her grandfather who brought her up and her grandchildren.
This story is the most beautiful good memory of Jiang Wenli's childhood.
Jiang Wenli's father and mother are both workers in the Bengbu railway system in Anhui Province, her father is an engineer, and her mother is an operator.
Jiang Wenli's parents
At a railway sports meeting, Dad held up a jump pole, Mom sprinted, and their energetic appearance left a deep impression on each other.
Later, Jiang Wenli's parents participated in the choir competition together, and the high-value mother was the favorite object of many boys.
Jiang Wenli's father wrote a note to her mother: "I want to be friends with you."
Jiang Wenli's mother replied: "Agreed."
Thus began the exchange of letters.
At that time, the carriage was slow, the letters were far away, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
The two young people established a romantic relationship in correspondence, but a year later, Jiang Wenli's father was because of work relations.
He was transferred to Xinjiang.
The distance of thousands of miles did not stop the love of the two young people, who used letters and photos to tell their feelings for each other.
It was not until 5 years later that 27-year-old Jiang Wenli's parents received a marriage license.
At that time, it was considered an older youth.
After marriage, Jiang Wenli's father continued to work in Xinjiang, only 20 days off a year to visit relatives, and it took three days and four nights to take the train each time.
The days when the couple were separated from each other lasted 15 years.
But in this state of perennial separation, Jiang Wenli's parents still love each other, support each other, and rely on each other.
Jiang Wenli's father and three daughters
Jiang Wenli once said in her autobiography: "On my mother's 50th birthday, my father sorted out a collection of poems, and in the collection of poems, my father called my mother a goddess and was willing to crawl at her feet all her life."
Here I have to sigh that the older generation is great and selfless, and in order to build a cause, they are willing to give up their small family for everyone.
Their love is especially precious in today's "fast food" life, that kind of perseverance and loyalty.
Jiang Wenli's parents originally only planned to have one child, and after giving birth to the eldest daughter, Jiang Wenli's mother accidentally became pregnant again.
After giving birth to her second daughter, Jiang Wenli's parents unanimously decided that this was the last one.
Who would have thought that one year, when Jiang Wenli's mother went to Visit her husband in Xinjiang, she accidentally became pregnant with her third child, that is, Jiang Wenli.
The couple discussed and decided to go for surgery.
But doing this kind of surgery was particularly troublesome in those days, requiring the signature and impression of both husband and wife units.
Couples, one in Xinjiang and one in Anhui.
The effort of the letters to come and go, coupled with the various procedures that still need to take some time to complete, is just like this.
Jiang Wenli has been in her mother's belly for three or four months.
As a result, Jiang Wenli's mother couldn't bear it anymore.
In this way, Jiang Wenli came to this world without any danger.
Jiang Wenli's eldest sister is called An Di, and the second sister is called Quan Di, and it can be seen from the name that her parents want a boy to pass on the generations.
After Jiang Wenli was born, her grandparents looked at it and it was a "golden flower".
Jiang Wenli's three sisters
Seeing that the hope of holding her grandson was once again disappointed, Grandpa blackened his face and sneered at Jiang Wenli's mother with his grandmother.
Jiang Wenli's mother has been pampered since she was a child, plus she is a woman in the new era, who can bear such grievances.
She considered that she still had to take care of the above two daughters, and there was not much time for Jiang Wenli, so she simply "packed" Jiang Wenli and sent it to her grandfather's house.
When Jiang Wenli was born, her grandfather was already 81 years old.
Grandpa Jiang Wenli
Grandpa had four children, the first three died of illness, leaving only Jiang Wenli's mother a single seedling.
Grandpa gave all his favor to Jiang Wenli's mother, so for little Jiang Wenli, Grandpa treated her like a pearl in her hand.
Grandpa Jiang Wenli had a decent job and was one of the first train drivers at the time.
He has driven trains to Feng Yuxiang, Bai Chongxi, Li Zongren and other big figures, and has also been rewarded with 30 pieces of ocean.
After retirement, you can get a salary of 38 yuan per month.
In those days, this was a considerable income for an old man.
Coupled with her mother's salary also given to her grandfather, Xiao Jiang Wenli's childhood life was very rich and warm.
Grandpa is a very poetic person, like to raise flowers, raise fish, full of flowers and grass in the yard.
There is a very "winding path" style.
On a starry summer night, Jiang Wenli and Grandpa sat in the courtyard, and Grandpa used a fan to catch mosquitoes for Xiao Wenli while telling stories.
In winter, Grandpa roasted the clothes and then gave them to her to wear.
Spend half a month's salary to buy a rag doll for Little Jiang Wenli to fulfill her wish.
Little Wenli became Grandpa's little tail.
Wherever Grandpa goes, she must follow, inseparable, in and out of the same place, inseparable from people for a moment, and tears in her eyes when she can't see Grandpa.
When she reached the age of kindergarten, Jiang Wenli cried for more than a week and refused to go, and her grandfather had to take her back home.
Teach her personally.
Although Grandpa is very fond of Jiang Wenli, he will never spoil, and should be strictly educated and guided, in principle, Grandpa will not give in.
Once, Jiang Wenli lied to her grandfather.
After Grandpa found out, he took out a ring ruler and taught Jiang Wenli that children should not lie, and they should not learn to lie for a lifetime.
While using the ring ruler, he hit Jiang Wenli's palm mercilessly.
Until little Jiang Wenli cried and begged for forgiveness and confessed her mistakes, such education could be seen everywhere in Jiang Wenli's childhood life.
This also benefited Jiang Wenli for life.
In terms of human affection, Grandpa also taught Jiang Wenli by example.
Grandpa has a wide range of friends, many guests will visit at home, and when it comes to dinner, they will inevitably have to rub a meal at Grandpa's house.
Once or twice, after a long time, Xiao Jiang Wenli was not happy.
After all, in the 1970s, every family was living a tight life, and no one could afford to cook more vegetables every day to greet outsiders.
Grandpa educated little Jiang Wenli who pulled a small face.
If it is not a difficult day, who is willing to cheekily rub rice in other people's homes, it is nothing more than eating less and adding more chopsticks.
Little Jiang Wenli seemed to understand and nodded.
When Jiang Wenli was in elementary school, her grandfather was almost 90 years old, but he still picked up Jiang Wenli to and from school every day, rain or shine.
Every time she went out, Grandpa would braid her with a beautiful and clean little braid.
Her mother was afraid that her grandfather's body would not be able to eat, so she changed the school close to home for Jiang Wenli three times in a row.
Because of frequent school changes, Jiang Wenli could not integrate into the class collective, had no friends in school, and was often excluded by her classmates.
Jiang Wenli is arrogant and would rather play by herself than bow her head to seduce other students.
But Grandpa could not see his granddaughter being wronged.
He invited Jiang Wenli to his home and invited them to eat delicious sweets and snacks.
Then he said to Jiang Wenli's classmates, "I heard that a female classmate bullied our little Wenli, so you go back and tell her that if this happens again, I will go to your teacher."
Since then, no one has isolated Jiang Wenli, often pulling her down to play games together.
Grandpa is like a protective umbrella, guarding Jiang Wenli growing up.
In order to exercise Jiang Wenli's body, her grandfather sent her to learn gymnastics, and every time her grandfather stood outside the door and did not want to leave.
Hearing that Little Jiang Wenli was crying in pain because of her legs pressing, Grandpa saw it in her eyes and hurt in her heart.
In the end, I was really sad that I couldn't do it, and I could only leave step by step and three times.
Jiang Wenli grew up day by day, but her grandfather fell ill.
Jiang Wenli always accompanied her grandfather, just like her grandfather took care of her when she was a child, feeding her grandfather water, feeding food, and washing his grandfather's face.
But Grandpa was gone.
All the affection in the world cannot resist the ruthlessness of the years.
The year grandpa left, Jiang Wenli was only 12 years old, and she seemed to have grown up overnight.
A big tree that shields you from the wind and rain suddenly falls, and this small tree grows.
Years later, Jiang Wenli recounted a scene before her grandfather's death, who was lying on the bed, his body dry and thin, and his eyes were not radiant.
The elders shook hands with Grandpa one by one to say goodbye, and when it was Jiang Wenli's turn, Grandpa's originally unconscious hand suddenly grabbed Jiang Wenli.
Tears were still falling from the corners of his eyes, and he knew it was his most beloved granddaughter.
Standing in front of her grandfather's tomb, Jiang Wenli said to herself in her heart:
"My childhood is over".
When her grandfather died, Jiang Wenli did not feel too sad.
Because Grandpa once told her that people's experiences in this life are like flowers and plants, flowers bloom sometimes, but always short-lived.
The longer part of life is to grow silently and tenaciously.
After becoming famous, Jiang Wenli recalled her grandfather's words and understood the reasoning more, whether it was success or failure.
Even in the face of life and death, we must have a normal heart.
To the loved ones who have passed away and cannot be forgotten, we live well in this world today.
Not just to see us in heaven one day, but today we get along better with our parents, partners, children, and ourselves.
After entering the show business circle, Jiang Wenli passed works such as "Holding Hands", "Happiness Comes Knocking", "Chinese-style Divorce", "Golden Wedding" and so on.
I've won all the awards I can get.
Jiang Wenli also won the recognition of the audience with her superb acting skills, and was once named "performing artist." ”
Her acting achievements have left many actresses unattainable.
Her short 7-minute shot in "Farewell to the King" became an enduring acting textbook for film schools.
But Jiang Wenli has always had a dream in her heart.
I have acted in so many other people's stories, but no one has acted on my own stories.
After the 30th anniversary of Grandpa's death.
In 2009, Jiang Wenli prepared her debut film "We See You in Heaven".
Put his story with grandpa on the big screen.
The past between those grandchildren, although simple but so warm and moving, makes people tearful.
In the movie, there is a line that is the most memorable, which makes people admire Grandpa's transparency, open-mindedness and atmosphere even more.
Jiang Wenli asked, "Grandpa, are you terrible to die?"
Grandpa replied, "Don't be afraid."
Jiang Wenli: "Why?"
Grandpa smiled and said, "I am alive with you, and I am with your uncle and them when I die, and on both sides are my relatives."
In this movie, 50,000 people cried and scored a high score of 8.6, and countless people remembered the story of Jiang Wenli and grandpa.
The film also won the Busan Film Festival's "Most Popular Film award for the audience." ”
In 2013, Jiang Wenli wrote a book about her story with her grandfather.
Just like Ni Ping's "Quotations from Grandma", "Grandpa" written by Jiang Wenli has also been recognized by many fans and has a high reputation.
Many readers are crying while watching, especially the chapter of saying goodbye to grandpa at the end, the feelings are gentle and delicate, very warm and affectionate.
In the book, Jiang Wenli said: "Grandpa and I, one ninety years old, one seven or eight years old, in that turbulent era, he supported me to grow up, and I accompanied him through the road of life."
An audience member once asked Jiang Wenli.
What do you think is the most precious thing your grandfather gave you?
Jiang Wenli replied, "It's love."
Grandpa gave her a happy childhood with love, and she also wanted to pass on this love.
Even if the world is difficult, we must warm others with love.
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