Mr. Ben Hua, the philosophical master of existentialism and pessimism, never married, and his status as a bachelor remained until his old age. However, Schopenhauer is not an ascetic who is not close to women, he is full of yearning and love for male and female love, he has a few love experiences, once held a bunch of grapes as a gift on a yacht, pursued a girl who is not yet an adult, dozens of years younger than himself, until the other party said that it was incomprehensible, it was difficult to obey, and then he stopped.
Philosophers are not transcendent, they are also ordinary people. Schopenhauer was both a good philosopher and a close relative of people with depression disorders, and his father was depressed, unhappy with family life and business, and eventually threw himself into the river, which Schopenhauer blamed on his talented but naturally free mother. Because of this, he hated women, always hostile to women, coupled with his poor image, old-fashioned love to raise bars, mother-child relationship was a mess, and finally in his forties he was still single, so he completely cut off the idea of marriage.
He famously said it like this— getting married at this age is like walking three-quarters of a mile, but having to buy expensive full-price tickets for the rest of the journey is really not worth it.
Throughout his life, Schopenhauer had few sensual experiences of love in his great rational mind, and although he had a great deal of time to ponder philosophical propositions, he truly missed the greatest pleasure of life.
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