On December 5, 2016, a man recounted his unhappy marriage on an emotional program on Heilongjiang Radio.
This man was none other than Hao Ziming.
And the unbearable wife she broke the news is the female star He Jie.
So this torn, crumbling marriage, after unveiling the sweet disguise, is bloodily exposed to the public.
This former Supergirl Four, and their marriage, was pushed to the forefront of public opinion for a while.
After that, two divorced.
After the divorce, He Jie took the child alone to become a single mother, and repeatedly cried to netizens about poverty, saying that there was no job and no income, and even the children could not afford to raise.
However, people did not have time to sympathize with her, and the news of her marriage and children with drummer Diao Lei went away and overturned again.
What is even more embarrassing is that He Jie was robbed of other people's husbands in this marriage, became a third party who interfered in other people's marriages, and was also accused of being "disgusting" by Diao Lei's wife.
In addition, the relationship between her and another supergirl, Li Yuchun, is enigmatic, and she has been accused of being a "plastic sister flower".
Under the repeated divine operations of He Jie, he encountered an unprecedented word-of-mouth crisis.
So, what has He Jie done over the years?
01
In 2005, Hunan Satellite TV's talent show "Super Girl" was very popular after it was broadcast.
Especially in Changsha, on the night of the final, it simply reached the point of being empty.
Countless people are paying attention to this show, and the young and beautiful girls in the show.
Li Yuchun's handsomeness, Zhang Liangying's dolphin tone, Zhou Bichang's singing skills, He Jie's cuteness and liveliness, etc., have made thousands of fans crazy for them.
If it weren't for this show, He Jie would still be just an ordinary girl in Guiyang City.
She did not have a brilliant birth background, He Jie's father was a taxi driver, and her mother worked in the supermarket, and they all did the most ordinary work.
Such a family is doomed to not provide her with the material basis and resources to climb up.
But this show reversed her fate.
After "Super Girl", she is no longer an ordinary girl He Jie, but a big star He Jie.
Although before this, she was the champion of the "99 Star Challenge" in Guizhou, the national top eight of the "Liangliduo" selection competition, and the first prize of the "First Campus Singer English Song Competition"... But none of these honors were worth the ones Supergirl had given her.
Compared with Li Yuchun and Zhou Bichang, He Jie is sweeter than their appearance.
Compared to the other players of Supergirl, He Jie is more popular than them.
As a result, major brands have thrown olive branches to her and invited her to endorse their brands.
Compared with other Supergirls, she got the endorsement of major brands earlier than them and is the darling of many brands.
Because of the continuous advertising endorsement, He Jieren at that time took the nickname "Advertising Little Princess".
Behind this nickname is the soft advertising endorsement fee she earned.
Therefore, only the second year of her debut, she was able to buy a villa in Beijing with full money.
When peers are still looking for jobs in resumes, He Jie has already achieved wealth freedom one step ahead, not just to win at the starting line.
In addition, after signing a contract with Tianyu Media, under their support, from 2005 to 2007, she successively released many albums such as "Holding Hands", "Luminous Body", "Obviously Not Angel" and so on.
At that time, she was a guest singer at major galas.
Is the heroine of the TV series "Beautiful Decibel", And Li Yuchun, who is the champion of Supergirl, was also pulled to match her.
Everyone may not have seen this TV series, but the theme song "You Must Be Happy" sung by He Jie should have been heard by many people.
It can be said that He Jie debuted at the peak and became the most commercially valuable female star in the entertainment industry.
I just don't know if her career is too smooth, making her become a little unscrupulous.
02
When walking the red carpet at the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival, He Jie's fall made countless cameras aimed at her.
She laughed and stood up, stealing the limelight for a while.
Just when people speculated whether the little girl was too nervous to fall, He Jie fell on the red carpet again.
Some insiders broke the news that He Jie's fall was intentional and planned by the brokerage company.
Soon after, He Jie was scolded for kneeling down to accept an interview, and was scolded for being too contrived and sensationalizing.
He Jie's agent came out and explained: "He Jie is a very spontaneous person, and everyone thinks of her as complicated. ”
Even if her agent came out to explain, many people still didn't pay.
Because not long ago, someone put an ugly photo of He Jie on the Internet and said that she had plastic surgery.
The negative storm has not yet calmed down, and a few months later, He Jie staged "Falling" again at the personal debut concert held at the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, and walked away many times.
After the photos at the concert were exposed, netizens talked about it, saying that he relied on wrestling and walking light to get out of the position, and He Jie was also known as the "queen of topics".
In this regard, He Jie did not apologize, but also said: "I will continue to walk and continue to fall until you pay attention to my efforts and the songs I sing." ”
Some good people even put photos of He Jie's many falls on the Internet and launched a poll on "which one fell most naturally".
In addition, He Jie's fainting at the airport was also accused of being hype.
Because some netizens said that he saw the whole process of He Jie fainting.
After one unbelievable behavior after another, although He Jie gained a lot of attention, it also made her controversial, and her popularity was overdrawn again and again.
In 2009, He Jie proposed to Tianyu to terminate the contract, and at that time, Tianyu was left with only Li Yuchun after Zhang Liangying, Chen Chusheng, Zhou Bichang, and Shang Wenjie left one by one.
Although it is perfectly normal to be divided for a long time, Li Yuchun can resist the temptation and is not attracted by the interests of the outside, from this point of view, it is still very good.
Speaking of the reason why He Jie and Tianyu terminated their contract, He Jie said that he was dissatisfied with Guo Jingming's participation in the new album and bundling with him.
It is hard to imagine that He Jie, who was also accused of various hype before, turned around and complained about the hype behavior of the brokerage company.
In order to successfully terminate the contract, He Jie chose to confront Tianyu in court.
It is said that He Jie's behavior made the top level of Tianyu very angry.
Although He Jie said that the new owner was not yet decided, he also said that he would return to his hometown to study after losing the lawsuit.
But she just terminated the contract here, and then turned around and signed a contract with Qiyi Quark, so people questioned that He Jie was prepared for the termination of the contract.
03
After leaving Tianyu, He Jie not only exerted her strength in music, but also turned to the film and television circle.
In 2010, she and Shi Xiaolong starred in the movie "The Legend of the KnifeMan", who knows that the two have an affair because of the drama.
In 2011, a post titled "Sanlitun Met Shi Xiaolong He Jie's Ten Fingers and Sweet Shopping" exposed the relationship between the two.
After that, the media often took photos of the two together, and the two were once rumored to be living together, watching dresses and preparing for marriage, pregnancy and other news.
Just when everyone thought that this pair of "golden boys and jade girls" was close to good things, who knew that it would not be long before the two broke up.
In August 2011, at the signing site with Huayi, He Jie couldn't help but shed tears many times and acquiesced to the rumors of breaking up with Shi Xiaolong.
After that, she also posted on Weibo: "Hey hey, babes, today I want to 'get married' today." Beijing Fenglian Plaza I am here! Finally there is a nest that allows me to settle down, but where is my love nest? ”
What was just confusing was that her agent said: "From the beginning, the news that He Jie and Shi Xiaolong fell in love was nothing. The two of them had never been together. ”
The entertainment industry is true or false, and sometimes it is really difficult to say.
Later, in the show, He Jie hinted that the reason for the breakup was Shi Xiaolong's problem.
So He Jie's fans chased after Xiaolong and scolded.
In this regard, Shi Xiaolong did not say a word.
Only later, the irony is that the woman has been married and divorced several times, but Shi Xiaolong is still alone.
In 2012, at the launch of He Jie's new album "Dare to Love", when He Ziming appeared holding 99 roses and said to He Jie, "No matter what I encounter in the future, I will always love you", the scene was boiling.
He Jie burst into tears with excitement: "This is my happiest moment." ”
In 2013, 27-year-old He Jie and He Ziming got married.
What He Jie did not know at that time was that it was this marriage that once again plunged her into a crisis of criticism and word of mouth.
04
The first thing that plunged He Jie into controversy was her friendship with Li Yuchun.
A reporter with a good thing gossiped and asked He Jie if the good sister Li Yuchun would come to the wedding.
He Jie replied: "I don't know the whereabouts of Chun Chun, so I sent her a text message. ”
Just when everyone thought that Li Yuchun was playing a big card and did not even reply to the text message sent by the good sister, the plot reversed.
Li Yuchun said bluntly that he flipped through his mobile phone at home to more than two o'clock, and did not see the invitation text message at all.
After that, He Jie not only failed to come up with evidence of texting, but also implied that Li Yuchun was lying in an interview.
He Jie's operation was accused by netizens of lying into sex.
In 2014 and 2015, He Jie gave birth to her son Qibao and daughter Baomei in succession, and the speed was staggering.
Although everyone around her, including the doctor, opposed her to having a second child, He Jie insisted on giving birth to Bao Mei on the grounds that the abortion was too cruel.
Because of this incident, He Jie's mother ignored her for a while and felt that she was "irresponsible".
Whether this is for love or for selfish desires, only He Jie himself knows best.
In addition to the dog blood tearing each other in the back, in fact, He Jie and He Ziming also had a sweet time.
When the two participated in the reality show "All the Way with You" together, He Ziming was very protective of He Jie, almost to the point of being obedient, either worried that she was frozen or afraid that she was hungry.
Whether it is He Jie's unprovoked tantrum or her many small problems, He Ziming said the most is "my daughter-in-law is so cute."
During that time, the two often showed their love and looked very sweet.
Or, this is also the greatest satisfaction that He Jie has received in this marriage of strong women and weak men.
But under the surface of love, there is often an unknown side.
In "Happiness Trio", of the three couples, Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie, Big S and Wang Xiaofei were later divorced, leaving only Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin, who were mutually resentful of each other every day, to persist until the end.
So the more beautiful things are on the surface, the better they are at disguise, and the more unreal they are.
I don't know if it was suppressed too long in this marriage, he Ziming, a public figure, actually ran to the radio emotional program to talk about the misfortune of the marriage.
In He Ziming's mouth, He Jie became a woman who behaved inappropriately, often drank until midnight, had a short temper, and had a tendency to domestic violence.
It is hard to imagine that this loving man who spoiled He Jie as a princess in the show and took a bite of "my daughter-in-law" on social platforms turned around and described his wife as so unbearable.
Of course, He Jie did not want to show weakness, accusing He Ziming of having no sense of responsibility, loving to play games, and having a chaotic private life.
In the end, the relationship ended with the two parting ways.
After that, He Jie often played the emotional card in the show, and also set up a "strong woman" and "loving second-child mother" personality, which won her a wave of good feelings.
She also said: "Even if I meet someone who suits me in the future, I will not get married again." ”
However, He Jie, who just said that she would not get married again, quickly came together with Diao Lei in 2018.
And the two even had children.
Although He Jie wanted to avoid the problem of three children, he was still exposed.
In addition, He Jie was also exploded as a third party.
In a recording of a phone call between He Ziming and Diao Lei's ex-wife Duan Ping, it was said that He Jie and Diao Lei's relationship was particularly good.
In order to deceive his ex-wife into divorce, Diao Lei even lied about protecting her and the children.
Diao Lei's ex-wife also said that the name He Jie made her sick.
In short, He Jie's intervention in other people's marriages was hammered by a stone in the mouth of Diao Lei's ex-wife.
At this point, He Jie's image plummeted.
In 2021, He Jie sold miserably in the live broadcast, not only saying that she could not get a lot of jobs, but also saying that she had been unemployed for 3 months and worried about not being able to support 4 children.
This is not the first time That He Jie has sold miserably, she has complained that artists are very wronged and do not make much money before.
Finally, he also said that he wanted to live like an ordinary person.
After He Jie's words were sent, they were frantically complained by netizens.
For a person who has already bought a mansion in Beijing at a young age, and ordinary people shouting that the star earns less, this is very problematic in itself.
It's like the CEO of a listed company saying to a migrant worker, I don't make as much money as you.
He Jie estimated that he had been in high society for a long time and did not know what kind of life ordinary people lived.
Under He Jie's repeated divine operations, now her reputation has dropped again and again, and she doesn't know that when she dreams back in the middle of the night, have she ever regretted what she once did?