Mayashu is best known as Wu Qilong's ex-wife.
On August 11, 2009, the two divorced, when Wu Qilong's post was:
"Feelings are a fate rather than a tool, and if the fate is exhausted, you should learn to let go."
This profound sentence was infinitely interpreted by netizens, coupled with the news that MayaShu was previously reported by Zhuo Wei in the crew and a man for three days and three nights.
Suddenly, Mayashu's image fell to the bottom and was wildly attacked by netizens.
Since then, Mayashu's works have not been much, and the news she has seen intermittently is the daily life of her and her family, and it seems that after the entertainment industry cannot gain a foothold, she can only return to her family and live her own life.
Is that really the case?
Mayashu is a very thoughtful girl.
In 1988, as a student of Peking Opera, she participated in her first film "Beijing Little Girl", the life in the crew, focusing on the spotlight on her, which made her like, so she made up her mind:
I don't want to sing Peking Opera anymore, I want to learn acting.
After graduation, she directly ran into the entertainment industry and began a dragon running career, trying to compete for every opportunity to perform as much as possible.
During those years, she ran a lot of dragon sets, and many characters could not find her name after the tv series was successfully produced.
But she still didn't give up and felt happy.
"Being able to make a face in a TV series is half the battle in itself."
With this mentality, she continued to move from studio to studio and crew. Play the role seriously, polish your acting skills, and accumulate experience.
Fast forward to 2001, she took over the filming of Zhou Yi's famous book adaptation "Xiao Eleven Lang", in which she played Xiao Shi Yi Lang's red face confidant Feng Si Niang.
The actor Xiao Shiylang is played by Wu Qilong. The two have many rival scenes, in the play they have a close relationship, outside the play the two are also talking and laughing, the relationship is very ambiguous.
You know, at that time, Wu Qilong had a girlfriend, that is, our empress dowager Cai Shaofen.
Both of them have developed in Hong Kong and have grown up in very similar experiences.
They all entered the industry at a young age, and they all became popular quickly. In addition, there is a common denominator in addition to handsome men and beautiful women - paying off debts for their families.
Such commonalities make Wu Qilong and Cai Shaofen understand each other's hardships very well and are also very considerate of each other.
In the end, there was no reason, and they broke up after less than three years of falling in love.
The reporter knew that when they broke up, they also interviewed Cai Shaofen specifically:
"Did you break up because of a third party?"
Cai Shaofen was not happy, and she replied directly:
"It's hard for us to know each other and understand each other. But when I encounter things, I like to express them, but he likes to bury them in his heart. ”
On the other hand, Mayashu was very considerate of Wu Qilong. In the crew of "Xiao Shi Yilang", Wu Qilong had a high fever, and MayaShu took care of him by boiling soup. At that time, a person was working hard in the mainland, and Wu Qilong, who was under great pressure, needed such care the most.
This made Wu Qilong, who had always been carrying it alone, very moved, and even flew to Yunnan to visit Mayashu in 2002, when the shooting had ended.
Following "Xiao Shi YiLang", filming of "The Young King" began in June 2002. The male protagonist is still Wu Qilong, and although Mayashu is not the protagonist, he is still involved. The two people gathered in a crew again, looking up and not looking down, and there was more contact.
At this time, the man has no companion, the woman has a heart, and the two hearts of such two people are getting closer and closer.
One day, Wu Qilong was accidentally injured while filming, and the whole person landed on the ground from the third floor and directly fell into a coma.
At that time, Mayashu was still sincere to Wu Qilong, and after the crew learned of the news, they rushed to the hospital.
At the hospital, Mayashu looked at Wu Qilong, who had not yet woken up, but she had already made up her mind:
"If he's paralyzed and in a vegetative state, I'm still willing to raise him." At that time, she was in love with Wu Qilong to the extent that he was even willing to die.
Later, Wu Qilong woke up, and looking at Mayashu, who took care of himself day and night in the hospital, Wu Qilong was even more moved. After being discharged from the hospital, the relationship between the two escalated, and Mayashu became Wu Qilong's official girlfriend.
After five years of falling in love, the two were married in December 2006 in Yunnan.
At that time, although Wu Qilong was popular and worked a lot, he did not have any savings due to debt repayment, so when the two got married, there was no wedding, there was no honeymoon arrangement, and even the house was bought by the two with a loan.
At that time, they were a couple who were willing to suffer together and sincerely cherished each other.
It is said that marriage is the graveyard of love, and Wu Qilong and Mayashu got married somehow, directly burying the five-year relationship between the two.
After marriage, both of them are fighting for careers, gathering less and leaving more. As Wu Qilong said in the Taiwan program:
"I've been married to her for two years and I've only been together 5 times."
Some netizens have counted that before MayaShu married Wu Qilong, the highest position was the four times like the fourth lady of the wind.
After marrying him, Mayashu participated in many TV series, playing the heroine.
With the take-off of such a career, Mayashu put all his energy into his work, and he naturally paid less attention to Wu Qilong, who was also busy.
You know, the two can come together because one party keeps giving and taking care of one party. Over time, the two are just strangers who maintain a husband and wife relationship.
Breaking this deadlock was the entertainment ji Zhuo Wei, who saw and released MayaShu on Monday in early 2009 for three days and three nights with a foreign boyfriend in the crew, and the man had been in the crew.
According to reports, at that time, some netizens met Mayashu's parents and Mayashu and this friend to visit the grotto together during the New Year, and they seemed to get along very well.
Suddenly, the melon-eating masses gathered together, and at this time, Wu Qilong and Mayashu were not divorced.
When the report came out, Ms. Nguyen, Mayashu's agent, responded: "They have long agreed to divorce at the beginning of the year, but the two people are very busy, so they have been dragging their feet and not going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities." ”
Before the masses could react, Miao Xiuli, Wu Qilong's agent at the time, stood up and choked back:
Mayashu has never been sincere with Wu Qilong. When she went to Taiwan in 2008 to do publicity, all the announcements on it were not to promote her own works, but to Wu Qilong. It is simply to use Wu Qilong as a tool for hype. ”
In fact, the agent did not agree to the marriage of the two at the beginning, and always thought that Mayashu just wanted to get on the throne. As a result, Mayashu's performance after marriage made the agent affirm his idea.
In this way, the marriage between the two will be directly unable to maintain, and it will simply end on August 11 of the same year.
Wu Qilong has been busy with his career after the divorce, not only gaining a group of die-hard fans, but also opening a company.
Emotionally, he and Liu Shishi have cooperated many times, and finally they are united in mutual affection, and now they are a happy family of three.
Looking at Mayashu again, in fact, she is the fastest person to come out of this relationship and live a happy life.
Less than a month after their divorce in 2009, her boyfriend Robert proposed to her, and in June of the following year, the two entered the palace of marriage.
This time, the wedding Mayashu that a woman was looking forward to also had: wearing a wedding dress and a diamond ring in her hand, under the witness of all her relatives and friends, she once again entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, she gave birth to a daughter and a son to her husband and formed a happy family of four.
Parenting methods are controversial.
In the show "Mom is Superman", she brought her husband and children into it. She has aroused heated discussion among netizens because of her parenting concept.
In the show, her daughter does not like to eat vegetables and fruits, and only wants to eat snacks, mayashu, as a mother, not only does not stop, but teaches the children well, but gives and takes.
At the kindergarten age, the child should have a certain degree of independence, such as wiping his own ass, taking off his pants, etc., but Mayashu's child does not want to do this, as long as the child cries, she will do everything by herself.
The daughter who grew up like this could not adapt in kindergarten, and all the children could go to the toilet by themselves, but she could not, wet her pants, and would only cry in the same place.
The other children could play with themselves, but her daughter was afraid to find her mother.
What should be learned at this age, Mayashu did not teach the children at all, but only adhered to the practice of "eating to open the mouth, clothes to reach out"
Such a way of doting, not only netizens can't look at it, but also robert, the husband who has raised children, can't look at it.
"A kid you teach him to tie his shoelaces when he's 8 years old, and when he's 20 years old, he learns. At the age of 20, he should be able to work and earn money, but he will only tie his shoes."
This passage is probably the best portrayal of Mayashu taking care of the child.
In order to avoid children bumping at home, Mayashu moved the furniture in the home, even to eat, several people are sitting on the ground to eat, such inconvenience Mayashu can not see, in her heart is still proud:
"I'm really a mother who is dedicated to her children."
The mouth is also said to the husband: "It is not that I am afraid that the home is dirty and messy, but it is true that our home is not suitable for furniture." ”
Her husband was also relatively speechless, arguing: "We go to a friend's house, their house is all furnished, but our children are not running around, aren't they?" ”
Off-camera, Robert began to spit bitterly at the program team:
"It's been three years, the home is not an amusement park, this time it's time to make the home normal." As parents, we have the responsibility and obligation to teach our children not to jump on the table, not to step on the sofa chair, etc."
It can be seen that he has also been depressed for a long time, and may have been letting Mayashu respect her ideas, but he didn't expect it to be so outrageous.
Thankfully, Mayashu finally chose to take a step back, "Well, we can leave the chairs and the dining table behind." ”
Eventually, the family finally stopped eating on the ground.
There are a lot of conflicts like this in the show, but it makes people think that Mayashu wants to be good to the children too much, and her husband has been left far behind by her, and all the energy is focused on the children.
The two people who reached an agreement finally reconciled and deserved blessings.
In daily life, husband Robert will also take his wife and children to travel around, generally choosing places are local five-star hotels, he likes to post these happiness on the Internet.
In 2021, Mayashu left the variety show for the first time after the variety show to meet with everyone. On the live streaming platform, she settled in. At this time, netizens said: "Another star has entered the live broadcast platform to bring goods." ”
Mayashu did not pay attention to these words, but posted some of the roles he played in the past on the platform, such as "Shun Niang", "Big Mane", "Xiao Shiyilang", etc., as if he wanted to arouse the memory of netizens.
Netizens have said that she is not going to start bringing goods later, so she is now selling feelings.
However, from the queen of the hit drama to the current no one cares, the psychological gap may only be the deepest felt by herself.
After a period of time on the platform, her number of fans is only more than 10,000 people, whether this is because it has been silent for too long, or some other is unknown.
At the end of September 2021, she made an appearance on the livestream. Netizens saw her appearance. For a moment, I thought she was Zhang Tianai, and I felt like Qin Lan, and I saw the name before I found that it was Mayashu.
In the video, she has long hair and shawls, her skin is not wrinkled, and she looks like a beautiful sister next door. Looks like a really good one.
In the past few years, Mayashu has devoted himself to his family, changed his attitude of hard work in the past, and starred in some dramas every few years to see the situation.
In the past, she preferred to play some bitter roles in TV dramas, generally some small white flower roles that were showy and bullied.
Nowadays, she has changed her style, as long as she takes the royal sister Fan, such as in the work "Just to Meet You" that has met the audience in recent years, Mu Ziyun, who she plays, is a more sassy role.
In addition, she also participated in the new version of "Tianlong Babu" in the play to play Wang Yuyan's mother, the great beauty Li Qingluo. Compared with the classic character casting in this version of the TV series, Mayashu's costume is still very ideal.
However, almost none of the episodes and roles she plays today are impressive, and her sense of existence is getting weaker and weaker.
She was involved in the TV series, and she was involved in the movies. The "Marriage Urging" released in 2021 is her starring role, but the environment is sluggish, and the film is released without any splash. Didn't achieve the impact she wanted.
As Mayashu said in 2017 when he angrily rebuked netizens:
"We know only the marriage thing best, and I am not ashamed."
Yes, Wu Qilong and Mayashu have been divorced for many years, and each has his own happiness.
They are not entangled in the past, and we viewers do not need to go online.
Being able to do it with a clear conscience, no matter what, is always the best result.
Now Mayashu is happily married, accompanied by children, I only hope that she can continue to be happy.