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Editor| Captain Zhang
Thousands of autumns are incomparable, pleasing to the eye is beautiful; the country is full of beauty, and it is amazing.
The undefeated beauty of the years, the great beauty that was once very popular in the 90s
Flying like a shock, like a dragon, put it now is simply a second to kill all the net red faces.
Jiang Shan
Jiang Shan once said that she was a person who was taken care of by fate.
When she was once popular because of "Addiction", it also laid a solid foundation for her future acting career.
As we all know, Jiang Shan is a spontaneous person, whether it is treating feelings or careers.
It is precisely because of her dare to love and dare to do, after experiencing half a life's emotional injury, she finally gained a love.
Jiang Shan used her own emotional experience to perfectly interpret that the right person will always come as promised, no matter how many mountains and rivers will meet you in the vast sea of people.
01. Born in Chinese opera, he and Wang Zhiwen became a screen couple
Jiang Shan was born in a beautiful Jiangnan town in 1967, and she has lived in a movie house since she was a child.
Her father, Jiang Huaiyan, was a former director at a film studio, and her mother was an editor at a China publishing house, and Jiang Shan, who had been familiar with movies since childhood, had a certain talent in this regard.
When she grew up, she followed her mother's advice and was admitted to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama, which laid a solid foundation for her acting career.
Jiang Shan, Hu Jun, Chen Xiaoyi, Xu Fan and others are classmates of the Beijing People's Art Theater, and they often study scripts together to study acting skills and become very good friends.
However, at this time, Jiang Shan, who was happy by nature, chose to leave Beiyi, because she did not like to be bound by the rules and regulations of Beiyi, which was contrary to her dream, so no matter how her family and classmates persuaded her, she left without hesitation to chase her dream life.
Then because of serendipity, but also because of acting skills online, in 1994 she was selected by director Zhao Baogang and became the heroine of "Addiction", and the male protagonist is Wang Zhiwen, who is equal in age and acting skills.
At that time, because the two people hit it off in the play, the degree of tacit understanding was very high, and then the two continued to co-produce a number of TV series, both male and female protagonists, so they were once regarded as screen lovers by the audience, and entertainment reports often reported the scandals of the two.
But in fact, whether they have ever been together or not, there is no real hammer.
But what is certain is that Jiang Shan has a high evaluation of Wang Zhiwen, and she has expressed the hope that she can continue to cooperate with Wang Zhiwen, from her youth to her twilight years.
Sometimes such emotions, in addition to super friendship, and the state of lovers are the most enviable.
At the same time, Jiang Shan's record "Dream Water Town" also instantly became popular all over the country and became a familiar and catchy song for everyone.
Many commercial performance invitations and cooperation have come one after another, songs and films and television are thriving, but Jiang Shan suddenly chose to stop abruptly, frank and straightforward Jiang Shan rejected these commercial performances for profit, because singing is her love, she does not want to go against her original intention.
If Jiang Shan's spontaneous personality is reflected in leaving Beiyi, then in the same way, she also dares to do and dare to love and hate her love.
02. Fall in love with Gao Shuguang because of drama, flash marriage and divorce
Jiang Shan, who has always been unruly about her feelings, dedicated her first hot love to Gao Shuguang, who worked with her, and they fell in love because of the drama in the TV series "I Want to Have a Home".
From the play to the outside of the play, soon the two formed a connection and gave birth to a daughter Gao Yixin, and the "love" word composed of the daughter's name and heart also shows that the love between the two was once very sweet.
Only later, because the two people had a deviation in their understanding of life and feelings, Jiang Shan pursued a passionate life, while Gao Shuguang tended to be plain and stable, so the two people gradually drifted apart.
The marriage lasted only 8 years, and finally ended with a divorce, and Jiang Shan lived alone with her daughter.
Years later, when the reporter talked about her relationship with Gao Shuguang, she still kept a smile. Sometimes it's easier to choose to give up than to stick with it, she says. It is far wiser to give up the wrong feelings than to persistently endure the torment of wrong love.
Whether this marriage is right or wrong is not something that bystanders can understand, and only the person concerned can feel it, just as the shoe does not fit, and only the person wearing the shoe knows.
Friend Chen Xiaoyi said that Jiang Shan is such a very self-contained woman, she will never give in in her feelings, but she will not regress to herself.
She is casual but not casual, and her obsession with her own pursuits is very heavy.
03. Living with Le Dong for five years and falling into "sister-brother love"
Then, Jiang Shan was not disappointed in love because of her failed marriage, she still maintained the heart of a child, and met the right person with full expectations.
In 2006, she met Le Dong, who was 9 years her junior.
She experienced "flash marriage and divorce" and then fell into "sister-brother love", which made many viewers marvel.
The goddess is indeed a goddess, and even the "little fresh meat" will be fascinated by her.
In fact, many people are not optimistic about this relationship
In addition to the difference in age and the disparity in identity, Le Dong was still a nobody at that time, but Jiang Shan was already a top stream.
Many people say that Le Dong wants to rely on Jiang Shan to ascend to the throne to get to her, but is this really the case?
She and Ledon met in the TV series "Sad Mother and Child", but also because of filming together and developed a relationship, although there is a gap in age between the two, but love has nothing to do with age, feel right there is nothing to stop their interaction.
Then the two had a close relationship, they lived together for five years, but later they were forced to break up because of jiang shan's daughter's strong opposition.
Whether the real reason is simply because of this is unknown.
The five-year relationship ended in a breakup.
In fact, it is too one-sided to say that Jiang Shan is amorous, and she is sincere about every relationship.
The eight-year marriage with Gao Shuguang, the five-year cohabitation lover with Le Dong, a total of thirteen years of youth, is extremely precious for a woman.
Although in these times she has grown up in wrong love and compromised in being loved.
What she compromised was her daughter's dependence on herself.
She chose the latter in her career and family because she knew that her daughter's growth could not be separated from her company, which was a mother's duty and a mother's loving nature.
She chose to end the curtain at the peak of her career and quietly disappeared on the screen, and the life behind the curtain was the intimate years when she escorted her daughter forward.
She gradually entered the role of mother, happily enjoying the joy of this human firework. But even so, she did not forget her original intention
While enjoying her family life, she still pays close attention to the script, hones her acting skills, and maintains the frequency of exposure of one TV series a year.
Although it is no longer as popular as it was then, because she has experienced the precipitation and tempering of the years, Jiang Shan's acting skills have reached the level of the old drama bone, which is inseparable from her early efforts.
Jiang Shan is like an ivy that spreads positively, never aging, and never giving up. Nor have they lived up to the gifts of time.
04. Searching for half a life, finally finding a place to return
The multitudes looked for him a thousand times, and looked back, but the man was there, and the lights were dimmed.
When Jiang Shan was 52 years old, she finally met the man who was full of his own eyes.
This man is Tian Xiaojie, who has the same experience as her, is a person who has been hurt by love, and has also been full of expectations and longing to be loved.
However, at the beginning, they did not make this relationship public, and many people did not know who captured Jiang Shan's softest heart.
And Tian Xiaojie is also a joy for Jiang Shan, and his heart tells himself that this woman will become the person he loves most for the rest of his life, and he will definitely use all his strength to care for her, and in fact, he has indeed done it.
Before that, there were many people who did not know the name Tian Xiaojie.
He is actually a powerful actor, he and Jiang Shan are alumni, once had a marriage, graduated from the Central Academy of Drama, they fell in love at first sight at a party, maybe this is the fate of the dark.
Tian Xiaojie is also a contracted artist of Guolong Alliance Investment Co., Ltd., and he has starred in many popular works, such as TV series "The Years of Burning Passion", "Public Security Bureau Chief", "Before Dawn", "Chinese-style Relations", "Knife Line in the Snow" and so on.
Tian Xiaojie
In the show business for so many years, he has played countless roles, no matter what role he interprets very groundedly, and there is no sense of violation.
His attitude towards the role is very serious, and he is 100% devoted when acting. It was probably this serious energy that slowly attracted Jiang Shan's attention.
Such a serious man must also be attentive to his feelings.
The age difference between the two is not much, not to mention that Jiang Shan, who is still in her 50s, is really enviable, although both sides are already more than half a hundred years old, but the sweetness of the love between the two people is not lighter than that of young people.
They are also not afraid to show their love on the public platform in a high profile, which is really envious of others.
Perhaps because of the precipitation of the years, Tian Xiaojie knows how to love a person better, Jiang Shan is favored by the fearless, she was spoiled by Tian Xiaojie into a princess who belongs only to him. But Tian Xiaojie was happy to do so, they were as excited as they were back in their first love, so fascinated, so addicted.
In 2020, on December 22, on the day of Jiang Shan's 53rd birthday, Tian Xiaojie deliberately chose to publish Weibo at 9:23 to create a surprise for Jiang Shan, and the meaning of this time is "just love Shan", netizens were eaten a large mouthful of dog food by this wave of operations.
He affectionately called Jiang Shan a "little puppet", and Jiang Shan also responded affectionately to his "treasurer", which shows that the way the two get along is usually quite relaxed and sweet.
Tian Xiaojie understands romance, knows cold and warm, knows sorrow and joy, and Jiang Shan is incomparably sinking in such gentle and meticulous feelings.
Now 54-year-old Jiang Shan threw herself into work, and Tian Xiaojie's love for Jiang Shan was still wrapped in a heavy sense of security, in order to make Jiang Shan work with peace of mind.
Tian Xiaojie took care of her mother meticulously, and also treated Jiang Shan's daughter as her own, and took care of the inside and outside of the family very thoughtfully, so that Jiang Shan could work without worries.
And the daughter is also quite satisfied with this calm and meticulous "father".
The three of them also often travel together, and from the photos, they look like a real family of three, revealing warmth and sweetness.
The right person is the family will gladly accept, and this kind of love that is blessed by the family is undoubtedly the happiest.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced the baptism of years and no longer desire the vigorous love of their youth. All that remains is the dependence and composure of Xiang Yimu, so Tian Xiaojie is probably the destination that Jiang Shan has been pursuing in this life.
Without worries, Jiang Shan began a new round of power.
In the first issue of "Crossover Singer King" in 2017, she returned with the "Dream Water Town" that was popular all over the country!
Jiang Shan, who appeared on the screen again, is still dazzling, and the years seem to have not left any traces on her face.
Perhaps because of the nourishment of love, this song she sang more emotional and emotional, after winning the championship in one fell swoop, Jiang Shan publicly expressed her gratitude to Tian Xiaojie for the first time in front of the camera, she said that Tian Xiaojie was her lover, which made the audience eat a big melon unexpectedly.
Maintaining love can withstand the long years, and people will forget time when doing what they love.
Jiang Shan's original intention is to sing, when she was young, Jiang Shan did not hesitate to refuse to sing for commercial performances for her original intentions, and now Jiang Shan continues to return with her original intention, as always.
She subverted the image of the past, tried to change, accepted a new self, just like her life, emptying history, returning to zero, re-meeting a better self and the right person.
When we meet the right person at the right time, this is not a strong emotion, but a long-term peace of mind, and Jiang Shan is like this to Tian Xiaojie.
Each of us will experience youthful madness, and we have also loved it vigorously in the days of flying.
When the years quietly smooth out our passions and cover up our pain, we will slowly sink down, stop firmly in the most reliable corner, and begin to quietly wait for our hearts.
We all have to believe that there will always be someone in this world who will slowly walk towards you in the sea of people, with the most beautiful love. All you have to do is take good care of yourself before you meet him.
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