For research that determines the future and development of children, some educators believe that children's innate genes play a role of 90%, and some educators believe that the educational environment in which children live plays a 90% role.
These two research results have their own favorable proof, but most parents are more willing to believe the latter, after all, Jackie Chan is not only a wish, many people will make efforts to create a better education for their children with practical actions. On the Internet, there is a 34-year-old female county magistrate, and her resume is even more admirable.
The 34-year-old female doctor of Tsinghua University became a "county magistrate" with a bright resume, which is the star we should chase
This female county magistrate in Hebei, at the beginning everyone thought that she was young and promising, temperamental, capable and elegant, it was difficult to make people think that she was only 34 years old and 34 years old, it was difficult for people to associate her with the position of county chief.
Her name is Zhang Qi, she graduated from Tsinghua University and is also an outstanding doctoral student. During her time in school, Zhang Qi performed very well, and her classmates and teachers liked her very much. Like most schoolmasters, she has a very high talent for learning, loves to learn, and is often eager to help others learn.
When Zhang Qi was young, she accidentally participated in the National Olympic Competition, and her parents, who had no hope for her, found that her daughter's Olympic score was very outstanding, and her learning in mathematics was also unimpeded. Although Zhang Qi's parents are ordinary families, they know the importance of education, and they begin to carefully cultivate their children's learning.
Her parents are not rich businessmen, nor officials, just ordinary workers, they strive to create a better learning environment for her, in this environment, Zhang Qi broke through herself little by little, in each exam to a higher level, and finally graduated from the top school, became an outstanding pillar, this is the star we should chase.
Family education is not trivial and has great significance for students
Many parents believe that children and grandchildren have their own children's well-being, will not pay attention to the child's education problems, in fact, in this era, to give children a relaxed and happy childhood is right, but does not mean that children are not cultivated, should pay more attention to the child's comprehensive ability, in terms of morality, intelligence and physical beauty must be taken into account.
Family education and learning environment have a huge impact on children, although Zhang Qi's family is relatively ordinary, but her parents have long paid attention to the child's natural ability and are also supporting their children's learning.
It is not enough to give children a warm learning environment, a loving family is the biggest need of children. A happy and relaxed learning atmosphere can make children more focused and do not have to have other psychological burdens in learning.
In fact, the child's inner world is more complicated than we think, they will be more sensitive, can feel the changes in the environment, some family disputes, or repressive atmosphere, will affect the child's learning, so the success of a pillar is not how good he is, it can also be said that his family including the family are very good.
How to correctly chicken babies in order to benefit children for life
Today's society has begun to have more and more parents of chicken babies, who strive to create a superior environment for their children, but find that their children have no strengths in their studies and have not made any progress. What should I do in such a situation?
In fact, now children's attention is more distracted, there are too many entertainment projects to attract their attention, so parents must first in the child's learning process, to eliminate the obstacles that affect the child's attention, such as: mobile phones, televisions, computers, etc.
Parents themselves should also lead by example, in the process of tutoring children can not be half-hearted, can not play with mobile phones while educating children, to set an example for children. In the process of educating children, it is necessary to speak patiently and calmly, pay attention to communication methods, and regularly understand the psychological changes of children.
When children are tired of learning, they can take their children to do housework, do some simple physical labor, and then tell their children that learning is important to them, and they must also comprehensively cultivate their children's morality, intellect and physical beauty.
You can't just let your child learn cultural lessons, but also exercise your child's physical ability and aesthetic concepts. Parents are the best teachers for children, and they must give their children the correct three views and let them have the correct cognition of things.
In fact, there are not a few such academic bullies as Tsinghua University, and everyone thinks that the academic bully is wearing glasses and carrying a school bag, and it is difficult to integrate into the social mass group. This is a wrong perception, children with good academic performance will have better thinking skills than most children, and their self-restraint ability is also stronger.
After academic success, often smoothly become the best in society, in their respective fields of brilliance, countless outstanding entrepreneurs and scientists are all academic bullies, this is the star figures in society, they are the positive energy, learning the spirit of learning, is the contemporary young people should pursue.
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