Once, Hua Shao asked Zhou Dongyu, "You should be very sad that your grandfather died, right?" Unexpectedly, Zhou Dongyu said: "I am not sad at all, but very happy, the whole family is happy!" ”
After listening, the audience exclaimed: "How much of a vendetta this is with Grandpa!" ”
In 2010, Zhang Yimou chose the heroine of "The Love of hawthorn tree", and it is said that before Zhou Dongyu, "Zhang Zetian" and Zheng Shuang had been fixed.
Zhang Zetian's family is not short of money, he wants to study and study, and he has no idea of entering the entertainment circle to develop. Zheng Shuang has another 8-year contract. Shuangshuang refused Zhang Yimou's invitation.
Zhang Yimou was anxious to choose the heroine, just at this time, the assistant director sent him a video, in which one, small eyes, small, pure-looking little girl, attracted his eyes. Zhang Yimou patted his thigh: "Isn't this the "first love girl" I am looking for?" ”
After receiving the call from the crew audition, Zhou Dongyu began to dare not go, afraid that he was a liar. It was still the encouragement of his stepfather and mother that he went to see Zhang Yimou.
"The Love of the Hawthorn Tree" has made Zhou Dongyu, and she has become the most influential girl after Zhang Ziyi and Gong Li.
Zhou Dongyu, the reason why she has today's achievements, is not unrelated to her growth experience.
Zhou Dongyu, born in 1992 in an ordinary family in Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, when he was 3 years old, his father had a car accident and died, and his mother could not take care of her grief, so she went out to work and earn money.
Zhou Dongyu's grandparents are a bit patriarchal, and their health is not very good, so her mother sent Zhou Dongyu to her grandmother's house to live.
Grandpa loves Zhou Dongyu very much, the performance of the next generation of relatives, are reflected in the grandfather, there are delicious, grandpa are saved for Zhou Dongyu to eat, Zhou Dongyu likes beautiful clothes, grandpa will take her to the street to buy. Every three to five minutes, I stuff pocket money into the pocket of Zhou Dongyu.
Although Grandpa's love cannot replace the missing father's love, in Zhou Dongyu's personality cultivation, Grandpa's warmth has an indispensable impact!
Zhou Dongyu lived with his grandfather for three years, until he was 6 years old, his mother remarried and left.
Although they did not live together, but Zhou Dongyu still ran to his grandfather's house every three to five, when he was a child, Zhou Dongyu secretly resolved: "After making money in the future, we must be filial to grandpa."
Zhou Dongyu did make money, taking grandpa to travel, eating food, and buying nutritional products that the elderly loved to eat.
Grandpa is getting older and older, his health is getting worse and worse, he can't take care of himself in basic life, his brain is confused, and no one knows him.
Even the water could not be drunk, so the family thought of a way to follow the line and drop the water into grandpa's mouth.
Zhou Dongyu's family is very filial and surrounds the seriously ill grandfather every day, but it also delays the work and hurts the body.
Grandpa, in particular, has no dignity or quality of life at all. Grandpa used to be a very decent person. In the face of the disease, he had no strength to fight back at all, and watched his body, little by little, being consumed. Even the simplest thing to eat has been replaced by a nutrient solution.
Zhou Dongyu looked in his eyes and hurt in his heart, maybe his grandfather leaving this world was a relief for him!
When Grandpa left, he was more than 80 years old, which was a high life expectancy. The family also tried their best to take care of it and didn't leave any regrets!
In an interview, Hua Shao asked: "Grandpa is gone, you should be very sad!" ”
Zhou Dongyu smiled, "I'm not sad, but I'm very happy, and the whole family is happy!" ”
People who have experienced it understand that Zhou Dongyu's happiness is not grandpa's departure, but grandpa's final liberation and no need to suffer anymore!
When necessary, giving up is also a form of love. Especially for some patients with cancer, before dying, it is better to die than to die, such a death is too cruel!
In fact, the relatives are gone, no one is not painful, but there will be a day of separation. The disappearance of the body blocks our fate to be together again, but the memories and warmth left by our relatives are like a beam of light that moves forward, giving us courage and strength.
Before you die, cherish it, if he leaves one day, when he is sent off. Say it well: "Don't go over here, go well!" ”。
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