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"Dear you,
Suddenly, I want to write you a letter,
Write a letter like we've known for a long time,
So, what's the point first?
Let's talk about the you I imagined!
I guess you should be a very warm person, right?
As we age,
Warmth makes my heart move more than gentleness,
You should like to laugh, right?
Will the corners of the mouth slightly up,
Even with the eyes must be very clear,
The eyes are firm and fully focused,
Look at me like this,
Would make me quiet and safe.
Writing this, I can't help but blush a little...
Thinking about one day,
In the morning while you are still asleep,
Make a love breakfast, boil porridge fried eggs,
Squeeze a glass of juice and wait for you to get up and enjoy,
The new day begins with the smell of the kitchen,
Have breakfast with you,
Read the newspaper with you,
Looking forward to a day of work with you...
Live such a peaceful but fulfilling life,
As I imagined,
Love you, my dear you.
Wait for your Dan. ”
This is zhu Dan, who was once a famous host, with the title of "Zhejiang First Sister",
Love letters to your future spouse,
This seems to be a very ordinary daily life between couples,
For Zhu Dan, it is so beautiful and eager,
However, Zhu Dan, who looks strong on the outside,
But with a weak heart,
Zhu Dan lost his father when he was 7 years old,
And my mother in a simple room of 4 square meters,
Until the mother remarried, she realized what fatherly love is,
Zhu Dan, who has always longed for a family, finally met the other half imagined in the letter when he grew up.
But once in a show,
When she said that she was pregnant, her husband made himself a bowl of wontons on Monday.
Moved to tears,
But he was ridiculed by Li Tian, can you not be so humble?
So whether Zhu Dan's marriage is happy or humble now, and what kind of experience does she have?
01
Zhu Dan, born in 1981 in Jinhua City, Zhejiang Province,
Her arrival added a lot of laughter to the family,
As the first child in the family,
Both parents held her in the palm of their hands,
Although the family is average, but never worry about eating and wearing,
Until the year When Zhu Dan was 3 years old,
The father suddenly had tuberculosis,
At this time, Zhu Dan had begun to have a vague memory,
In his impression, his mother had tears in her eyes,
Took her to grandma's house,
Also put down some of their own clothes and food,
Talked to grandma,
He walked up to him and said:
"Little Dan Dan wants to be obedient at Grandma's house, to listen to Grandma's words, and Mom will pick you up again after a while."
After speaking, I turned around and left.
After Zhu Dan saw his mother leaving, he shouted to catch up, but he was held in his arms by his grandmother.
Mom didn't want Zhu Dan to be infected, so she had to leave her at Grandma's house.
Since then, Zhu Dan has not often seen his mother, let alone his father.
The only thing that I remember is that much later,
The mother came to my grandmother's house with a large bag of medicine,
A gaunt face, and a dry tear mark on the face,
Talking to my grandmother about my father's illness, I'm afraid it's going to be over,
When Zhu Dan heard the conversation between his grandmother and his mother outside the house,
Although I don't quite understand what it means, I can vaguely feel that something bad is going to happen.
In these days when my father was sick,
In order to cure my father's illness, my mother used imported medicines.
A man ran from place to place, spent all his family's savings and owed a bunch of debts,
In addition to seeing his father, he also had to maintain the family's expenses.
Relying only on the mother's meager income of 15 yuan a month in the textile factory is just a drop in the bucket,
In addition, on the way to and from work, the mother will often carry a big bag,
Pick up all the waste products such as bottles and cartons that are discarded on the side of the road,
Save up and sell money,
However, Zhu Dan, who was at his grandmother's house, was not so happy.
Watching other people's children have mom and dad to accompany them,
And I only have my grandmother,
Therefore, Zhu Dan would often argue that his grandmother should go to find his father.
But Grandma could only weave various reasons to appease Zhu Dan,
Looking at Zhu Dan, Grandma's heart was also full of bitterness.
Zhu Dan's mother gritted her teeth and insisted, letting her father live for 4 years.
Until zhu Dan was 7 years old, his father left them forever,
After dealing with her father's affairs, her mother came to her grandmother's house and prepared to pick up Zhu Dan.
At this time, Zhu Dan, who was already sensible, saw that there was only his mother, but he did not see his father.
She asked her mother doubtfully,
The mother choked for half a day and said to Zhu Dan: "Your father is gone, and you will live with your mother in the future." ”
Hearing his mother's words, Zhu Dan already understood in his heart,
She didn't say anything, but hugged her mother tightly,
I went home with my mom.
From then on, mother and daughter depended on each other,
Zhu Dan and his mother squeezed together in the 4 square meter house of the textile factory,
During the day, my mother went to work to earn money, and after Zhu Dan returned from school,
Will make a meal in advance and wait for my mother,
In order to save, every time I go back to buy vegetables,
Are shopping around, pick the cheapest to buy,
When I saw a merchant throwing some nearly rotten dishes on the street,
Zhu Dan's mother would pick up some good dishes from it and take them home.
02
The sensible Zhu Dan never let his mother worry about it,
I have been working hard in my studies,
But there is always no escape from poverty and no father,
Zhu Dan, who was bullied by his classmates at school, never told his mother,
A person swallowed her anger and made her more and more inferior,
But the good guy also has a mother who loves herself,
There have been many people who persuaded Zhu Dan's mother to remarry,
There are even relatives who want to adopt Zhu Dan,
But all were rejected by Zhu Dan's mother, who must bring her daughter with her,
Until two years later, when Zhu Dan was 9 years old,
The mother and another honest single father in the factory decided to start a family again.
Zhu Dan's stepfather also has a daughter, only a few months younger than Zhu Dan.
So two single-parent families formed a new family.
Since then, it has become a family of four,
Although the family is still the same poor, but has a complete role,
The stepfather treats Zhu Dan as well as his own daughter,
Let Zhu Dan finally feel the father's love again,
But because Zhu Dan, who has been very sensible since childhood,
The heart has long become inferior and sensitive,
She was afraid that such a day would end one day,
More afraid that if he does not do well enough, then the stepfather will no longer be good to himself, and will not be good to his mother.
Therefore, Zhu Dan lived carefully every day,
Zhu Dan, who has completed his studies, often does housework at home.
Helping the mother and stepfather never makes the stepfather angry,
For this sister who is not related by blood, he is even more loving and protective.
Usually there is good food, will be kept for my sister,
Everything Zhu Dan did, the stepfather also saw in his eyes,
When he saw Zhu Dan who was so sensible, his heart was very unhappy,
Usually go out and play together,
The stepfather sometimes let Zhu Dan ride on his shoulder while his daughter followed behind.
For the stepfather, Zhu Dan was grateful from the bottom of his heart,
I am glad that after my father died, I can still have someone like my father to warm myself.
Give yourself the missing fatherly love,
Therefore, Zhu Dan also felt the love of his father when he was a child.
But due to her own inferiority complex, she always thinks that she is not good enough,
In terms of learning, Zhu Dan has been working very hard,
Zhu Dan, who likes broadcasting, in middle school, because he did not have money to go to the training class to study,
She was at home listening to the radio, watching the host on the TV imitate it over and over again.
Practice your own Mandarin,
Others use ten points of work, and she uses twenty points of work,
In this way, Zhu Dan relied on his determination not to be afraid of suffering and wanted to buy a better life by studying.
After the college entrance examination, I was finally admitted to the Zhejiang Media College of my dreams.
Although Zhu Dan's grades can go to better schools,
But she still applied for the broadcast class of Zhejiang Media College.
Here she can not only learn what she likes,
And it's close to my own home,
Zhu Dan after entering the university,
More can feel the gap between themselves and others,
In life, his living expenses are only 250 yuan per month.
Other people's daily expenses sometimes exceed their own living expenses for a month,
This made Zhu Dan feel even more inferior in his heart,
In order not to let students know their family situation,
In addition to classes, Zhu Dan will go out to do various part-time jobs as long as he has time.
Whether it's the summer heat or the cold wind,
She would go out and hand out flyers, sell merchandise,
In order to earn more living expenses for yourself,
As long as there is a performance, she will apply to be a host.
Once a list, to go to Beijing and the price is not very high,
No classmates are willing to pick up,
Only Zhu Dan did not hesitate to take this order,
A man took a train to Beijing, thousands of miles away,
After completing the hosting, after the end, he got a reward of 900 yuan and returned to Zhejiang by car overnight.
03
In Zhu Dan's heart, there have always been two selves, one is the fragile and soft self,
Never dare to be exposed to others,
The other is a strong, hard-working self, always making others think that they are very strong,
Therefore, during the university period, in order not to ask for living expenses from the family, Zhu Dan,
Often a person endures all kinds of pain, to try to earn money,
Never mention these things to the family,
These difficult experiences have also brought a good side to Zhu Dan,
It is with the experience accumulated in part-time work,
Let Zhu Dan have more strain than others and good practical combat ability,
In the last year of university,
All the students started looking for internships.
Zhu Dan is also frantically submitting resumes,
Finally, after several days, I received a reply from Zhejiang Television,
In this way, Zhu Dan entered the Zhejiang Television Station and became an intern.
For every college student, it is very clear,
The intern is the one who does the most tiring and hard work, with the least salary,
But Zhu Dan didn't care about that.
What she wants most is to be able to stay,
Become a full-time employee,
Therefore, in order to be able to learn better and make yourself more excellent,
Zhu Dan quit all his other part-time jobs,
Immerse yourself in the internship,
And hosted the "Weather" column,
In the year of internship here, Zhu Dan learned a lot,
There's also a big change.
The leaders also looked at Zhu Dan's efforts in their eyes,
In 2003, after Zhu Dan officially graduated,
Zhejiang Satellite TV threw an olive branch to her,
Since then, Zhu Dan has become a regular employee of Zhejiang Television.
Opened her true host path,
She has hosted programs such as "News Evening News", "Inside and Outside the Play", "Too Coke" and so on.
Compared to other hosts who host the show with a serious face,
Zhu Dan's sunny smile and relaxed state,
Let the audience's eyes shine, all remember this girl who loves to laugh,
Since then, Zhu Dan's hosting career has begun to get better and better,
Zhu Dan, who has a stable career, also ushered in the first relationship in his life,
Lin Han, a choreographer working in a building, became good friends with Zhu Dan.
The two later found out that they were still alumni.
Slowly the two people talk more and more,
The relationship between friends has also gradually undergone subtle changes,
It wasn't until two years later that the two broke through this relationship and became lovers.
But due to the busyness of work,
Although working in a building, I can't see you several times a day.
Let Zhu Dan, who has been sensitive and insecure since childhood, become more and more afraid that the two will be separated,
So after the two had been in contact for 6 months, they entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, the two began to be very sweet,
Together will often do housework together, cook,
Whoever comes home first will clean up the house.
At the beginning, the two thought that this kind of life was very beautiful,
It's going to go on forever,
But after marriage, Zhu Dan thought that he could finally relax his heart and busy his work.
Since then, the two have been busy every day, and even sometimes have to travel on business.
Zhu Dan focused almost entirely on his career,
At the same time, let your fame become bigger and bigger,
And Lin Han, as a choreographer, has always been standing still,
The gap between the two is getting bigger and bigger,
Even Lin Han has become the "husband of Zhu Dan" in the mouth of people.
Slowly as a man, Lin Han felt that Zhu Dan was getting farther and farther away from himself,
I can't match Zhu Dan anymore,
Such a strong female and weak relationship caused Lin Han's self-esteem to be hurt for a time.
Two years after their marriage, they hastily ended the marriage.
04
Although Zhu Dan was hit inwardly,
But because I was poor and afraid since I was a child,
I am particularly eager to live a good life,
After regaining my mood,
Since 2007, she and Hua Shao have hosted "I Love to Remember the Lyrics".
Received high ratings,
The TV station has created variety shows for her such as "Love Singing to Win", "The More You Dance, the More Beautiful", "Pepsi Group Sound" and so on.
All of them are presided over by Zhu Dan,
Zhu Dan's host was recognized by the audience and was known as "Zhejiang First Sister".
But when Zhu Dan is busy, the workload of a day is not less than 18 hours,
Sometimes there are many places to go,
Makeup and sleep on the plane are commonplace,
Zhu Dan numbed himself with high-intensity work,
No longer think about feelings, but the heart has always longed to have a dependence,
Until 2010, Zhu Dan met Song Ke in a show, a man who engaged in music.
Song Ke was a full 16 years older than Zhu Dan,
But two people in love, age is never a problem,
What attracts Zhu Dan the most is Song Ke's maturity and steadiness.
After the two came together, they rarely showed their love in a high profile,
But one in Beijing, one in Zhejiang,
Long-distance relationships make it impossible for the two to see each other often.
Until later, after Song Ke wrapped up the whole bar to celebrate Zhu Dan's birthday scene was filmed by the media,
Everyone knows that the two are in love,
But when Zhu Dan was asked about this in the show,
The two have already broken up,
Song Ke hopes that Zhu Dan will come to Beijing to develop,
But Zhu Dan did not want to abandon the jiangshan he had worked so hard to fight,
The two eventually broke up peacefully,
Another emotional failure, so that Zhu Dan began to slowly become more sensitive,
The mental state is also starting to be bad,
Even forgot the word in a show,
Emotional unhappiness, coupled with career blows,
Let Zhu Dan doubt himself for a while, and slowly suffered from depression,
Often I cry at home alone all night, and I don't dare to go out during the day.
Helpless, Zhu Dan chose to resign,
Came to the mango station, thinking of just being an ordinary host,
But Zhu Dan, who came to Mango Terrace not long ago,
And because when reporting the SMS interactive number in the "China's Strongest Voice" program,
Read the number of the old owner Zhejiang Satellite TV,
This serious mistake is said to have cost MangoTai tens of millions,
Since then, Zhu Dan has gradually withdrawn from the hosting industry and begun his acting career.
In 2014, he starred in the film and television drama "Embroidered Spring Knife",
While filming this drama, I finally met the person I wrote in my heart,
Because Zhu Dan is not from a science class, there are often problems in acting.
A clip has been shot a lot of times by myself,
The depressed Zhu Dan hid in a corner and cried,
Just happened to be seen by the actor Monday,
To Zhou Wei's surprise, Zhu Dan, a strong woman on the surface,
It turned out that he would also be vulnerable, and for a moment he had a desire to protect this woman,
Since then, the two have slowly learned about each other.
05
Zhu Dan and Zhou Wei began a hot love,
In 2017, the two ended a four-year relationship.
Stepped into the palace of marriage, became each other's dependence,
And soon after, the first baby of the two was born,
36-year-old Zhu Dan finally felt the warmth of family,
Finally, I stopped working hard for my career.
At this moment, what she wants to do most is what she wrote in her letter,
Surround yourself with your husband and children every day,
Make them breakfast in the morning and watch them eat all the meals they have made,
It will make you feel very fulfilled,
After marriage, Zhu Dan focused on the family,
And Monday Wai is gradually rising in career,
On social platforms, Zhu Dan can often be seen sharing his daily life,
Show love, intimate photos of husband and children,
And in 2020, we ushered in the second baby of the two,
A family of four can be described as a happy and harmonious,
Although we have not seen Monday Wai Xiu En Ai, mentioning his wife Zhu Dan,
Maybe the love of Monday Is silently paid, not so warm,
For Zhu Dan,
A happy family has always been what she longs for,
Nowadays, although some of the couple's actions make others think that Zhu Dan's love is very humble,
But Zhu Dan never thinks so, so what qualifications do others have to judge the happiness standards of others?
Whether you are happy or not, only you know,
In marriage, there is never reciprocity,
There will always be one party who gives more than the other,
Zhu Dan is willing to pay for his marriage,
Then she thinks she's happy.
In terms of feelings, not the parties,
No one can judge the happiness of others' marriages.
As long as you think you are happy and happy, it is the best.
I also hope that Zhu Dan and Zhou Zhouwei's family of four is getting better and better.