In 2002, Tongari's body art photo was released, and the graceful posture and psychedelic lights made Tongari a goddess in people's hearts for a while.
However, her father was furious and had not communicated with her for half a year.
And her husband, shortly after that, chose to divorce.
Tongari, who was frantically pursued by people and was madly insulted, was almost depressed.
But now that I think back to that time, Tongari just smiled and said, "I don't regret it."
In 1976, Tongari was born in Anhui. Although she is still young, many people in the family have begun to look forward to Tongari in adulthood and become a talented person.
Dad is full of hope for this, she hopes that Tongari will become an adult, and she also hopes that Tongari will become a talent.
When he was 9 years old, his father took Tongari to school, but after not going for a few days, the teacher found his father, who thought that Tongari did not study seriously and looked particularly serious.
The teacher looked at it and comforted him, "You don't have to be so nervous, but I feel that Tongari is very talented and suitable for learning gymnastics."
After listening to the teacher's words, my father's hanging heart relaxed.
After returning home, my father and mother discussed it for a while, and felt that according to the teacher's words, tongari would be allowed to learn gymnastics.
Fortunately, the teacher's vision is not wrong, and Tongari has achieved some small achievements on the way to learning gymnastics.
But Tongari still likes to dance, and after a few years, she still embarked on the road of dance, although it was a little hard, but Tongari liked it.
After graduating from school, Tongari went to the Anhui Provincial Television Station, and she instinctively lived in the TV station for decades, but Tongari thought that she was still not qualified, she wanted to further herself, and thought about going to The North Dance again and again.
Practicing dance every day for class has exhausted Tongari physically and mentally, but even if he is, she feels that it is still not enough, she thinks that she is young enough to learn a lot.
Thinking about it, she studied acting specifically, and the study of acting helped Tongari's dance to a certain extent.
Make her performance more vivid and more vivid.
She performs in the song and dance troupe, and in her spare time, she also looks for the crew to shoot scenes, and she doesn't know when the opportunity will return, but she believes that one day.
Her parents would sometimes write to her to keep her from getting anxious, and Tongari looked at the letter, her inner exhaustion swept away by the warmth of home.
At the age of 18, Tongari went to the film studio to play, she did not dress up too much, but became a beautiful landscape.
Her eyebrows, her eyes, and her laughter all made the director Shen Dong, who was not far away, deeply attracted to her, and he wanted to know her, he wanted to know her.
Shen Dong found a friend and met this girl who made him feel angry, Tongari.
After this acquaintance, Shen Dong will intentionally or unintentionally chat with Tongari, although it is a common topic, but it allows Shen Dong to enter Tongari's life little by little.
After a period of contact, Shen Dong confessed to Tong Jiali, and after saying the confession, he stared at the other party tightly, but his heart could not stop playing drums.
"Good", Tongari's clear answer made Shen Dong slowly relax, and his eyes were replaced by joy, not the previous nervousness and uneasiness.
Couples in the hot love period always want to stick together at any time, but the two have their own careers, and Shen Dong bought a pager for Tongari.
When you miss each other, you can press the code 888, and if you want to express your love that should not be said, you can call 777, which means that I love you.
The love between the two people does not have twists and turns, but like flowing water, it is gentle and natural, connecting the lives of two people.
Not long after, the two held a wedding, and life after marriage was no different for the two, and the two people shined in their respective careers.
Sometimes it gets busy and eating becomes a luxury.
Tong Jiali and Shen Dong naturally knew that such a situation would not be less in the future, thought about it, and decided to postpone the opportunity to have children and do a good job in their careers first.
In 2001, a friend found Tongari, the two were chatting, and the friend casually said "go to be a model", but it made Tongari's heart ripple.
But within a few seconds, she rejected the idea on her own, thinking it was too outrageous.
Until a few days later, a person in charge found Tongari and needed to shoot a lingerie advertisement, and Tongari listened to it for half a day before reacting consciously, which was to make herself a model.
When the opportunity comes, then try it.
Tongari followed the shooting scene, the first shooting made her very nervous, but the shooting atmosphere made her slowly relax, the only few staff members are praising her good figure, Tongari was praised for some blushing, the heart appeared Xiao Jiujiu, "Is the figure really so good"?
When the shooting was paused, Tongari saw the photo, and then she whispered, "It turns out that I am really in good shape."
This shooting has brought a lot of confidence to Tongari, and a new path has appeared in her life path, model.
She also told Shen Dong about this, and the latter looked at her happy expression and was naturally happy inside.
The family knows her new path, naturally very supportive, but hope that she will not be too tired at work, and remember to communicate with her husband.
Tongari of course said yes.
In 2002, an institution approached Tongari to shoot body art, and there was no body art in China at that time, but Tongari intuitively told her, "This is art, it is worth a try."
"Not to mention that this is my most dazzling youth, I want to leave her behind, and then slowly recall when I am old." She thought so.
She decided to take the next shoot, she also knew that this matter was very important, and told Shen Dong as soon as she returned home.
Shen Dong thought for half a day or disagreed, he was afraid that it was not a clear shooting, what to do if there was a problem, but Tong Jiali said that these can be guaranteed.
Hearing Tongari's determined tone, Shen Dong knew that he could not stop him, so he simply let Tongari go to shoot.
The filming process was very smooth, and after the shooting, Tongari also returned to her previous small days.
But she heard a news that surprised her, the photo was going to be published! Tongaree picked up her mobile phone and was about to make a call, but before she dialed the number, she remembered that she had already signed the contract.
For several days, Tongari was particularly irritated by this incident, and her friends saw her like this and gave her an idea, "It is better to publish it herself."
Tongari also thought that since it was to be published no matter what, it was better to put the decision in her own hands.
She began to think about which publisher, from the selection and typesetting of photos to the level of binding and design, and she began to search the Internet for comparison.
Even considering the distribution channels and market positioning, most of the publishing houses she did not dare to guarantee were artistic, and commercial distribution was also something she did not want to see.
Choosing to go, Tongari chose human beauty.
After determining the publishing house, she determined how much to publish, and she did not want to publish too much, so she set the number of 10,000 copies.
But what she did not expect was that the number of 10,000 copies was sold out, and the publisher saw this and urgently printed an additional 5,000 copies.
For these moves, Shen Dong was quite unhappy, he thought of so many people buying photo albums, staring at Tongari's body, there was always a different feeling in his heart.
After the release, Tongari also returned home, she originally wanted to mention it to her father and mother, but seeing that her father was not in good health, she was afraid of saying something to let her father be hospitalized again.
Still swallowed the words in the stomach.
But the family still needed to know, and she told her mother, brother, sister-in-law and some other people about the matter.
After saying that, the family was silent for a few seconds, and the mother nodded, which was an understanding of Tongari's behavior, and she did not scold her daughter, but only said that she would support all her behavior.
After the young people in the family listened, they quickly reacted and felt that this was not a big problem.
Seeing the expressions of her family, Tongari's heart stabilized.
After returning from her hometown, Tongari signed a sale, and she did not expect that it was this signing that made her stand on the cusp of the storm.
The whole network is searching for who Tongari is, or for the photos.
Tongari became one of the top searchers.
Immediately after, Tongari was greeted with a flood of insults, and she did not think about why she would provoke others to take pictures.
Even my father knew it.
Father went to a friend's house as a guest, after eating father noticed a stack of newspapers on the side of the table, he habitually picked it up, but found Tongari's name, "Tongari body art photo", and then "nudity" and "sexy" rushed into his eyes.
He looked around, saw that his friend was not nearby, rolled up the newspaper and put it in his pocket.
Then he said hello to his friend and trotted back home, and his friend looked at his anxious back and was very curious.
Back at home, my father quickly called Tongari, "Is it you?"
There were no extra words, but Tongari knew at once what was happening, she had planned to hide from her father for the rest of her life, and she did not expect to be discovered so awkwardly.
The father listened to the opposite side of the soundless, knowing that the daughter was acquiescing, he moved his mouth, trying to say something, but still could not open his mouth, paused for a few seconds, he sighed, and then hung up the phone heavily.
Tongari could believe her father's expression, and for the first time she felt panicked.
At the same time, even Shen Dong was very angry, and he felt particularly uncomfortable watching his wife become the object of discussion among other people.
When he went to work, he could also hear the whispering of his colleagues, until Shen Dongzheng stood in front of them in a bright light, and the sound was briefly stopped.
He didn't understand Tongari, and he was even particularly angry with Tongari.
But Tongari was also very angry, she did not understand why she took pictures of herself, why she attracted insults.
She wanted to communicate with Shen Dong, but to no avail, she always left in a very corrupt way.
Tongari had also thought about calling her father, but the phone call to home was always answered by her mother, who knew that her father did not want to talk to her.
She wanted to go out and act, but the roles she got were mostly sexy settings, which surprised Tongari.
Once an A-list director approached Tongari and wanted to add a nude dancing scene to the film, but Tongari flinched, and she didn't want to get any more salivating over it.
In the end, she lied that she was prone to colds and politely rejected the director.
Tongari was always alone in the house, trying to avoid the sounds coming from all directions, but even so, some sounds would rush into her ears.
She always received information from her elementary school friends, and her elementary school friends were particularly surprised, surprised that Tongari dared to do such an outrageous thing.
She looked at the relationship from her elementary school classmates, but her mood was getting lower and lower, and she did not dare to open the curtains, and if there was no need, she did not have to go out.
Even she did not dare to drink coffee, tea or other drinks, so that she would not be able to sleep and think wildly at night.
One night after another, Tongari thought about what had happened before, and for a second she regretted it, but only for a second.
Tongari stayed at home for half a year, did not go out for half a year, did not take a walk, and did not communicate with her father.
But she was still able to receive all kinds of emails and messages every day, and unlike the initial verbal bombardment, she received more and more messages from women.
It's all messages encouraging Tongari to stand up, and it's not your fault to take pictures.
The friends around her also comforted her with the fa.
My father's friends naturally knew about this and always dragged my father for a walk, and even my family had been persuading.
From Tongari's mother to her eldest brother and sister-in-law, she took turns to persuade every day.
After listening more, the father finally slowly understood Tongari, he knew that his daughter was pursuing art, and the relationship between the two was gradually reconciled.
The relationship with his father has become better, but the relationship with Shen Dong is indeed still awkward.
With the passage of time, and the acceptance of the public has become higher, this matter has gradually lost its original heat.
However, he planted a trick between Shen Dong and Tong Jiali.
Coupled with other miscellaneous things in life, the relationship between the two has entered the purity of the first sight.
In 2008, the two divorced by agreement.
After this life, she would occasionally make some TV series, or dance, and she finally returned to the original blandness.
She attended the show and was asked again what happened at the time, "Have you ever regretted it?"
"There was a moment, but I'm grateful for the experience."
She would try to share some of her life or gossip on her social media accounts, but in recent years, she has become more and more invisible to people.
No more TV series, even the social dynamics have not been updated, but under the birthday dynamics, you can still see some people waiting for Tongari's return.
Wait for her to dance, or wait for her to act.
She can be liked and remembered even when there is no activity.
Not because of the body photo album, but because of the pursuit of art, she was sad and wandering, but finally chose to stand up.
She lives for herself, which is free, even if others don't understand.