It's worth living with someone who understands you.
Confucius once said: "Living with a good person is like entering the room of Zhilan, and not smelling its fragrance for a long time; living with an unkind person, like entering the abalone, for a long time without smelling its smell." ”
Do not underestimate the subtle energy, people are gradually created in this energy.
What kind of person you are with, what kind of person you will become, what kind of life path you have.
1. Walk with excellent people
Du Fu of the Tang Dynasty said: "In the mountain springs the water is clear, and the water out of the mountain springs is turbid."
This means that the spring water is clear in the mountains, but the mountains that drain out of the mountains become turbid.
The environment is harmful to water bodies, and a good natural environment can make the water clean and clear.
A good natural environment is conducive to human development and even changes destiny.
In the journey of life, what kind of state to maintain is usually related to the people around you.
The people around you are very diligent, and you will also follow the efforts;
The people around you have nothing to do, and you will be muddy all day.
Liu Yuanyuan, the champion of super speakers, once shared a story in the book and was impressed.
Liu Yuanyuan met a good friend who graduated from the famous Cultural Media School in Beijing. According to the diploma and experience of a good friend, he can stay in Beijing, choose a good job, and the future development prospects are endless.
However, after his good friend graduated, he left Beijing and returned to his hometown to work as a choreographer in his hometown.
The friend explained: "Where there are few talents, it is easy to emerge, and I would rather be a big brother in a shallow place than a little brother in a place with deep water." I'd rather be a chicken head than a phoenix tail. ”
It wasn't long, and many of my friends felt extreme regret for their previous decisions.
The reason is that good friends gradually find that most of the people around them are conformist, and life is uneventful every day.
Staying under such conditions for a long time, in the long run, the courage and ambition of good friends will be worn away.
On the contrary, good friends like Liu Yuanyuan who stay in Beijing get along with various successful people, develop well, and live a prosperous life.
This is the greatest charm of walking with excellent people.
These successful people, their excellent qualities, self-discipline habits, excellent work ability, will make you imperceptible, deeply inspired, can't help but work hard silently.
Successful people always use time to improve themselves, and you will be embarrassed to waste time;
Successful people try their best to learn and train super skills through various channels, and you will also rub your fists;
Successful people have good self-discipline habits, and you can't help but quit being lazy and change yourself...
There is a saying that is true: if you want to fly like a goshawk, you can't be with a big goose and want to walk with a flock of eagles.
Being with successful people will not only change your growth trajectory, but also affect the success or failure of your life path.
What kind of person you want to be, you have to meet what kind of good friends you want to make, and what kind of social circle you want to integrate into.
Only by walking with successful people can we go further and have the desired path in life.
The biggest shortcut to success is to grow with good people.
2. Work with reliable people
As the saying goes, "Success is about chatting with smart people, but working with reliable people."
With reliable people, you can feel stable and at ease; with unreliable people, you will always feel uneasy and restless.
In the TV series "Ordinary Glory", the bad influence of getting along with unreliable people is profoundly explained.
Wu Kezhi is a market analyst at a financial investment company, and in a transaction, Wu Kezhi handed over the information needed for the work to his friend Xu Taiping according to the steps.
In the process of submitting the leading cadres for approval, Xu Taiping omitted the supplementary contract agreement due to carelessness and carelessness.
As a result, it was discovered by leading cadres and became popular on the spot.
Unexpectedly, Xu Taiping not only did not admit his mistake, but also tried to push the obligation to the intern.
The straightforward Wu Kezhi does justice for the trainees, exposing Xu Taiping's brazen personal behavior, and then the two have a strong quarrel.
The more the two quarreled, the more fierce xu Taiping gradually poured dirty water, claiming that Wu Ke had missed the contract supplement to the documentation for him at the beginning.
As a result, Xu Taiping was careless in his work, and Wu Kezhi was dragged into the water and blamed.
This is the end of getting along with unreliable people.
Once something goes wrong, you have to bear not only grievances, but also pay the price for the other party's faults.
Only by getting along with reliable people can you take fewer detours and be less wronged.
A reliable person does not depend on his hero throne exam results, but on his ability to abide by his duties, to do everything he confesses, not to drop the chain, not to pull others.
A friend once told me about such a small thing.
Once, while handing over a new project to a colleague, an oversight was found at a key point.
Because she had prepared things in advance, she quickly called her friend and told him what to do.
The colleague checked the problem before, ten minutes up and down, sent the changed document back, the change was almost perfect.
Although it is only a small thing that is not worth mentioning, the friend does not delay, does not shirk responsibility, or makes her feel deeply moved.
There is a saying on the Internet that is right: reliable people, they have an account of everything, everything has landed, and everything has an echo.
A person's most outstanding ability to work is to ensure that the things in his hands are reassuring.
The more I experienced it, the more I felt that it was good luck to get along with reliable people.
The road under your feet, the gully is thousands, and things will be more reliable when you get along with reliable people.
3) Get along with people who care about you.
In a person's life, you will meet thousands of people, but the happiest thing that is bigger will meet a person who cares about you.
He knows your experiences and experiences; he knows the silence behind your overwhelmedness; he knows your loneliness in the hustle and bustle.
At the age of thirty-five, Hawthorne, the creator of The Scarlet Letter, entered a low point in his life.
Laid-off at home, the family's large and small expenses are all dependent on the wife's small salary.
Hawthorne wanted to stick to his creative ideals, but after seeing his wife busy, he couldn't bear it.
His wife saw through his troubles and comforted him, saying:
I've always believed that you can, no doubt, be a writer in the true sense of the word, have hands and feet, and take care of both of us.
Under the comfort and encouragement of his lover, Hawthorne did not give up the creation of his beloved, but silently insisted on it for many years.
It was not until the publication of "The Red Letter" that it was widely praised by five stars and once became famous, and Hawthorne finally had the opportunity to influence.
Speaking of the person I want to be grateful for the most, Hawthorne said with emotion, grateful, let me meet my wife who understands me.
Without the application of a wife, perhaps Hawthorne has given up on creation and finally has to spend this life inaction.
Writer Rikas said: The best in the world is to have a sharp mind. It's not that someone knows your voice, it's that someone knows you're overwhelmed.
People who really care about you must figure out what you really want in your heart, and will not give up even in the trough period.
People who really care about you, no matter what decision you make, will stand silently behind you.
Writer Liao Yimei said: In this life, people encounter love and encounter sex, which is not rare, and what is strange is to encounter mastery.
Your humor, people who care about you can naturally understand;
People who care about you have a deep understanding;
People who care about you are good at sharing your happiness.
Having someone who really cares about you is far better than having someone who really loves you.
Life is really hard, live with people who care about you, live up to your heart, live up to your youth.
As the saying goes: no one can live alone in the sea like a desert island. Each person is like a piece of sand, combined into a whole piece of land.
In the love songs of the world, everyone will inevitably coexist with all kinds of people.
The most important and difficult thing is to choose what kind of person to be with.
The road, to walk with successful people, in order to be long-lasting;
Things must be done with reliable people in order to be safe;
It's worth living with people who care about you.
The rest of your life is not long, may you stick to your heart, walk with the right person, and live your life as you like.
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