What is your first reaction when your child talks back?
Annoyed into anger, hate iron not steel, blushing with thick neck?
There is a video of a father and son talking on the Internet,
Father's reaction lit up.
A father guides his child to communicate with his brain,
Make it clear who is responsible.
The tone is very gentle,
What is even more rare is that the sentences are reasonable.
The eldest son throws "tricks":
I think it's mommy that's wrong with that.
The little eyes looked at his brother and motioned for him to help.
The younger son takes the "trick":
"Yeah, I think mom is wrong!"
Dad sees the tricks:
Homework is your business, not your mother's business, so why blame others?
Are you a man and can't do your own thing well?
It was useless to throw the pot, and the eldest son began to pick on his mother's fault again:
But her tone was very bad.
Younger son help:
Yeah, some of the words are hurtful.
Dad then dismantled the trick:
You don't have to do your own thing well,
Things have causes and consequences.
And girls are a little more emotional.
You get things done, why is she talking about you?
In the end, the two children were convinced and obediently apologized and confessed their mistakes.
This video circle of friends turned crazy, and someone clapped their hands and said it was fast:
The father's communication style was fantastic and quietly solved the problem!
Others praised:
The child speaks logically and is very assertive, and the parents teach it really well!
Saying goes:
Not a family, not a door.
Fathers are good at communication, and children are more advanced even if they resist.
A university of Virginia study proves that:
Children who often "scare" their parents at home,
Schools are more at ease when dealing with communication disagreements.
If parents can understand more about parent-child psychology, they will find:
The child's backlash is not necessarily wrong.
Timely handling can improve children's communication skills;
Proper handling can also bring positive effects to parent-child relationship and children's education.
