On August 9, 2021, actor Yu Yuexian suffered a car accident in Inner Mongolia and eventually died of his injuries at the age of 50.
Because the incident happened suddenly, when the bad news came, Zhang Xuesong, her husband who had been with her for many years, once had an emotional breakdown, and because her mother was old, the family chose not to tell the matter for the time being.
Among the relatives, the most grief-stricken is her brother Yu Yingjie, who cried several times into tears after learning of her sister's death.
It is understood that Yu Yuexian has been married to her husband for many years and has not had children because she has to take care of her younger brother who suffers from diseases.
In order to treat his brother's illness, Yu Yuexian gave everything he had and undertook all the medical expenses.
Slowly, Yu Yuexian had passed the age of childbearing, and had no choice but to live a Dink life with her husband.
In this regard, after the death of his sister, Yu Yingjie once cried and shouted, Sister, you became Dink for me, and the tone revealed grief and guilt.
In the eyes of the people around him, Yu Yuexian has a gentle personality, is warm and cheerful, and is more attentive to his family and spares no effort to pay. Her departure has left too many people deeply saddened.
Born in 1971 in Chifeng City, Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region, Yu Yuexian was a family of traditional and conservative ideologies and a concept of emphasizing males over daughters, so she was not welcomed since birth, and her father once wanted to give him away.
Fortunately, after welcoming three girls, the parents finally got what they wanted and ushered in a baby boy who could continue the incense.
Yu Yingjie's birth immersed the family in joy. Unfortunately, when Yu Yingjie was eight years old, he contracted a strange disease, his spine began to bend, and at first he could not find the cause when he went to the hospital to consult a doctor, but because his condition has been deteriorating, the pain suffered by Yingjie has been doubling day by day.
As time went on, his spine curved more and more, and his body shook like an old man.
In fact, at the age of 18, Yu Yingjie's spine had bent to 174 degrees, so that it was difficult to take care of himself in normal life, and his family took him around to seek medical treatment, and finally learned that he was suffering from spinal deformity.
Because of the deterioration of his condition, Yu Yingjie gradually lost his basic mobility, could not breathe after walking a few steps, and had difficulty falling asleep at night.
Deformed and twisted spine so that he can not lie flat like ordinary people, long-term backlog caused by internal organs are under load, the doctor also told the family, if not control the development of the disease, then the future Yu Yingjie will be paraplegic, but it will cost a huge amount of money to receive treatment.
At this time, Yu Yuexian, who was an older sister, resolutely stood up and made up her mind to take her brother to find a good doctor so that his brother could recover his health.
Yu Yuexian was born beautiful since childhood, not only beautiful in appearance, but also good at singing and dancing, because she loves literature and art, her dream from childhood is to become an actress, but she was ridiculed by her parents.
To this end, she could only study in a step-by-step manner, and after graduating from secondary school, in order to reduce the burden on her family, she devoted herself to social work and became a teacher in the local area.
It's just that Yu Yuexian, who has a tough personality, is unwilling to give up his dream of becoming an actor.
After learning of Yu Yuexian's intentions, her unit did not support her to be an actor, and also punished her, transferring her from her post to the school to see the gate.
At that time, Yu Yuexian took a meager income, and went home on weekdays to help her parents take care of housework, living so hard, but she never conceded defeat, while working hard to live, while secretly signing herself up for a training cram class.
At that time, Yu Yuexian was busy every day, going to the cram school in the morning, returning to the unit in the afternoon to look at the gate, and insisting on evening self-study in the evening.
After eighty-two days of unremitting efforts, she finally got the reward and got the acceptance letter of the Central Academy of Drama.
Although her appearance is outstanding, she has always lacked opportunities, and most of the works she took over after graduation did not make a splash.
As we all know, Yu Yuexian's cousin Ma Lijuan is the wife of the comedy master Zhao Benshan, with Zhao Benshan's prestige in the circle, Yu Yuexian has the opportunity to access more resources, but Zhao Benshan was not optimistic about yu Yuexian at first, so he has not helped in the career field.
Until a few years later, Zhao Benshan and his brother-in-law Zhang Xuesong watched the drama starring Yu Yuexian in Beijing, and the left and right did not wait for Yu Yuexian to appear, so he asked the brother-in-law next to him, Zhang Xuesong would smile and point to an actress on the stage who was dressed sloppily as a beggar, claiming that this was Yu Yuexian himself.
Zhao Benshan was surprised by this, and also saw the ability and potential of Yu Yuexian, and after thinking about it, he decided to help her and invited her to his own company, Benshan Media.
The reason why Yu Yuexian became famous in the later period also benefited from the rural love series directed by Zhao Benshan, because of her ability, Zhao Benshan and let her play the role of Xie Dazu, but this role was extremely challenging for Yuexian, and at first she refused the invitation because she had no bottom in her heart
After finally accepting to play this role, Yu Yuexian made sufficient preparations, began to carve and study this role, in order to better grasp the essence of the character, but also specially came to the countryside to experience life, eat and live with local sisters, and also added 20 pounds to the role image.
In order to meet xie dazu's human design, Yu Yuexian, who only has a shoe size of 37, can only stuff cotton into her shoes, so she insisted on adapting for several months before learning to walk normally and freely.
Yu Yuexian undoubtedly succeeded in playing this role. In fact, from the character of Xie Dazu, we can vaguely see the shadow of Yu Yuexian himself, who also dares to love and dare to hate, independent and self-reliant, enthusiastic and kind, and never admits his fate in the face of tribulations.
After becoming famous, Yu Yuexian saved up his salary and used it as his brother's medical expenses. In a previous interview, she revealed that even after work, she was reluctant to spend money on a taxi and wanted to try her best to save money to see her brother.
I had seen two students laugh at their younger brother with limited mobility, and the younger brother had heard about it in the presence. In the face of the ridicule of others, he was silent, but gently turned his body around.
Her brother's behavior was like a sharp knife, piercing into Yu Yuexian's heart, and in order to treat her brother, she even spent money to renovate the house.
In the face of economic crisis, she desperately filmed, and even proposed to her husband that we should not have children for the sake of her brother's future?
Under the unremitting efforts, Yu Yuexian and her husband Zhang Xuesong found a well-known spine surgery expert, under the careful study of experts, Xia Yingjie underwent corrective surgery, and the final operation went very smoothly, Li Yingjie was also rejuvenated, able to live with normal people, and then successfully married and had children, and lived an ideal life.
In 2019, Li Yingjie and his sister published the book "Love and Love Let's Go Forward", which tells the deep sister-brother relationship that moves all readers.
As screenwriter Shi Hang once commented, in this book we can feel the sincerity of Yu Yuexian, before recording the rural stage, Yu Yuexian mentioned that her family was once out of control, when she said that she would send her mother to the end of the pension, without regrets, she would also take her mother around and lead her to eat eight parties, which was also the original intention of her self-made column "Bigfoot Walking In All Directions".
The early death of his father in junior high school has always been a great regret in Yu Yuexian's heart, in fact, when his father was alive, he had already seen his duty as a child and did his best to provide his father with the best living conditions.
At that time, her father suffered from pulmonary fibrosis, and after consulting with her husband, she decided to let her father go to Sanya to live in a better environment, so she specially purchased a property for this purpose.
In the later period, Yu Yuexian's father's condition deteriorated, the old man's biggest wish is to return to his hometown before his death, in order to realize the old man's wish, Yu Yuexian and his relatives and friends jointly planned the action, divided into several people and horses to cooperate with the work, the father from Sanya first sent to Beijing, and then from Beijing to send the old man back to Chifeng's hometown, and finally the father was able to return to the roots of the leaves, and left without regrets.
In addition, Yu Yuexian is a veritable good person in the circle, in the eyes of her friends around her, she is enthusiastic and righteous, and she is obligated to agree to her friends' requests.
After becoming famous, she was also hired by her hometown as a tourism ambassador, for which she often participated in the cultural promotion of her hometown free of charge, and before that, in her own record of the Bigfoot Walking Fours column, she would also carefully help farmers around the world to promote agricultural products, until a few days before her death, she was still promoting public welfare for everyone.
In 2020, Yu Yuexian and her husband Zhang Xuesong jointly directed a public welfare film "My Colorless World of Teenagers under the Sun" to take children with visual impairments as the subject, eager to attract the attention of the outside world through this work.
Seeing that the family's life was gradually getting better, an accident made Yu Yuexian's life come to an abrupt end. Si people have passed away, the sound is eternal, I believe that for all those who like and love it, Yu Yuexian will always be remembered by everyone, and I hope that Xie Dazu in the other world can live freely, have peace and happiness.