The country of thought for college students
I like a clip from the movie "Big Fish and Begonias", about the interpretation of "regret".
The line goes like this: I tell you what is the saddest thing, you meet a person, you make a mistake, you want to make up for it and want to pay it off, and finally you find that you are powerless to go back to heaven, and the sins you have committed can never be repaired.
The best thing in this world is to arrive as scheduled. The saddest thing is that the man is gone, and you can't think of it a million times.
You just walk together for a while, and then part at some fork in the road in your life, drifting apart, even further away than before.
Of course, you will also have special regrets, you have also thought about it, take the initiative to contact each other. But you all know that not disturbing is the best blessing for each other. If you don't come, I'll be fine."
Since then, the mountains and rivers have not met, and the old people are not asked whether they are long or short.
01//
"The breeze is like a dream, and the birds sweep across the sky,
The child on the ground was missing another child. ”
That August is the season when the fruits are ripe, and it is also the season when you are separated from your classmates. In the face of the arrival of that day, I was speechless for a moment, because I saw the sunny senior year of high school in the past.
Lingling is my most loyal escort on the road of the college entrance examination, and for her, my meaning to her is also like this. In countless days of fighting, I looked at the two shadows projected on the ground by the two of us, so stubborn that my bitter tears were timid.
Lingling is a girl who is not good at talking.
She was used to walking to my left and walking slowly on the road, when her mind would be as simple as the sky. She would obsessively but ask me in a casual tone, "Will you remember me for the rest of your life?" ”
I peeked at her forgetting to hide the expression, her face full of anticipation. At that time, she was preparing to go to college far from home and far away from me.
I nodded lightly and said, "Even if you forget me, I will always remember you." ”
It was my words that stained Sunset xia and her face red, and in a red light I secretly realized that my soon separation should be a happy pause.
02//
"But children are not alone,
It's just a remembrance of the past. ”
Things did exactly as we thought, Lingling went to college far away from home, and I chose to study in a city closer to home. College time is colorful, new classmates, friends, clubs... The new things in a foreign land make us dizzy, and I have also thought of Lingling in the dead of night, and I miss the scene when we were together without saying anything.
But with the thoughts, it is a habit.
Get used to the days of class with your roommates, get used to the fried rice in the school cafeteria, get used to the time of shopping with friends on weekends, get used to every time without Lingling.
Winter vacation and summer vacation home and LingLing also made several appointments, but with the different circles of contact between the two people, they knew less and less about each other, and gradually, they could not speak.
Sometimes I think about it and say to Lingling in my memory, "Will you remember me for the rest of my life?" ”
In her memory, she just laughed, not knowing how she would answer. This blankness, like a terrible busy tone, devoured what little I had left to wait.
I don't know if there is such a person in your heart, you have met, in the vast sea of people firmly held hands.
You think it's the right place to meet the right person. But later I believed that the fate between people is delicate, and no one can accompany anyone forever.
03//
"The difference that day was sudden,
I didn't have time to say goodbye to you. ”
My friend Xiaoya shared a story with me. She once thought that she would never believe in love again in this life, but she met Mr. Du in her life and made him an exception in her life.
Xiao Ya cold is Mr. Du carefully take care of her, Xiao Ya hungry he can take her to dinner without saying a word, Mr. Du gave Xiao Ya a full sense of security, he has a self-motivated heart, promised Xiao Ya things can be said to do, can tolerate Xiao Ya's bad temper, no matter where to go without Xiao Ya to worry, rest assured to follow him on the line, not with the childish children, their love is not to sleep early and drink more water.
Xiao Ya once thought that she was the happiest girl in the world, and thought that she would always be happy.
In the face of the graduation season, Mr. Du decided to take Xiao Ya to the south, Xiao Ya, who has been living in the north, does not want to be too far away from home, and xiao Ya has a daughter in the family, and her parents naturally do not agree with Xiao Ya to go to the south to accompany Mr. Du to break in.
It is in the eyes of Xiao Ya and friends that such a boy is close to perfection, and when faced with such a problem as graduation, he resolutely chose to give up Xiao Ya and go to the south alone.
The two men broke up in displeasure.
After calming down, Xiao Yacai suddenly regretted that he had not said goodbye to Mr. Du well.
04//
"Even if you forget me
I will always remember you. ”
Meet some people and say goodbye to them. There is no way to separate, I know better than anyone that that person can't come back, but why did you let him go in the first place?
You can't tell why, who knows, there are many things in this world that don't have a reason, such as the color of the sky and the temperature of the sea, such as meeting him in the crowd.
Some people may be destined to be only accompanied by a journey, and some stories are destined to have no ending. Life is a journey without looking back, and you have to start to understand that some people miss it and won't come back.
Some emotions are not able to survive the impermanence of the world, and many times, we are goodbye and too late to wave.
Love, friendship, affection, all this is the case.
The two people have been separated here, and the future road can only be walked by themselves.
Those who have loved in your life will teach you something more or less, some people have taught you to love, some people have taught you to grow, some people have taught you to learn to cherish, and some people appear to teach you regret and separation.
Is there a person whose departure makes you unforgettable?
What does his departure tell you?
Come and share it with Xiaobian!
Author | Guo Ruiqi Edited by | Zhao Jiayu
Review and issue | Wang Longlong
This article is the original of China Youth Network Education (ID: zqwjypd).
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