@Fiore Huahua (screen name) is a chinese style beauty blogger with millions of followers, and it is her job to regularly update short makeup videos.
But before the recent video,
She would always hesitate,
"Will someone else say I rub my own heat?"
On August 18, Hua Hua forwarded a promotional copy of the script killing activity, and some people commented that "red, the purpose has been achieved." She had to come forward to explain that this was a cooperation that was decided in July, and there was no profit because of the "hotel incident".
The so-called "hotel incident" is a nightmare for Hua hua ↓
On July 30, she stayed at the All Seasons Hotel yanggao South Road in Sanlin Town, Pudong New Area, Shanghai, and at 3 a.m. on the 31st, a man broke into her room naked. She shouted out in fright, the naked man exited the room, and she subsequently called the police.
On August 5, she posted a video on her short video account and Weibo account to tell the story of the encounter. In the video footage, Hua Huasu appeared in the camera, and in the emotional excitement, she scattered her hair to wipe away tears. She "Ait" went to the official accounts of China Lodging club and the All Seasons Hotel and asked for an explanation.
The speed of the video spread far faster than she could imagine, and only two hours after its release, it was on the hot search list, and hotel safety became a hot topic of discussion. The next day, the official Weibo of the All Seasons Hotel issued an apology statement, promising to pay more attention to the safety and security of the hotel in the future.
On August 9, Hua Hua once again claimed that she would file a lawsuit against the man involved and claim 1 yuan from the all-season hotel, hoping that the hotel would announce a follow-up rectification plan.
As a victim of the incident, in the comment area of Huahua's social media account, you often see her questioning, "Why don't you lock the door?" "The hype is for the sake of compensation", and some people have humiliated her over and over again.
In the exposure video released by Hua Hua, someone ridiculed her appearance.
The irony of her appearance, Hua Hua seems helpless and even self-teasing, "I really don't look good" "Su Yan can be ugly enough to scare you out, then I really want to thank Su Yan for removing makeup to save my life." ”
After the second release of the video, Hua Hua and psychological experts and lawyers made a live connection, the live broadcast of the beauty blogger Hua Hua did not wear makeup, at the end of the connection, she repeated twice, "Whether I am beautiful or ugly, can not be a reason to be hurt." ”
The heat of the incident has been decreasing, but the impact of that intrusion on Huahua continues.
Our conversation began at 1:30 a.m., and she had just finished what she was doing, still sleepless, ready to continue working until dawn.
After the incident, Hua Hua always had difficulty falling asleep, often not falling asleep until dawn, and waking up two or three hours later. As a blogger, she used to be at home only a few days a month, and the rest of the time she spent frequent business trips and hotels. Now, she pushed off all offline activities in August, "In a short period of time, I will not travel again and stay in hotels." ”
The following is the description of the flowers:
A night of horror
The nature of my job means that I may only be at home a few days a month, and most of the time I am out of town.
In the past, when I attended events, I would bring an assistant. Before participating in ChinaJoy this time, the assistant returned to her hometown in Jiangsu, originally we were going to come to Shanghai separately, but she couldn't come because of the epidemic. So in the early morning of July 30, I was the only one who checked into room 1003 of the All Seasons Hotel on Yanggao South Road.
At ChinaJoy, my main job is shooting videos and live streams. After the offline activities on the 30th, I returned to the hotel at 10 o'clock in the evening and made up a video, after which I went out to eat with the other staff until I returned at 1 a.m. on the 31st.
At 3:09 a.m., I was half-leaning on the bed to message a client when a naked man with a pair of red panties in his hand suddenly appeared at the end of my bed, trying to get close to me, with a "that" smile on his face.
Don't say he's not wearing clothes, even if he shows up in my room in the middle of the night, I'm going to be scared silly.
I hugged a pillow and raised my voice to ask him: Are you crazy? What do you do? He actually said, "What's the outfit, isn't it just to let people in and play with the door open?" ”
Visually he was between 1.84 and 1.87 meters tall, and he was fat, and I had to ensure my own safety, so I could only continue to shout at him, his voice was very high, he was probably scared, and then exited my room.
At that moment, I felt like I was going to die. When he went out, I quickly locked the door and called the hotel front desk, still clinging to the pillow when I called.
At 3:15 a.m., I went downstairs to the front desk and asked her to help me call the police and retrieve the surveillance. While waiting for the front desk to react, I went upstairs again and woke up a friend who was out of the room to accompany me.
Almost 15 minutes later, I asked when the police would arrive, and the front desk staff said she didn't call the police, and I called the police myself. In the process of taking us to see the surveillance with the police, the hotel manager suddenly said that the police can see the surveillance, we can't.
I had an argument with the manager, and as a party, didn't I need to identify him? And we look at the monitoring of public places, and do not involve customer privacy, the police also said that it is possible, the manager agreed to let us see.
I was stunned to see the surveillance video. Surveillance showed that from 2:21 a.m., this person tried to open the door in a room on the 7th floor, which lasted for more than 40 minutes, and the hotel's front desk and security did not respond at all.
He had already been complained once by a 7th floor guest, and the hotel asked the waiter and security to send him back to the room, waiting at the door for two minutes, the man did not come out again, they went back.
Surveillance showed he entered my room at 3:07. From my bed to the door there was a 1.5-meter blind spot of vision, and I didn't find him for two minutes before he appeared at the end of the bed.
At 5 a.m., the police took the man who had broken into my room from the hotel.
The day after Huahua released the video, the topic was on the hot search.
Close the door
At about 9 a.m. on July 31, I went to the police station to get a receipt for the case and met the man's family. His wife and mother begged me not to expose him, and his father-in-law pulled my friend and asked him to persuade me, saying that after all, it had not caused any substantial harm and that he was going to give me 50,000 yuan privately.
I said no way, no way to be private.
Many netizens are questioning me whether it is to take money, to be honest, that stage should be the time when I can take the most money. But for me, even if I only took a penny, I would not be able to hold him accountable in the later stage, and the cost of his crime was very low. What I am asking for must be legal and moral, to hold him accountable.
I asked his wife, if your sister or daughter had encountered this, would you forgive each other? I don't believe a man would reflect on himself when the cost of making a mistake is so low. If he didn't pay the price, would he still do such a thing in the future?
That afternoon, the hotel manager came to my room with a plate of fruit to apologize. I asked him, what is your solution? His response was to wait for the results of the police's handling. At 6 p.m., I got the administrative punishment decision letter, and the man was administratively detained for 5 days.
After returning from the police station, I withdrew from the room, and two friends accompanied me to find a new hotel 10 kilometers from the hotel.
After the accident, my trip to ChinaJoy was stopped, but there are still many things to deal with, the work is not that you don't do it, you need to give someone an explanation, I left Shanghai by high-speed rail on the evening of August 3, and returned to Xi'an in the early morning of the 4th.
By the 5th, I thought the man was going to end his detention and he was coming out, so I first sent a video similar to a declaration of war. In the evening, I posted a 6-minute video of the first statement.
The video content was filmed in the early morning of August 1, the day after the incident, after being frightened, I had not slept for a day or two nights, and my nerves were extremely tense, so the mood in the video was not stable, and I collapsed when I went to tell this story. But later, apart from some questioning, I was calm most of the time.
Why didn't you close the door? This is the most asked question I've been asked since the video was sent.
I went back to the hotel at 1 a.m. that day, and I had to go out to work at 7 a.m., so I could only rest for five or six hours in between, and when I got back to my room, I threw the door shut and went to work on other things. I clearly remember locking the door at that time, from my point of view, the door is closed, but maybe the hotel door is not very responsive.
I don't know if you have ever encountered a very busy and tired situation, in this case, I thought the door was closed, so I did not do a second check. And in the room entrance, there were two of my suitcases, a makeup suitcase, and there was really nowhere to get off my feet.
The claim for 1 yuan was not received
On August 8th, Ms. Zuo, the operation director of the all-season hotel, came to communicate with me. She told me that because the surveillance footage was fast-forwarding, something was missing: The man had been sent back to the room three times by the waiter, but came out a fourth time to try to knock on someone else's door until he finally entered my room.
I see many netizens questioning, is this person drunk? Are you really drunk and will try to get into someone else's room again and again when you are sent back?
I have proposed to the All Seasons Hotel to retrieve surveillance video, and I have also consulted with lawyers, and in the case of a major threat to the safety of person and property, I have the right to propose to the hotel the right to retrieve surveillance video from public places such as corridors and halls. Ms. Zuo said that this part of the return to communicate and discuss to give me a reply, but when I contacted her a few days ago, I did not get a reply.
If I get the monitoring of the hotel, I will file a formal lawsuit against this person, and if I can't get the hotel monitoring, I will also file a formal lawsuit to retrieve the monitoring records.
In my communication with the director of operations, I also made some other demands, including the hope that the hotel would re-issue a formal apology statement with the official seal of the hotel, adjust the content of the unofficial regulations cited in the statement and some deliberate text guidance, and open the comment area after the release. Regarding the opening of the comment area and the reprinting of the apology statement, Ms. Zuo said that she needed to go back to communicate.
On August 9th, I made another video of our communication and sent it out, which was a follow-up.
During this time, I received thousands of private messages and saw a large number of similar experiences, including hotels, homestays, apartments, and even their own homes, some of which were directly swiped by strangers with room cards, some of which were damaged by door locks, and some of whom lived alone in their homes, and even had other people in their homes, and the special situations encountered in other scenes.
Before posting the video, I thought that some people might encounter more serious situations than I did, but imagining and actually seeing those words that describe them are two concepts. Seeing these experiences, especially from the standpoint that I have encountered similar incidents, makes me even more terrified.
Many people have encountered similar situations and have not called the police or spoken out in time, and they want to seek some help from me. More people want to recount their experiences and let everyone know the seriousness of this matter.
I claimed $1 from the full season, and this symbolic compensation was not given to me. I can do as much as I can, but my personal abilities are very limited, and I really can't do more.
It is hoped that the all-season hotel Huazhu Club can provide more effective help to customers whose safety is endangered, not only Huazhu Club, but also the same type of enterprises can really put the personal safety of passengers in mind, not just reflected in the text.
Don't focus on me personally
There are many people in my comments who teach girls to go out, they must close the door, how to protect themselves. We should pay attention to protecting ourselves, but I think it is more important to tell those who hurt us that they must pay for their actions.
It was my misfortune to be intruded into my room in the middle of the night by this man. Someone else may have just passed this matter, or he may have won it, but when he met me, he was unlucky. Regarding the intruder, I will ask him to apologize publicly through the channel of litigation.
The last time I was connected live, I originally wanted to put on makeup, and then remove makeup directly in the camera, and finally I chose to appear in the camera. I don't mind people saying I'm ugly, if I'm good-looking, I'm going to be a face value blogger. Becoming a beauty blogger is to become good-looking through makeup, but also to convey the idea that you can change your state through makeup.
As a Chinese style beauty blogger, Hua Hua often participates in some offline activities.
Those attacks and sarcasm about my appearance, then all I can say is that removing makeup saves my life. Before posting the first video, a friend also gave me advice, saying that I appeared in my current state, afraid that others would attack my appearance. What I hope I can represent is the attitude of most girls when they encounter this kind of thing, and I don't believe that I am in the mood to wear makeup when I encounter this kind of thing. What if I put on makeup and what if I don't? Please remember that whether you are beautiful or ugly, no one else has a reason to hurt you, and it is their fault that you hurt.
My Douyin originally had more than a million fans, and I didn't have many fans because of this matter, and there was no so-called hype. I used to be on the hot search because of my makeup technology, and this time I was on the hot search twice because of the hotel. I never thought that people would know me because of this kind of thing, who wants to be noticed by everyone for this kind of destruction?
I've been saying, please don't pay attention to me, I'm not an important person, paying attention to the event itself is enough.
If someone is unfortunate enough to encounter the same thing as me, I suggest considering two points, the first is the girl's own weakness, there is a gap between male and female physical strength, do not provoke each other to the hand. Second, I raised my voice because I knew that the floor was full of people and staff who attended the same event.
There was a counselor who participated in the last live connection, and we also had some communication after that, but we always have to self-regulate, and the help of others to you is always limited.
Before I left Shanghai, my total sleep added up to just three or four hours, and I barely closed my eyes for a few days. In the past, although my schedule was irregular, but I could sleep at least seven or eight hours a day, now there are only 2 hours, and I stay up until I am sleepy, generally until eight or nine o'clock in the morning, if I fall asleep at night, I will wake up at more than 1 a.m.
When I can't sleep, I will sort out Weibo comments, private messages, and then think about how to shoot videos later, after all, life will continue.
The work had been stagnant before, and the shooting that ChinaJoy should have done in Shanghai had not been done, and the video that should have been sent for half a month had not been sent. Now it's going to be gradually restored, but when it will return to normal, I'm not sure. I will not stay in the hotel again in a short period of time.
Liberation Daily, Shangguan News original manuscript, reprint please indicate the source
Author: Wang Qian
Source: Liberation Daily