Zhao Shi, a wealthy Hong Kong businessman, once claimed to have had tens of thousands of girlfriends in his life, although it may be exaggerated, but it all shows that he has been a bird without feet all his life, and will never stay for any woman. There are many girlfriends he has interacted with, and many of them may have been forgotten, but there should still be a few that he will never forget, and also make the outside world unforgettable, among which there will be a senior actress Yao Wei. The reason why Yao Wei will be unforgettable for Zhao Shizeng is because she gave birth to a daughter Zhao Shizhi for Zhao Shizeng, of course, she has also carried the title of Zhao Shizeng's ex-girlfriend since then, and she can't get rid of it.
The 71-year-old Yao Wei has long faded out of the entertainment industry, but occasionally appears in public and is interviewed, and now interviewed, Yao Wei can only recall the past, talking more about the mother-daughter relationship with his daughter Zhao Shizhi. She recently interviewed herself to dissect herself, review the past, and publicly reflect on the way she educated her children, admitting that her relationship with her daughter Zhao Shizhi has slowly improved, and also accepting the fact that her daughter likes the same sex.
Yao Wei was a popular actress in the 70s, but unfortunately, after a flash in the pan, it became popular and has "withered", which is not directly related to Zhao Shizeng, but Zhao Shizeng also disguised to influence Yao Wei's development. Yao Wei is a native of Shanghai, born in Shanghai, and only went to Settle in Hong Kong with his family in his teens. Because he loved singing since he was a child, he was recommended to learn to sing from a singing teacher, so he had the opportunity to sign up for Li's TV and become a contract singer. In the 70s, she was described as "the most feminine woman", cross-border films in the 80s, starred in "The Last Night of Jin Daban", became famous overnight, but after becoming famous, she slowly faded out, because she was shortlisted for the Taiwan Film Awards that year, and finally lost the award because of the insider relationship, which made her disheartened by the industry, thinking that she had worked hard but was not rewarded, and it was no longer worthy of the circle. In fact, Yao Wei had already retired in the early 1990s and never made a comeback.
Speaking of her own development in the entertainment industry, Yao Wei has a lot of feelings, which has affected her private life, which also makes her private life more colorful. Yao Wei's experience is many, life ups and downs, if her private life is divided, it can be divided into two parts, one part is emotional marriage, the other part is the mother-daughter relationship. In the love life, the most sensational is the relationship with Zhao Shizeng in the late 70s. Yao Wei looked back on this past, and could only describe himself as a young man who was stupid, not knowing that Zhao Shi had been a big heart, even if he gave birth to a daughter for the other party, it was difficult to keep the other party.
In the 1980s, Yao Wei married Yu Zhuqiang, an American overseas Chinese, and gave birth to a son after marriage, but unfortunately ended in divorce. For this relationship, Yao Wei bluntly said that he hurt himself, because at that time, his career fell into a confused period, he lived by playing mahjong every day, and he believed in feng shui, which affected the relationship between husband and wife, resulting in a divorce from the other party. After the divorce, Yao Wei lived a drunken life and dreamed of death, no longer focused on his career (90s shadow), all day long muddled, and tried to swallow 40 sleeping pills to seek short-sightedness, fortunately rescued, but also did not revitalize and carry out a new life, until later with faith, the outlook on life was reversed. Recalling these old things, Yao Wei was quite emotional, fortunately, he found salvation through faith.
To say that the biggest influence on Yao Wei is still the relationship with Zhao Shizhi's mother and daughter. Yao Wei has a son and a daughter, but has stricter requirements for his daughter Zhao Shizhi, so the relationship between mother and daughter has not been very good, coupled with the existence of the "tricky" problem that Zhao Shizhi likes girls, it is even more that the relationship between the two has collapsed. Perhaps because Zhao Shizhi is the daughter of Zhao Shizeng, Yao Wei has always placed high hopes on Zhao Shizhi, hoping that Zhao Shizhi can stand out and fight for himself, but Zhao Shizhi likes the same sex, which makes Yao Wei, who is very traditional and believes in Christianity, completely unacceptable. Many years ago, Zhao Shizhi publicly announced his marriage to Yang Ruxin, Yao Wei rarely had the same hatred with Zhao Shi, and he could not "save" his daughter, from this time on, the mother-daughter relationship fell into a freezing point, Yao Wei was forced to die and failed to do so, moved out of Hong Kong in one breath, went to Shanghai to live for a long time, and then the mother-daughter relationship has been difficult to ease.
Time is always a good medicine to ease the relationship between people, there is no deep hatred between mother and daughter, but the concept is different, the concept is different, so it is difficult to communicate, and the fact that Yao Wei is willing to do this later is also what happened in these years, especially after the outbreak of the epidemic in 2020, so that she has more opportunities to reflect on herself. In an interview, Yao Wei bluntly said that due to the relationship between the epidemic, she has been living in Hong Kong for two years, during which she has introspected herself on the way she got along with Zhao Shizhi, believing that she would have no way to teach her daughter to deteriorate the relationship between mother and daughter - Yao Wei educated her daughter in a very strict way when Zhao Shizhi was a child, which may also be the reason for Zhao Shizhi's rebellion.
After introspection, Yao Wei took the initiative to change herself, especially in the concept of the problem, and worked to improve the mother-daughter relationship with Zhao Shizhi, and now she finally accepted the fact that Zhao Shizhi likes the same sex, and the mother and daughter will meet from time to time to eat and go to church together in the past two years, and the relationship has been significantly improved. Of course, Yao Wei's so-called acceptance is also relative, for Zhao Shizhi's marriage and divorce, she still has her own insistence and views, after all, some traditions are deeply rooted and cannot be changed. Looking back, Yao Wei is 71 years old, and many things are willing to slowly let go, after all, the tighter and harder she grasps, it is herself, which is her greatest realization in these years.
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