In the contemporary society where big data is complicated, it seems that the public only values traffic!
Just like the hottest Internet celebrity Song Zhiya at the moment, countless netizens regard her as a model for independent women.
But if you think about it, is she really "independent"?

Song Zhiya's popularity is due to the popularity of all male guests and the popularity of network traffic.
On the surface, it seems to win everything, but in fact, it still relies on men to show their charm, like a silk.
And true independent women should live, think and even be spiritually independent, just like the famous "benchmark of women of the times" Meyer Musk!
At the age of 15, he retired to marry at the age of 22, he left the family at the age of 31, he trained three billionaires at nearly half a hundred years old, and he did not obey the old age to study hard at the age of 73.
Next, let's step into the world of Meyer Musk and see the extraordinary life of high-quality women!
01 Wrongly paid for lifelong proud daughter of heaven
Meyer Musk's story takes place in Canada, where Meyer Musk was born in 1948 in a small canadian town.
Meyer's father was an adventurous and world-seeker, having earlier run a farm and a clinic in Canada.
I overheard someone say that South Africa is a paradise, so I led my wife and children to settle in South Africa together.
At the same time, Meyer's father was a professional pilot who was adventurous.
When I was young, others followed my parents to the amusement park, while Meyer went to the wilderness every day to camp and adventure.
Over time, Meyer also became bold enough and fell in love with adventure.
Her parents' free-range education also made her more lively than her peers and self-sufficient in taking care of her own food, clothing, and housing.
Gradually, Meyer also came out of the woods, and she also had a life goal: to become a model.
At the age of 15, she independently completed her full-body design on the graduation catwalk and was praised by the college teachers.
With her love for the modeling industry, she spent exponential efforts on the catwalk.
At the age of 20, she completed her life goals and won the Var Queen Beauty Contest.
The following year, at the age of 21, she won the entire Miss South Africa pageant and became a great model.
While her career was smooth sailing, she did not leave her homework behind during the study period, and her grades in the class and even in the grade were very high.
During the school period, those beautiful and good-looking female classmates were almost the goddesses of the boys in the school, and Meyer was the same, and also won a lot of favor.
One of the boys, Errol, was even more aggressive with her, and it was learned that the two were high school classmates, and the other had been pursuing her since college. However, for various reasons, the two were divided and merged several times.
After graduating from college, he also offered Meyer a marriage offer, and at that time she had no idea about getting married.
In order to get the goddess, Errol went directly to Meyer's house to propose.
Under Errol's rhetoric, Meyer's parents easily granted his request.
In this way, Meyer, who was originally in the modeling circle, was forced to get married and forced to become a housewife.
In the eyes of others, Meyer's career has been smooth sailing, and he has also gained enviable love.
But no one knows that tragedy is creeping in!
Errol, who had received Meyer, felt invincible, and the campus goddess in the hearts of thousands of boys lay in his arms, satisfying his machismo.
The swelling of his heart and high emotions made him flutter and made Meyer's situation very bad.
Sometimes Errol would be very critical of her behavior, punches and kicks were common, and the worst thing happened after she was pregnant with her third child, and Errol would insult and even beat her regardless of the safety of the child.
Gradually, Meyer did not have much expectation of this relationship, and her body became thinner and thinner.
02 Self-improvement after netting out of the house
Meyer's violence and the cries of her children overwhelmed Meyer, and in the dimly lit room she made an important decision: divorce!
In that still feudal era, Meyer's behavior was snubbed by others.
Fortunately, South Africa enacted the Irreversible Marriage Breakdown Act in 1979, which gave Meyer, who was 31 years old at the time, hope of divorce.
But Errol did not agree, and tried to take out the company's property and children to make her back off.
Unfortunately, Meyer has been discouraged, only wanting custody of the children and a smooth divorce, in order to let Errol loose, she said that she could get out of the house.
In this way, Meyer successfully returned to singlehood!
A mother with three children working hard in society is destined to work harder than anyone else.
In order to earn milk powder money, she works as a model and works as a nutritionist.
At her poorest, she worked 5 jobs a day and broke her energy to earn money.
Meyer never imagined that she would become so untidy, wearing pajamas and slippers to buy groceries and working all day long.
But she did not complain about herself, but worked hard to earn money to support her family and strive to improve herself.
At the age of 42, she also earned a master's degree in nutrition, making her job more stable.
Then she seemed to have an epiphany about the true meaning of life, no longer counting on the face full of fine lines, no longer focusing on her hair coloring results, but showing the most authentic self.
Later, she broke off her contract with the previous brokerage company and cooperated with another company to try to create a different value, and she did it!
At the age of 68, she once again appeared on the cover of the magazine, and although she did not have the youthful vitality of a few years ago, she had the unique charm of a woman.
That year, everyone was attracted by Meyer's sparkling confidence, and even the famous American makeup brand "Cover Girl" also saw her charm.
She was invited to shoot a makeup commercial, which caused a sensation around the world after its successful broadcast.
Meyer's white hair has become a model for middle-aged and elderly women, how much do people like her?
Times Square, a place where top stars can reach the top, Meyer got 4 billboards in one go.
Her book "Life by Me" has been sought after by countless women! To this day, she is an idol and an object of tribute in the eyes of many women.
03 Influence children with maternal love, and children are billionaires
If Meyer's own life is wonderful enough to prove that women can survive in difficult situations, then she has raised her three children to become the world's top figures, which is worthy of the worship of all mothers!
Prospective college students admitted to prestigious universities need to accompany their mothers to read and other social hot spots abound, netizens in the lament that contemporary young people are not self-reliant at the same time, will bring a sentence "loving mother more defeats"!
The phrase "loving mother" has been passed down from ancient times to the present, and it is not so much a famous aphorism as it is a realization of the role of the mother.
And Meyer is the first leader to stand up and elevate the role of mother with strength!
While she is busy with her career, she will not neglect the children's home education.
Elon loves computer programming, so she submits a computer magazine to her son;
Kimball likes to cook, and she gives him the food she cooks;
Tosca liked stinky beauty, so she took her daughter to the show and went to work at a modeling agency.
When the children watched their mothers get too busy trying to drop out of school to help support the family, Meyer simply refused and told them to finish their studies to work part-time.
Under the guidance of Meyer's teacher and friend, the three children have become leaders in various industries!
The eldest son, Elon, with his love of programming, created PayPal, SpaceX and Tesla, squeezing out Bill Gates' position as the world's richest man.
At the same time, he was the first commercial giant in the world to use a private name to open a space company and study rockets.
In interviews with many celebrities, Elon has not hesitated to say that it is only with the support and education of his mother that he will use his life today.
The second son, Kimball, developed a construction software as an adult and received more than $300 million in return.
At the same time, he did not give up his childhood dream, created a green catering brand, has chain stores all over the United States, and became the fifth king of the catering industry.
The youngest daughter, Tosca, has become a Hollywood producer by relying on her knowledge of contact with beauty since childhood, and now has a film and television production company worth more than 100 million.
Ancient dynasties were all mothers and children, and as long as their children had a job, they would be wiped out!
Unfortunately, Meyer does not need the connections of her children, nor their help, she can stand at the top of Time Magazine on her own, compete with a group of supermodels, and win praise from people in the industry!
With those independent female characters who rely on marketing fire, in front of Meyer, it is not a slag in seconds!
Girls, instead of having so much time to watch so-and-so's imitation makeup videos and suck male quotes, why not take the time to see "Life by Me"!
Mastering the initiative in life, dreams, wealth, men and everything else will jump into your bowl!