Liu Xuezhou walked to a beautiful sea at the end of the world, and he could not find a safe haven for home. "The sun shines on the sea, and I return to the sea." In the early morning of January 24, Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, left a 10,000-word suicide note and disappeared by the sea in Sanya. On the same day, the Sanya police confirmed to the media that the boy had died in the early morning of the same day after ineffective rescue.
In recent years, under the national craze of family search, Liu Xuezhou, who is only a teenager, is lucky and smooth, with the idea of finding relatives, only two years later, there is news of his biological parents, however, his ending is more tragic than other family searching for relatives.
Hearing the news of Liu Xuezhou's suicide, Liu Ya, who had slept with him on bunk beds, still can't believe it, "From the perspective of a bystander, I think he just wants a attention, care and fairness, but this is considered by some people to be hype." He was still too young, and if there was a little bit of the city government, he would not take this road. ”
"Born to Be Light and Return time is also pure" is Liu Xuezhou's last long article. He began by being abandoned and finally abandoned, a victim of bullying in school, a boy looking for relatives, and a person who strives to shine. But the light did not shine in the Year of the Tiger, and in the end, the only label he defined for himself was strength.
For 33 days, the most "lucky" person becomes the most unfortunate person
Compared with Sun Haiyang's 14 years of searching for sons, Shen Junliang's 15 years of searching for sons, and Guo Gangtang's 24 years of searching for sons... Liu Xuezhou's search for relatives seems to be smoother.
He first posted the news through the "Baby Homecoming" family search website, and then went to the police station to collect blood and compare DNA, until December 2021, when he posted a family search video on the Internet with the help of volunteers, which attracted the attention of netizens and the media. Perhaps with some good luck, a few days after the release of the video, Liu Xuezhou found a vaccination book of his childhood in the hands of the elderly at home, which not only recorded his original name "Ding Jing", but also the name of his biological father.
On December 15, 2021, Shanxi police found Liu Xuezhou's biological father through DNA comparison. A week later, he met his biological father in Shijiazhuang. Soon, in January this year, Liu Xuezhou met his birth mother in Inner Mongolia.
Liu Xuezhou and his birth mother took a group photo
"The dust has settled" "Today is a happy 'little friend'", Liu Xuezhou updated on the social platform the joy of his successive recognition with his biological parents. There may be a little bit of loss in this joy, the birth parents are divorced and have a new family. Even so, everything seems to be on the right track after the search for relatives, but I don't know that this is only a brief dawn before the abyss.
On January 17, Liu Xuezhou posted information on Weibo and Douyin platforms about being blocked by his birth mother. He also carried the "infamy" overnight. The reason is that his birth mother said that Liu Xuezhou required his biological parents to divorce and remarry separately to form a family, and asked his biological parents to pay for their own houses. In order to restore the peace of life, the birth mother blacked out Liu Xuezhou. For such a statement, on January 19, Liu Xuezhou continued to publish blogs saying that he had never asked his parents to buy a house for him in Hebei, nor had he ever asked to live with his parents. Liu Xuezhou believes that this is "turning black and white upside down.".
On January 24, just 33 days after finding his birth parents, Liu Xuezhou went from being the "luckiest" person to the most unfortunate. "Last night the two of us also sent a message about the training course to start in the next year, and he was in good shape and said that he would continue [the class] in the next year." On the same day, Liu Ya told the New Yellow River reporter that after mid-December last year, Liu Xuezhou applied for a teacher at his training school through information on the online recruitment platform. They spent twenty days together, "and we lived together in the dormitory, bunk beds. ”
At first, Liu Ya did not know the tortuous life experience behind Liu Xuezhou, thinking that he was just a college student who used his vacation to come here to work and study, and he had a salary of more than 100 yuan a day. In the dormitory, he never confided in everyone about his past. In the meantime, Liu Xuezhou took a leave of absence for a few days on the grounds that there was something at home. Later, everyone learned that Liu Xuezhou had gone to recognize his relatives.
The love of a group of people around me could not withstand the Internet violence
Only thirty days after the success of the search for relatives, Liu Xuezhou, a strong boy who "tried to shine", could not be strong again after all. In the early morning of the 24th, he posted a suspected suicide note on Weibo, recalling his tortuous experience of more than ten years. In the eyes of many people, encountering online violence or the last straw that overwhelmed Liu Xuezhou.
According to the news that Liu Xuezhou had posted on social platforms before his death, because of the "wanting a home and buying a house" storm between him and his biological parents, netizens questioned his purpose of finding relatives. "Just for the money", "When to live stream the goods, the heart of the man", "just recognize the family to let the family buy you a house, you are full of food" "Too disgusting you"... Liu Xuezhou's private letters were full of doubts about him, even insults, like a dagger, pierced into his flesh and blood. He tried to explain to these netizens, but found that most of these netizens registered as "small numbers" and private accounts.
On January 24, Wang Li, a friend who claimed to have a good relationship with Liu Xuezhou before his death, told the New Yellow River reporter that Liu Xuezhou had a long telephone conversation before he went to Sanya for the last time. "The impression of The state (Liu Xuezhou) has always been very positive and optimistic, and there is no idea of taking a life. He said that he went to Sanya this time to deal with some things. Wang Li said that Liu Xuezhou had previously told her that she had depression tendencies, and since the problem with her birth mother, the whole person's state had deteriorated. He also received private messages and insults from many netizens.
Wang Li said that there is a group of people who care for Liu Xuezhou who have been helping him, "Everyone has told him to look forward in everything by sharing some film and television works and music with the state, as well as his own experience, and friends will take him out to play, the main purpose is to divert the attention of the state and help him get through this hurdle, that is, being abandoned by his parents for the second time and online violence." ”
On January 19, Liu Xuezhou pictured his birth mother in an interview with a media outlet on Weibo, saying that they borrowed money to let Liu travel to Sanya, and that Liu repeatedly asked them to buy a house for him, and threatened his biological parents to divorce separately. In the eyes of netizens, the media only listened to the one-sided words of the birth mother and published reports, which is unfair and has nothing to do with the occurrence of follow-up Internet violence.
In the view of lawyer Wang Xingqi, a partner at Hebei Asia-Pacific Law Firm, according to the current laws and regulations mentioned in Liu Xuezhou's suicide note, before liu Xuezhou committed suicide, the internet violence Liu Xuezhou confessed to the purpose of relatives and asked for real estate, etc., was not instigating and assisting suicide, and the causal relationship between liu xuezhou and his suicide behavior did not constitute a causal relationship in criminal law, nor could it be determined that there were criminal acts in these online violence contents. However, cyber rioters can be prosecuted in terms of civil liability. Zhou Zhaocheng, a lawyer who has proposed to comprehensively strengthen the supervision of Internet platforms and call for legislation related to "cracking down on online violence", also publicly claimed that "online violence is a tool for killing." ”
On the afternoon of January 24, the official Weibo of Weibo Community Management released a message saying that according to user reports and complaints, the special team for the protection of minors in the community conducted investigation and cleaning up the illegal content related to the leakage of the personal privacy of the parties and provoking contradictions and disputes, and cleaned up 290 pieces of content. At the same time, the community did not find that the parties had recently reported complaints against other users in the Weibo site. In the next step, the community will continue to optimize the entrance for reporting and complaints, and once important clues are found, the public security department and the local government will take action at the first time. In terms of user privacy protection, the site intends to launch two new features.
Liu Xuezhou's last weibo post was fixed at 00:02 on January 24, 2022. As of press time, there were as many as 231,000 messages. There is anxiety and comfort, there is regret and sorrow. "Your life may be very dark, but you have gritted your teeth and survived, and the future will only get better and better!" Believe me! You can go and realize your dreams, do a lot of things you love, see landscapes you've never seen before..."
In the dark, I still try to shine
No one can pull you into the darkness, and Liu Xuezhou, who is in the darkness, waters his life with illness, but leaves countless tenderness to the world.
In his early years, Liu Xuezhou grew up with his adoptive parents in Nangong City, Xingtai, Hebei Province. At the age of 4, both of his adoptive parents died due to an accident. After that, Liu Xuezhou lived with the elderly in his family.
The darkness of life ensued. Liu Xuezhou said in his suicide note that after going to school in the village, "many parents of the same class told the classmates not to let them play with me", and the "isolation" from the classmates gradually evolved into grabbing stationery, pushing the toilet and various frames.
Some people bullied him into wearing broken clothes, was snatched by his senior classmates, was ridden on his body and punched his face with his fists, and met a "perverted male teacher" in junior high school. This eventually led to his tendency to depression.
The world kissed me with pain, but I sang in return. It is unimaginable that children who grow up in such an environment are still doing their best to emit light and heat.
Liu Xuezhou Junior High School studied at Nangong Bilingual School, according to the school's official WeChat public account, in December 2019, Liu Xuezhou was one of the candidates for the school's "Top Ten People Who Touched the Campus Selection Activity (Junior High School)". The introduction of the selection activity describes him as a student leader and also serves as the president of the student council. "Although he is an orphan, he has shown 'impressive achievements' everywhere. Since entering the school, he has been diligent and studious, has achieved excellent academic performance, and has won countless honors, and has achieved the climb of life step by step."
On Weibo, Liu Xuezhou also posted his own certificates, and red awards hung all over the walls and beds. He said that these were the ones he had spelled out one by one in the dark. The most recent was in January 2022, when Liu Xuezhou was named the "Most Beautiful Volunteer" by the community for his active participation in the prevention and control of the epidemic in the community.
It is hard for the world to imagine that in the eyes of his teachers, he has experienced such a tribulation. But the world knows that those who stretch out the claws of sin must take responsibility for this. On the 24th, the New Yellow River reporter called the Education Bureau of Nangong City in Xingtai, Hebei Province, and the staff said that in response to the indecent and other contents mentioned in Liu Xuezhou's suicide note, the Education Bureau has intervened in the investigation. "At present, we have contacted the school and are investigating and verifying the relevant issues. There will certainly be a findings to be announced. The staff said.
On the same day, the New Yellow River reporter called nangong bilingual school many times, and the landline was unanswered, and the phone below the public number was hung up and no one answered.
The end of the world also did not find a home
"If we had known about his situation earlier, we would have cared for and taken care of him even more." Liu Ya was remorseful. In his view, Liu Xuezhou just wants a attention, care and fairness, but this is considered by some people to be hype.
Liu Xuezhou mentioned in the long article that when he was invited by his birth mother to attend his brother's birthday party, he heard the birth mother's family complaining about recognizing him and taking him home. Liu Xuezhou said that he could only pretend not to hear, but "his heart was very desperate" and he had to flee them on the grounds of returning to Hebei to "resign". Because the school was closed, Liu Xuezhou, who returned to Hebei, had nowhere to go, so he contacted his aunt.
At that time, Liu Xuezhou still longed for the warmth of home. In a phone call with his birth mother, he mentioned that he "wants a home", but it triggered a series of interpretations such as "buying a house" and "family restructuring". In fact, regarding the matter of "buying a house", Liu Xuezhou's aunt once revealed in an interview with the media: "Liu Xuezhou said to buy a house, but he also said that it is okay to rent a house, just the smallest kind of one-bedroom and one-living room." In order to prove his innocence, Liu Xuezhou posted that he considered suing his biological parents in court, but he was a child after all, and finally chose to "return the time and be clean.".
In just over a decade of life, starting with being abandoned and finally abandoned, he wrote on Weibo: His biological parents live in the world, but they have to receive "orphan subsidies"... Many people who had helped him find his relatives said that if they knew that this was the end, nothing would help him find his relatives.
Liu Xuezhou once posted on social media that he wanted to prosecute his birth parents, so were his birth parents suspected of abandonment and child abduction? Lawyer Wang Xingqi, a partner at Hebei Asia-Pacific Law Firm, said that at present, Liu Xuezhou's guardian is still in the family of his adoptive parents, and whether his biological parents are suspected of abandonment still needs to be further explored at the legal level.
"Liu Xuezhou's biological parents betrayed Liu Xuezhou to others after they were born, and they have been suspected of child abduction and abandonment in the criminal law." Zhou Zhaocheng said, "After searching for relatives, her biological mother blacked him out and abandoned him again, which eventually led to Liu Xuezhou choosing suicide. These two crimes are public prosecution cases, and it is believed that the relevant public security organs and procuratorial organs will conduct a review to determine whether they are suspected of crimes and decide whether to file a case. On the evening of January 24, according to a number of media reports, the Shanxi police had received an alarm about Liu Xuezhou's sale and sold, and found his biological parents to take notes.
Liu Xuezhou went to the end of the world and did not find his home. When the time went back to 2:00 a.m. on December 11, 2021, when Liu Xuezhou had not yet recognized his biological parents, he wrote on Weibo: I hope that one day I can become an ordinary child, even for a day.
New Yellow River client reporter: Li Zhen Ding Guobin Editor: Zheng Chuqiao