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There wasn't a woman who wasn't expecting to receive gifts and candlelight dinners.
However, many times, on Valentine's Day or birthday, you may not receive a gift, not even a word of blessing.
If not, don't be disappointed, and don't care.
Because, the best gift of a woman's life does not need anyone to give, but to give to herself.
01 Give yourself physical and mental freedom
As women, we always carry all kinds of expectations:
To be a good wife and mother, to make a good dish, to work to earn money, to take care of the family...
How should women live?
There is a saying that is very good: not afraid, no limit, is the background of life.
A woman who can control her own life is free, live more dashingly, live faster.
What does a woman look like at its best?
Some people say this: women will lose a lot of things in this life, beauty, money, time, but the most important thing they should lose is a healthy body, a happy family, a favorite career, and a good state of life.
Although he is busy with life all day, he will encounter troubles and difficulties, but he still lives happily.
The secret is that they live freely. Women who can control their own lives are free, and freedom makes them live more elegantly and happily.
02 Give yourself financial independence
The writer Su Hei once said that a truly happy woman must have the following conditions:
"Emotional stability, the ability to think independently, a fulfilling spiritual world, economic independence without relying on others, and proper management of one's own desires."
Among them, financial independence is important, often meaning you have more choices.
In the older generation's conception, the former man was the main source of income in the family and held the financial power of the family. And women want to spend money, they must first get the approval of men.
But as a stay-at-home mother, there is no source of income, and you can only ask your husband for money in a low voice.
However, women with financial freedom are completely different.
The money is earned by yourself, and how to spend the money is up to you. If you want to buy a dress, swipe your card; if you want to travel, you want to go; you want to eat any food, you can leave at any time.
A woman who is financially free, she must be confident, and this confidence will make her shine.
If women want to live with confidence, they should earn their own money and spend it themselves.
03 Give yourself the best of you
As the saying goes: "People in the rivers and lakes can't help themselves." We play different roles, either way, we have to live ourselves.
Be the best version of ourselves, too often we are pleasing others and neglect to spend time pleasing ourselves.
As a woman, try to make yourself a little more refined, don't waste a lot of youth.
Be a woman with an exquisite life and value your personal image.
From posture to skin tone, from diet to exercise, create the aura that suits you best.
Pay attention to maintenance in life, drink a cup of warm boiled water on an empty stomach in the morning, and drink a cup of warm milk before going to bed.
Wash your face well every day, put on makeup well, especially put on some lipstick, and your mood will be different.
Women who love to dress themselves up tend to like all the good things and have a good heart. They know inner beauty and care about the outside.
Cultivate your body, grasp the present, and maintain a peaceful state of mind, as long as you are better than yesterday, it is enough.
As a woman, don't blindly copy the life methods of others, and believe that other people's words are the truth.
Think independently about your own life time and discover the beauty in life.
As long as we love ourselves well, live every day seriously, and become the best version of ourselves, it is the best gift you can give yourself.
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Author: Bamboo Princess; Source: AiJia Youdao, ID: trgfajyd.
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