There is a line in the movie "Heartbeat" that reads: "If the Si people are rainbows, they will know that there is a party when they meet them." ”
This sentence also explains the love thing very well, when you meet the person who is as brilliant as a rainbow, you will feel that there is really such an unparalleled love.
When you are truly in love with someone, you will have different feelings in your heart, and your emotions will fluctuate with it, happy or sad, excited or angry, as if these emotions have been mobilized.
When you see each other, you will feel very happy, your eyes will turn with each other, reluctant to leave; when you can't see each other, you will miss them like crazy, only to feel that time has passed so slowly, I really want to see ta when I open my eyes.
When the other party often chats with you, or is particularly good to you, you will be particularly excited, will feel that ta's heart for you is the same as your ta' heart; and when the other party ignores you, you will be very lost, do not know what you have done wrong, and faintly feel heartache.
In fact, these feelings are nothing more than the performance of a person, and when you start to like each other, you will unconsciously be disturbed by these feelings.
If you love a person, you tend to have three feelings.
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I always feel that the other party has a feeling of déjà vu
If you like a person, you will always feel that you have seen each other somewhere, obviously it is the first time, but you feel that you have known each other for a long time, and you have a special feeling for ta.
As the song goes, "We seem to have seen each other somewhere, do you remember?" It was as if it was a spring, and I had just sprouted..."
Or maybe it's like Jia Baoyu first saw Lin Daiyu and said to her, "Where do I seem to have seen this sister?" "This is the fate of fate, two people who obviously do not know, but always feel a sense of déjà vu, may really be doomed in the previous life, this life will meet again."
This may be the origin of the love for a person, because it feels familiar, because it feels familiar to the other party, it is possible to fall in love with the TA at first sight, it is possible to fall in love with the TA, and want to be with the TA all the time.
The so-called heartbeat is just a momentary telepathy, when you see the first glance of ta, without even saying a word, it is determined to be TA.
The "law of attraction" mentioned by the writer Li Jing is exactly like this, she once told her own love story, when she determined that person was her soul mate within five minutes, and she couldn't say what it felt like, probably the so-called soul attraction, when she saw his eyes, it was determined that it was him.
Later, her lover Yan Yan lived together and lived a happy life for her from Beijing to her small town, and such a love was really enviable.
Love is very wonderful, obviously never seen two people, but always have a sense of déjà vu, and such two people are often in love with each other.
02
When you can't see each other, you miss each other very much
Faye Wong sang in the song: "Thoughts are a very mysterious thing, it is silent and breathless..."
I wonder if you've ever missed someone? I don't know how you feel when you miss it? When you really love a person, you will definitely have this feeling, that is, you will be very happy to see him, and if you don't see him, you will miss it, even if two people have just been separated for a minute, you will feel that you want to think of him again.
This may be the feeling of really liking a person, like it, you will miss each other every moment, whether it is hearing a song, seeing a certain text, or seeing the constellations related to the other party, just think of TA, you can't help but want to contact TA.
You simply can't control this kind of missing, just like you can't control falling in love with him, love is the most unreasonable thing to talk about, like is like.
A reader once left a message saying: "I just feel like ta, even if I know that I will see ta again tomorrow morning, this night is still missing TA, I can't help but look at our past chat history, I can't help but look at our photos, I can't help but chat with TA, maybe this is the feeling of true love alone." 」 ”
If you really love a person, you will have this feeling, you will miss each other all the time, you will worry about each other all the time, this is love.
03
With him, you will feel very happy
What does true happiness look like? Maybe it's when you're with someone you like, because you like it, you feel like doing everything you do.
When you are in love with a person, you will want to see him every moment, as long as you are with him, no matter what you do, you will feel very happy, even if two people just sit and do not talk, as long as you have him by your side, you will feel that this is a kind of happiness.
Some people will always feel unhappy, always looking for happiness, in fact, happiness is not difficult to say, it is not easy to say that it is not easy, as long as you feel it with your heart, you can feel happiness, the key is to see who you are with.
As the saying goes: "Travel is not how many beautiful landscapes you see, but the company of the person you love, even if the scenery is worse, it has become the most beautiful scenery in ta's eyes." ”
As long as you have him around, you will automatically block out those unhappiness, and the rest is the beauty of being with him.
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summary
If you love a person, you will have such a feeling, you will feel that you have a sense of déjà vu with each other, when you can't meet each other, you miss him very much, and you will feel very happy with him.
Don't miss someone who really loves you, don't be afraid to hesitate, be brave to love, as long as it is happy at the moment, as for the future, don't think about it.
In modern society, the chance of encountering true love is not high, if there is a person who is willing to fight for you and is willing to treat you with sincerity, then you must cherish it.